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may25
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I went through the same thing and I am still with the guy. I'll tell you this and this is what my grandma told me. It'll work, cause I wanted it to work for the kids. But know that he is a cheater and you can never trust him and it is a hard life. My honest advice is you can except and live with it or you can leave. You know why because chances are and this is about 99% true, he will not change. If you think that you can handle always looking over your shoulder and constantly wondering what he is doing now than you can make it work. From someone who knows I would say leave before you become to co-dependant and you no longer have the will power to leave.
Good luck to you. |
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Chickybabe
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Not at all...and deep down inside you know it...he has cheated on you so many times...your really want to be his doormat?_ |
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joandi_99
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Not a chance. Love yourself more than him and move on to someone who is good enough for you sister. |
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misstery
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I am really sorry for the awful hurt you are feeling. This is easier said than done, but cut him loose. Have respect for yourself, 'cause he isn't respecting you dear. |
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stinkypinky
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run girl run! |
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LM S
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Let it go and move on. He's a waste of your energy and love. If he's cheating on you, he doesn't care about anyone but himself and you will never win. He sounds pathetic. Be a good parent and kick him out of your life. |
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paradigm
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NO, sorry, GET OUT NOW!! |
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neonatheart
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sweetie, you need counseling. i'm not being smart alecky or anything, but you seriously need someone to talk to about this. b/c you said you feel numb. that worries me.
this isnt the forum for you to vent b/c of how many people will not be qualified to help you, please speak to a professional, or a clergy person and seek family support.
i'm going to pray for you to be comforted. |
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menolikey811
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honestly no. please don't put yourself and especially your kids through that again. would you want to live your life wondering what he's doing when your not around? or when he leaves the house? is that what you want your kids to learn? the nerve of that guy! it's not your fault. you gave him another chance, he screwed it up, and that's that. you did your part he didn't do his. best of luck with your decisions! |
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shaikh
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what will work
ask that two timimg bas@##**
to get lost
u deserve someone better
how about me?? |
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candleinthewind7579
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No it cannot work! You have tried, and he has proven to you that he's a liar and a cheater. You cannot love someone that can't be trusted. Move on with your life, and meet someone who will treat you and your children with love and respect |
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SexyMami
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SORRY TO TELL YOU DIS SWEETIE BUT ONCE A CHEATER IS ALWAYS A CHEATER |
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Gordita de Oro
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my theory is that some men like to have the options...if they can't get it from one woman they will get it from the other one |
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Brinlarr
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it is a dumb question , he cant help himself in front of you he is planning to cheat again, every word that comes out of his mouth is lie |
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Kenneth C
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I think your ex-huband is sorry, not all men. It's obvious your husband is a clown that doesn't respect you nor appreciates the second chance or love and support you have given him. Your husband should be your friend. Friends don't treat their friends the way your man has treated you. The only responsibility your ex has is to help you raise your children. Other than that, drop him. You know in your heart it won't work. Don't go through the pain of forcing it to work. There are other MEN out there that will love and honor you. Stop wasting your time with him, get your child support from him, and move on. Obviously, he has. |
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Chicago Girl
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Get out of the marriage, again. He will not change. I know its gonna hurt but its worse for you to go on like this. Good Luck and do it for the kids too. You will not be able to give them your hundred percent because you'll be so wrapped up in wondering what he's doing and where he is AND who he's doing it with. You gave him another chance and he blew it. Say good bye |
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bigpopi@verizon.net
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you just answer your own question.....by for now |
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vicky o
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By your asking the question I think you already know the answer you just need someone to give you a little push in the right direction. Life is way to short to put up with someone you dont trust, and cant be happy with. End the story and get on with your life and find someone you can share your life with an laugh with.Be happy, let this person remain someone from your past. |
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Diana
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YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER!!!! Leave him, Now!!!! |
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'lil peanut
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My ex husband also cheated on me and my 4 year old was the one that told me, Daddy slept with....... Well about a year after our divorce he was still with ....... and he made advances on me and told me I still love you. He will never change |
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Retarded Genius
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wow...u should feel betrayed, let down, angry (at him and a little at urself)...but the truth is history has a habit of repeating itself...he is not going to change anytime soon...and u have to think about not only urself but the children as well...wat kind of example r u setting for them???....also it's unhealthy in the fact that he has slept with these women and is probably sleeping with u as well...for once put urself first...i don't think it will work because u will not b able to trust him like before...the fact that he was unfaithful will always b in the back of ur head...take some time to think seriously about this, as ur decision will affect u and ur kids...hope this helps...gud luck. |
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sherry
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Once a dog.....always will be a dog....once they cheats they always addicted to it...no matter what they said . You go on take very good care of yourself and your kids....I'm sure you'll find someone more of a man then him.....and down along that road then he will be sorry. To get back at him.....put some itching powder or cream in his underwear....then watch him itch and thinking what have i caught.
Best wishes and good luck |
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ol_skool_bonethug
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could what work? anyway, he's a douche, no doubt about it. and yes, 95% of men are douches, no doubt about that as well. however, women must accept responsibility for being conned so damn easily by men. why is that?! |
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sweetbaby4362401
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i caught my ex getting reunited with his ex. it my hurt you but once a cheater always a cheater. if he was contented with you before esp. when you got kids he should never even think of looking at some body else. there more chances for him to do it again because he knows what ever he does wrong you will forgive him and take him back. it will work if you close youre eyes and pretened you didint see or hear anything. but anyways good luck and i mean it |
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Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot
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If your best friend cme to you with this story, what would you tell her? Be your own best friend. Follow your advice. |
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birdie
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I'm going through the same thing almost we need to talk please im me at rpdiversitytt@sbcglobal.net |
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deborah i
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Don't let him do that to you again. Everyone deserves respect and trust me he is not respecting you. If you are with him now and still have feelings for him try counseling if that doesn't work find someone who will give you the respect you deserve. |
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sarabeara310
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Honestly I don't think it could work...not right now anyway. He needs to learn that you won't always be there when he wants you there...you have your own life to live and kids to raise and you need a man around the house, not some teenage boy looking to get every girl in sight. Who knows if his cheating ways will continue, but it's not something you should wait around to find out. I say move on and enjoy your children and possibly look for a true man who doesn't need to go behind your back to get something on the side. Good luck! |
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noga
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I do not see a happy future for you with this guy.You and your children deserve more then this man has to offer.All he has delivered so far are broken promises/shattered dreams.Move on in your life without him.Let his past flame have him.He is not worth fighting for. |
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luckystar
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I THINK IF YOU WANT THIS TO WORK THEN YOU AND HE
NEED TO TALK TO A MARRAIGE COUNSELOR, BUT AS
THEY SAY ONCE A CHEATER ALLWAY A CHEATER. BUT
FOR YOUR KIDS SAKE. TIME TO HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS.
DONT BEAT YOUR SELF UP, YOU LOVE YOUR HUSBAND
HE THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILDREN.BUT DONT KEEP
ALLOWING THIS TO HAPPEN, IT TIME FOR ACTION. BECAUSE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS IF YOU DONT
HAVE TRUST, YOU DONT HAVE MUCH OF ANYTHING. |
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