Why Does Everyone Keep Judging Me?

phenobarbiedoll@ymail.com

You will understand when you become his wife and he starts seeing his new superstar.

Dirt Poor

Would you appreciate it in say ten years time, when he has divorced his current wife and married you, if some other woman came along and said "It's not my fault he's cheating on you?"

divamom

Thats a tough situation to be in. But you put yourself in it so you deserve to be called names.

love my baby

You both are wrong. You know he is married & apparently you are trying to start some sort of relationship. He is lying to his wife, which should tell you something about his character. You are not only wrong for hanging out with a married woman's husband, you are not very intelligent if you think he is a man of good character. Do you really want a man who is willing to cheat?

Kari

Once you get a little older and learn to respect yourself then you will learn your lesson. Don't be treated as the sl*t on the side because that's all you are. Don't you have any friends to go out with? This is usually a case of a loner.

LATIN CHICK

WELL HOW WOULD U LIKE IT IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU I MEAN WHAT WOULD U DO IF UR HUSBAND WAS MESSING WITH ANOTHER GURL U WOULDNT LIKE IT SO THINK ABOUT IT

Amiii

He is the one that's wrong, but it doesn't stop it from being partly your fault too, because (although I hate to use such a rubbish expression) it DOES take two to tango love.

iiidontknowdoyou

You're right low life skanks like you are human!

Now What?!!

Why do you care what people think? Is it the guilt? You're wrong because he is married and it takes two to cheat. How would you feel if your husband/boyfriend was sleeping with another woman?.. How would you feel about that woman if she knew about you and still slept with your man?

Bernedette

Marriage is important. If you want to remain "human" then people shouldn't get married. Even dolphins commit to own another. How would you feel when it you being cheated on. Look at the other Boleyn girl. You know this is hurtful and you are still doing it that is why people are judging you.

infinite crisis 247

1. the reason that he's so exciting is because he's forbidden. if he were single, you probably wouldnt want him.

2. they are judging you because deep down even you know what you are doing is wrong. granted, you are right, he is the one that is cheating. however, you are not doing him any favors to him or yourself by giving him someone to cheat with.

3. it will become "your problem" when his wife shows up at your door with a gun, once she traces you to those text msgs. you think that any guy is worth getting a 9 mm slug in your face?

ladywildfireok

As a human, I take great offense at you claiming that you are "just being human." Humans are blessed with the gift of making choices, and being able to reason, and have compassion.
You are being a selfish human. What makes you think he won't cheat on you at some point in time. He is the one who made the vows to stay faithful to his wife. But your utter disrespect for marriage in general is disgusting. Someday, if some man decides to marry you, I hope you get what you are giving!

shortmama7j

Well if he is cheating with you and not leaving his wife then you see how important you really are to him. All you are to him is a piece of @$$ not worthy of leaving his wife for. He will toss you aside when something better comes along and trust me it will.
You are just adding to their marital problems.

Crystal LeeAnn

Being human is not the issue. The issue is that he is married and you are allowing his attention. If it was not you, he would show his attentions on another. He just wants to have his cake and eat it too. He is not that concerned about you and your feelings. All he wants is some on the side.

So, you do need to leave him alone and discourage his attentions. Be kind and let him know that you appreciate it, but you need someone for yourself and not have to share him with a wife. You would love to have a single man that shows you the same kind of attention, but you need him to focus on you and not a family too.

Kris

Put yourself in his wife's shoes. You have legally become one with a person who you love and adore. Sure, things aren't always peaches and cream, but you love your husband with all your heart and live each day waking to him. Little do you know, while your striving to make things work and trying to be the best wife you can be, he's out with some woman getting his kicks not caring about your feelings or taking your love into consideration. Honestly, put yourself in that position. Sit in silence and put yourself in her shoes and then write us back.

Happy-2

Personally, I agree with you that the one who is doing the most wrong is your lover. You're only contributing by engaging in this with full knowledge, which is a lesser sin, to be sure.

My concern for you is that you don't seem to feel that you deserve a man all your own, a man with whom you have just as much chemistry, but who can be faithful to you and committed only to you. You seem to be selling yourself short. I wonder why you think you deserve no better than this.

James L

Ho....fo 'sho

daddy8284

He's a piece of **** and you hold very low standards for te quality of men you date. He's asking you why your single? Maybe you should ask him why he's married. But apparently, the institution of marriage means nothing to you either. Oh, and what seperates humans from other animals is that we should know right from wrong.

a m d

from another side ....... if he did it with his wife ( i mean cheating on his wife with you or what ever you call it ) don't you think he would do it for you ....... you think about it and put your self in his wife's situation

treadways_lover84

Well look at it as if you were married and your husband was talking to another women like you and this guy talk how would you feel about her wrecking your marriage wouldn't feel so well would it??

Lina_Christi

ok whatever is happening now, you are partly to blame along with him. I understand how u feel but ur perspective is all wrong. Its amazing that by just one passage i can tell so much about you its scary!

1/ you have no regard or respect for god's marrital arrangement
2/ you seeing urself as innocent in ths whole thing means that you're not very smart
3/ this "happiness" that u have wont last very long
4/you're very, VERY, selfish.
5/ you dont have strong religious beliefs or u wd understand that you sin in thought, word and deed and you and this guy are committing a serious, SERIOUS sin.
6/ you are not the only outside women this man is gonna have or has ever had.
7/ there is a high chance that he can destroy your health.

i can go on and on but im only getting 2 points for this question and u clearly aren't worth all this speech because

8/ you're still gonna continue having this affair.

HAPPY CHEATING!!!! cuz you'll be hurt shortly.

icewitch54

What you are being is used by a married man who is enjoying the thrill of your attention while still 'safely' married. He should know better, especially, as I suspect he'll stay that way unless something goes seriously wrong with his happy little best of both worlds scenario. Eventually you'll tire of being alone on holidays and birthdays and resent that he is spending time with his wife.
You would actually be better off out of that situation.
You ask " Isn't he the one that's wrong, the one that's wrecking his own home life", well, yes and no. Yes he is wrong, but so are you because if his home life is wrecked you will have contributed to that. You also say "I don't see how what we have even interferes with what's going on in his home" well, of course it does because he is interacting with you and taking that time away from his wife.
To put it into perspective, if you were his wife and he was doing to you what you both are doing to his wife, whether she knows or not, how would you feel then?

luvlisteningtomusic

First of all you are on here asking this question yes you will be judged by others. You my dear are second best to this man. He doesn't even care about his wife or children if he has any. He is thinking he is number 1 due to he is having his cake and eating it too. I cannot understand why you would want to play that role. You must not think much of yourself since you think playing second best is ok. You are being selfish as well. Yes the husband is a big part of the cheating and he is hurting his family by doing so however you know he is married and possibly has kids involved but you are only thinking about yourself. What kind of relationship do you think you can gain by this. Say he was going to leave his wife for you he will return the favor back to you as well. You will have to deal with an ex wife who will always hate you and children who will never like you because you helped break up their family. There are so many guys out there why not go for a single one. You are a home wrecker. Yes I judged you.

Annabella

You are a HOT MESS. People are judging you because quite frankly you're not very bright. You're a poor judge of character if you're even interested in this man. He is capable of looking a woman right in the face & then deceiving her. YOU haven't clued into that small fact yet. You're just in LA LA land because you're a SUPERSTAR. Haven't you ever felt bad for that little retarded girl on the playground? LOL!

You said no man has ever shown you this much attention. You don't love him. You love the way he makes you FEEL about yourself. Quit looking for men to validate you. It's sad.

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