Why are women so uptight about cheating?

MISTY

A committed woman wants to be the one and only.

Ta-Zu (&Miku)

The guy has self-control. He can pretty much say no to the woman who's hitting on him and just walk away.

tatskiescentrodeescenax

Because cheating is so messed up.
I hate cheating and I hate cheaters.
It's disgusting how people can cheat on their lovers with someone else.

nite_angelica

Hmm... funny question coming from a guy, because I've never known one that wasn't *completely* devastated when they found out their wife or gf was cheating.

Women get upset and then we get over it. Men lay around for months or *years* talking about how they got screwed.

Ugh...

Will

That's the most ignorant thing I've ever heard from someone, and it's the reason why women are so uptight, and they have a right to be suspicious on what a guy does during his free time and btw read what you just typed.

I never, in the core on my soul, would even think about cheating on my wonderful, beautiful girlfriend, she's means a lot to me. How dare you say something like that, do you have no shame in what you're saying?

Play nice, children

The man is the one with the commitment. The other woman is just having a good time, it's not her fault.

Just Loving Life

What does that even mean? There is always someone to "cheat with" but ultimately it is up to you to be respectful to your significant other (and yourself) and not cheat in the first place. If you can't take responsibility for it, then maybe you aren't ready for an adult relationship.

lwomar

If he is not happy, it doesn't take too much effort to say "I'm not happy" and move on. Its no ones fault but his. And men don't HAVE to have someone to cheat with they do it by choice.

SaraW2008

Bc they feel hurt and betrayed... if your going to cheat might as well do the woman a favor and dump her first.

Polar

Why does there HAVE to be such thing as cheating?

They are uptight about cheating because
-It hurts them very badly, leads to a broken heart
-Broken relationship
-Untrustworthiness
-It's against the bible

If you think cheating is OK, you obviously have an extreme mental condition.

anon.

Most likely, the woman who's being 'uptight' about cheating isn't one of the 1-2% of the female population who's actually out there participating.

Davids gal!

Hmmmm...okay that didnt make much sense. Cheaters are awful, worse then awful, when you've had it done to you, come back and ask that question.

Amber

wow if you were my man, i'd kill you...

you're kind of being unfair, i mean its not fair for anyone to be cheated on, it just depends on the persons reaction.

i guess women take it extremely personal and get very vengeful when they find out the men they give themselves to are taking it for granted and looking for something else.

chunky monkey

but the women don't have a responsibility to the man's wife but the man does. thats just what happens when you get married.

ruth

I file divorces for men on grounds of adultery as often as for women. No one wants to be cheated on, pal.

Jon

I think you are retarded, cheating is wrong no matter what, and it SHOULDNT exist...when you find someone in life you should be faithfull...in your case grateful...so yeah.

c2a3j4u5n6

the sane reason everybody else should
it ain't right
why do you think they call it cheatin

V;)

are you for real about this question?
okay first of all people that are dating are in a "relationship" therefore they are no longer single. so cheating is wrong.

and no men shouldnt have someone to cheat with because some of them are in RELATIONSHIPS!

molly 3/17/09

i would never play second to anyone. the women they cheat with either dont know they are taken or have low self esteem and get a charge out of stealing a man.

twilightfan

cuz once women trust a man, cheating breaks that trust!
simple!
what if ur wife/gf went with another man behind ur back think abt it

purrrrfectionist

True but women who are cheated on by their husbands didn't take a vow with the woman he is cheating with. So the blame lies at his feet for breaking the vow. Yes, this other woman must take some blame, but the ultimate blame lies at the husbands feet. He knows he's married, she may not. He knows he took a vow. the other woman may not. He may lie to the other woman. Sorry fellows you will get no sympathy here, and the same goes to women who cheat on their husbands, I don't play favorites.

Nunya Bidness

So what is your point? That there are scummy boys/men who cheat with scummy girls/women?

Women aren't uptight about cheating, at least not any more than men. That is ones that believe in being faithful, respectful of ones we love and honorable.

Angela

On this topic, there are two types of women in the world: clean women and dirty women. The clean women are what you apparently consider "uptight." They don't cheat and can't fathom how anyone else would. They're the ones who know what's best for children: a man and a woman in love, raising their children in a secure home.

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