Why Do Wives Cheat On there Husbands After only 3 1/2 Years of Marriage when the Husband Did and Gave her ever?

niptuck2630

People make mistakes, and some day down the road she will regret her mistakes and learn from them for the future.

Ryde-0n

Most women/wives attribute their poor behavior to becoming " comfortable and secure."

The reasonable conclusion is that the only way a woman/wife will treat their man well is if she is uncomfortable and insecure.

Cammie

Sorry but, your everything and her everything wasn't aligned. Its her lack of character so don't let this make you feel bad about your good effort.

ilkjd06

Life is like this sometimes. I know how you feel. All you want is to make someone happy and to have their love in return, and for some reason you can't even have that. Its messed up but you just got to move on. Maybe she wanted more, maybe she wanted more from someone else, maybe she never even liked you, its no telling.

Jackie

There just was not enough excitement there, and she did not love you, or fell out of love with you. Sometimes, well actually a lot, this happens between couples.

mel

when a person cheats on their significant other it is something wrong with the person doing the cheating inside them emotionally it is nothing the victim of this situation did i am sorry to hear that this has happened to you you have two choices now as to what to do to leave her and move on or try to work things out go to counseling etc either way it will be a long tough road i hope everything works out for you good luck again sorry to hear what happened and remember 2 wrongs does not ever make things correct

Heraclius

Call me cynical but it might be something as simple as the hormones wearing off
Once they go then those rose tinted glasses come off. Pretty much like getting drunk and waking up the next day with someone who looks totally different to the night before
On the other hand maybe you made things too easy for her. Who knows?
But it seems the two of you just didn't click after all this time
Try not to take it personally though
As you say maybe it turned out you weren't what she was really looking for and that's not your fault
You should only be yourself and not what someone expects you to be
There's nothing to be gained from trying to please someone and pretending to yourself that you can be everything they want you to be because if the chemistry isn't there you're wasting your time
Have you asked her why she did this?
Because if you really want to learn anything she's the only one who can tell you

Goldielocks

I'm sorry. You sound like a nice man.

1.) she wasn't in love to begin with
2.) her emotions were not being fulfilled
3.) people grow, and sometimes they grow apart

Chuckster

If you are a good hearted man and work to please a woman, if they are the wrong kiund, they will take advantage of you because they think they can. Sleeping with someone else is the ultimate form of disrespect.

DITCH THE *****! If she has a sister, trake her out and **** the **** out of her and video tape it and then send it too her. If she doesn't, ask her mother out and then do the same thing to her. That doesn't work, find her best friend and **** her and send the video to her.

Listen, I am only trying to cheer you up a little with that. Women like you describe are never happy no matter how much you give them or how much you make, they always want more. Bow out gracefully and look for the right woman who will return your effection and respect you like you respect her. Finally, don't settle for anything les than RESPECT!

Hope this helps.

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