Why am I attracted to "bad boys"?
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Why am I attracted to "bad boys"?
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Or guys who usually don't treat me right? I guess I'm what you'd call the "good girl" I'm an Elementary Education/School Psych. major, I'm involved in my church & volunteer...I'm kind of a meek personality though, shy but not to a fault & very friendly...I think a lot of these guys see me as naive but I think it's the "danger" of them, the fact that I could get burned...
I know I probably sound moronic right now, but I've always taken the "safe" route of everything, I'm not much of a risk-taker...
what attracts these "good girls" (like me) to "bad boys"?
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Well, I...feel like I want to break out of that "good girl" shell, like I really want to lose my virginity...I'm 20 btw...
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Confused
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Just because you have always been on the safe side. You like the idea of being "bad" but wont do it because you know it is bad. The bad boys are exciting and fun and adventurous. it is very normal for the good girls to be attracted to the bad boys. Which is fine, but have a limit and know when to walk away. |
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observer
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are you sure you are a good girl? |
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ArMy WiFe
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Oh girl we are all attracted to the bad boys. It's the fact that they take risks and it seems as though they have no conciquences. You feel like they can take you on some sort of ride and it's a rush.
We all like the men/boys we aren't supposed to. the ones that may or may not treat us right but could get us in a lot of trouble for stuff we worked so hard for. |
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ragdoll1959
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You ned to Buy a Harley! Then go to a club..not a gang. In the club you will meet men who are attorneys engineers,own business's who have a hair up their asses too! They are fun but responsible! They are involved in charities and have a riot doing them! Go for it lady! |
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benthere
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wish i knew i fall into the same trap myself good luck |
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jude
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u feel the bad boys are inferior to u, and it boosts your self worth to be involved with someone u feel is less than u, also bad guys are exciting, always something going on with them, and u are probably quite naive if u have lived a sheltered life. it may be fun now liking the bad boys but as u get older they will cease to impress u. |
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DianeP
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Well...there are many reasons: 1) you may suffer from a low self esteem and feel you don't deserve better......2) you love drama.....3) you are trying to prove something to yourself and others......4) You are hoping he will love you enough to change his "bad boy" ways.....5) You may be co-dependent |
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Smirny
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the rush of it, maybe to subconsciously get back at daddy. |
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Georgio (I'm a dude)
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Thats cuz you chics dig drama. |
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billscott92787
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ALL kinds of women get attracted to these type of dudes. Especially loser guys that don't want to take care of a woman or they don't want to show them REAL affection. They get attracted to the FEAR of the unknown the bad ness. But normally it ends up with them getting hurt. |
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mizzhollywood28
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Maybe your life is boring, and you need something fun. |
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