Why can't a man say he loves you, when you're his mistress , instead of saying he loves you he saids he got
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Why can't a man say he loves you, when you're his mistress , instead of saying he loves you he saids he got
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nothing but, love for me ? do he really love me?
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lovingclementine
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NO. If he loved you he would be with you not just poking you.
He already has someone he loves and he committed his life TO THEM.
You need a good helping of self respect - If he's willing to cheat WITH you - he's willing to cheat ON you. |
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peachy
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A mistress is always the second best option.
You chose to be the second option, accept the fact you are a second. |
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mik2222001
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what are you doing messing with a married man in the first place? do you have any self respect? ever think of the others involved? |
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Purple People Pleaser
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You're his mistress and I am assuming here that he is married. So why would he say he loves you when he has a wife? Face it, he doesn't love you, |
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suzycrmchz
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aaaahhhhh.....NO! Duh! Why are you someone's mistress? You need a man of your OWN.....not someone else's. |
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Bingo!
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Wellll, I think he loves a *part* of you. What he really means is; "I got nothing but love for Me." Men bite. It took me 2 husbands and several boyfriends to determine this fact. Ask yourself what you are getting out of being with this man? |
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candyred1999
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UMM... HONEY, FIRST OFF, PLEASE RESPECT YOURSELF ENOUGH TO GO AND FIND YOUR OWN MAN.. WHY WOULD YOU WANT SOMEONE ELSES SECONDS... ,.... HE HAS TO BE A PIECE OF S#!T TO BE DOING WHAT HE IS DOING WITH YOU IF HE HAS SOMEONE, ALSO..NO.. HE LOVES WHAT HE'S GETTING FROM YOU..NOT YOU. I HAVE NEVER BEEN THE OTHER WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP, BUT FROM WHAT MEN WHO HAVE CHEATED TELL ME, THEY KNOW ALL THE OTHER WOMAN WANTS IS A COKE AND A SMILE, BECAUSE IF THEY WANTED MORE, THEY WOULD NOT BE PUTTING THEMSELVES IN THAT POSITION TO BE THE WOMAN ON THE SIDE, THEY WOULD MAKE SURE THEY ARE THE MAIN DISH. THEY WOULD GET A MAN WHO HAS NOONE ELSE BUT THEM. MEN KNOW IF A WOMAN ALLOWS HERSELF TO BE THE MISTRESS.. SHE HAS NO RESPECT OR LOVE FOR HERSELF.. SO WHY WOULD HE HAVE ANY FOR YOU? |
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Ya Ya
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No, not the way you want him too. |
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Kim
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He doesnt love you, hes using you for a little excitement on the side. He has a wife, why would you possibly want that man to love you? Go find a nice single guy who doesnt have a wife or gf at home and try to fall in love with him |
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jeff
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How can you expect a cheater, liar. thoughtless,
womanizer 2 say anything that's true.Because he properly says he love his wife.An only uses you. |
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heromedel
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no |
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coconuts
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NO!!! |
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lisa baby...
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NO..and why would he?..ur just as bad as he is..he will NEVER trust you even if things dont work out with his wife..
bc he knows ur a cheat too!! hope u guys are happy tho..haha |
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Sheri
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What are you doing sleeping with a married man? |
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Sharon A
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You are the mistress and unless you enjoy a fake relationship with a man unwilling and having no intentions of committing anything to you I'd get out. He'll never love you. You honestly just a f*** to him. You need to find an unattached man they aren't as painful.
Don't believe his lies honey and if he's cheating on his wife even if he were to leave her for you he'd just do the same thing again.
You can guarantee that all of the bull**** that he's been telling you is ALL lies. Be smart he's using you and you are worth so much more I don't care what anyone says.
I hope you make the right decision ditch him Babe give yourself a chance at real happiness.
I have to disagree with alot of people on this one.
He doesn't love you or his wife or he wouldn't be cheating!!!
HE LOVES ONLY HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!!! |
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NLH823
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Because you are the mistress and that is all you will ever be. |
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raiderking69
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He must be black. Or a wanna be. Your the mistress, he doesn't love you or you would be the wife. Stupid! |
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No name
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Mistress? As in your seeing a married man?
Unfortunately, I learned all I needed to know about married men who fool around on their wives the hard way. I can tell you that this man does not love you. All he cares about is himself and he's extremelly selfish. A man that loved you wouldn't be married and a respectable man wouldn't be cheating on his wife to begin with. He certainly has no respect for her either. Is this really the type of person you want to be with?
Break it off with him, grow some self-esteem, go back to school and learn proper English and start setting your standards higher. You'll find yourself a decent guy by becoming a decent girl. |
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Monty L
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Your his MISTRESS and he has nothing but love for you. GO FIGURE. |
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patty l
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that why your his mistress stupid B!t(h he loves hes wife $tup1d wh0re that why he dosent say he loves u he just want to get some |
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Jenna P
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Of course not, you're just his toy, and he'll break your heart. You are silly for dating a married man to start with. Give your head a shake ...shame on you! Shame on him! |
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coffee_inthe_evening
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If you're going to be someones mistress, you should not even think about love. It was your choice to be his toy. Of course he has Nothing but love for you, you allow him a fantasy world away from his real life, and it's exciting, but he doesn't love you, he loves his wife, that's why he's married to her. And he probably wouldn't even consider a relationship with you if he and his wife did separate, because most men don't want woman that allow them to use them and have no self respect, don't get me wrong, they will use them as long as they can, but when it comes to something serous, a mistress is a mistress, not serious material. |
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Bryan's Wife
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No that's why you are the mistress, DUH! |
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me
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Look, he will never love you. I am in a relationship with a married man. I am so sad everyday. I want to get out of it, but I'm so far in love with this man. Even though he tells me he loves me, his actions say something else. I know, I'm really stupid. I know I need some therapy.. It's hard. Just get away from this terrible relationship before it swallows you whole and then you really will never get out.. |
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