Why are men so lustful?

A lot of guys I date only see that am attractive and nothing else... they don't seem to care that i'm also smart and these guys know im smart because they go to my same college yet they never comment me on my personality just how i look nice. They don't care about personality..I know not all men are like this but lots are! Why are men so into physical attraction while women are so emotional like me lol...its frustrating while your trying to date and find someone you truly like :(
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@ Monica: You don't know me so please don't judge me!! smdh

jnjmommy

It's been known for years that physical attractiveness is what gets them to come to you....not your brains. It's your brains and personality that gets them to actually stay with you. All men care about personality on some level but most men are smart enough to know better then to comment on how someone is such a nice person..because then that woman will automatically assume he doesn't think she is pretty.
It just seems like men can't win. We b*tch when they don't compliment our looks then we b*tch when the don't compliment our personality. Just say thanks for the compliments, appreciate it, and move on. Soon enough there will be a guy who compliments both.

mrs g3

Too many men are led around in life by their "little head". There are some who appreciate the whole person, keep looking til you find one, because if you settle for a horn dog, your future will be fiulled with lies, cheating, and tears.

Jimmy

You're hanging out with the wrong guys, that's all.

She's a TEN

Looks are only skin deep and eventually we all find that only to be very true. Beauty gets the attention we need to meet someone attractive, but once you start dating he will look at the inner you. Nobody wants a pretty face and not much inside for very long. Through the years I've come to find out that the best looking guys were the worst to date because of their arrogance.

Slave2fads

Well we think that women like comments on their appearance so that's what we give. I know what you're sayin' as a girl I like said she would love to hear compliments on her personality Instead of just her body and tail.

Optimist

Means that you are not dating smart guys.

prettylittlething

Because guys typically do not mature as fast as women do. They are out for the good time and not ready to settle yet. Look for ones that may be a couple years older than you and a different type of guy that you've been attracting.

John

Remember men are frustrated farmers ... just looking to plant those seeds.

Some of us grow up and seek out a person with talent, direction and a life plan...

Others get bald spots, buy sports cars, and always want to seed the planet.

About comments: Most guys are under the impression ladies like complements on their appearance or clothing ... sounds like the guys you run into are trying to open a conversation in the only way they know how. Talk to them a bit .... see if their elevator goes to more than one floor. Then decide he's an idiot.

Sound like your a bit handi-caped ... try dressing down (Do the Ugly Betty) and I bet you meet a whole different class of guys.

Best of Luck !!

Catholic Corrector

this is the year 2010, what did you expect? lol

Monica

you are so full of yourself. women have lustful thoughts too like you. Wake up girlfriend because some men may not find you attractive but just want to see your panties and leave you.

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