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Why can't things be the way they used to be? Why is there change?

I think of lot's of good memories, and I wish I could go back in time to those days and just stay there forever. But which one do I choose?

WHY WHY WHY is life so strange?


    




zambranoray
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Life is about making memories. . .if you have memories that bring a smile to your face. . .you been living good. Keep it up.


Jane D
Just like in all things in life my dear seasons change things grow things die. all part of life were always evolving and growings. some times people grow together in the same way and other times there interests change and they go down different paths. try thinking that what you to had was special for the time you had and that you have wonderful memorires now and would never have had them if you weren't together. and you keeep these memories in a so called imaginary box and you now go out and make new ones to add to this box. Life isn't always a guarantee be happy with the times you did share and have. and continue to move on yourself who knows what out there for you to explore and what new memories you willl make.

good luck.


jdhs
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The only constant thing in this world is change. Keep the memories there. It is what makes you who you are today. But at the same time, don't live in the past. Stay in the present.


a_bike_guy
well ya cant


Daniel C
I would agree with the saying, "change is the only constant."

There's really no other way to explain it.


Beth T
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Life changes whether we want it to or not. We have to move on and we can't go back. But remember not everything in the past was good. There was bad too. There is good and bad in the future also. I hope the changes in your life are mostly good.


Herr Doktor
Change is the only constant in the universe. Suffering is clinging to that which changes.

NOTHING lasts forever. In fact, there is NO SUCH THING as forever.

Everything is temporary, everything changes, everything eventually ends. This is why it is so important to cherish the good things while you have them.


pitman L
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You can't live in the past! The future brings new and interisting things!!!!!


Heather83860
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I totally understand how it fells to want to go back to when things were good, but it just doesn't work that way so i guess we just have to make things in the present just as good as they were in the past.


*Pretty Pink*
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changes in life is part of living.... no matter how you despise the word change, well sis you can't do anything about it, the only thing that is constant is change.


pacific_crush
Life isn't strange. It's funny when you think about it in so many ways but whatever. If there is something in your life that you can't bear any longer the best thing to do is to change it and only than can you stop living in the past. Take risks, make changes that you can agree with. Live life.


S@D L@Dy
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Life is not strange!!! LIFE GOES ON :)


ike mie
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go back to the time when you're a baby!


stclairvicki
As much as you sound like you want to go back, the fact of the matter is, you can't. You cannot change what has all ready been done. Learn from your mistakes, and move on. I realize that that is easier said than done. If you constantly think of all the things you've done in the past that you aren't pleased with, then you will have no future. (I know this sounds like the inside of a fortune cookie). Regret nothing you've done because you'll be able to take new knowledge from that experience and make a better decision next time.

Good luck to you!!!


sweet pea
Because we change in our lives. We can change the situation and start to act like we see each as the first time for some it works and others it dont.


David C
It's easy to live in the past. There were many good times then. You can relive the good times and easily forget about past mistakes that were made. The future is uncertain and you are facing it with fear because you are afraid of making mistakes. If there is something currently going on that is making you unhappy then you need to recapture the situation and surround yourself with the opportunity to experience good times in the present. Do not dread the present and do not be afraid of the future. It is all a part of life. If you insist on dwelling on what is already history you will become history before to long.


peter71
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last time, me also ask WHY WHY WHY.....
my wife left me and 2 son.

now, it's not worth for me to know WHY WHY WHY....
life still goes on...


coco
yeah i agree, i wish i coudl go back to old times as well.It is really bad sometimes but remember tommorow is a new day and new thigns will happen. xD


ashleyo
Things change. People grow. Put on your big girl panties and deal with it.


Alan
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Change is life. If you are afraid of it then something is wrong with you. Try to figure out what you are afraid of.

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UNCLE_ ADVISOR
If you don't like change, then STOP the TIME.....


Kitty
Because Everything Must Change! nothing stays the same! if i could go back in to times i would also but i can't!!!!


Shakti Svātantrya Isa
life is not meant for us to stay like we were. if we were to do that, we'd be children for life and then where would we be? i completely understand what you're saying: i think of lots of good memories and wish I could go back in time to those days and just stay there forever. but, what happened in the past stays in the past. there's nothing you can say or do to return there. yes, granted they were happy times, but leave things as they are. ha. easier said than done, right? well, my advice to you is this: you can change with life. you must. in order to grow, you must go with it. when the wind changes, you can fight it or go along with it. it's best to go along with it because you'd end up with dust and dirt and god knows what else. haha. life is a beautiful thing. so is change, but it's all in perception. if you percieve life as something you don't want, you'll be angry, depressed and not much fun to be around. honestly, would you want to hang around someone like that? no. embrace the change, no matter how weird or crappy it gets. through change you find yourself. always question yourself to seek answers. don't doubt yourself, but question. they are two different things. one of my favorite quotes is: this too shall pass. when you find yourself through change, you will be whole and happy and be able to ride the winds gracefully.


sandyscheeks
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because its life...n life doesnt always go the way wed like it to


Msdeb gee
WHILE THE PAST IS A GOOD PLACE TO REMEMBER WITH OUR CHANGE THERE IS NO GROW TH BE THANKFUL FOR THE PAST AND HOPEFUL FOR THE FUTURE


Sakura Haruno
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cry...........wish for a miracle.........go ahead.........think about it day and night nonstop.........think about how good it used to be............what is it going to do? nothing.
if the relationship is over then its over
don't try to stop it from breaking
ok but try to talk to him
wishing and stuff won't help
hoping time will reverse itself
yeah keep hoping that day will come..............when hell freezes over TWICE
I know I sound mean and sarcastic but its true
life will go on and when you can deal with it then yeah
don't ask yourself why
ask yourself how
how can I fix it
how can i get rid of this pain
don't just sit there crying day and night
so not going to work
break ups are painful
its part of life


breezy810
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Life and time goes on, and the only way to make it any better, is to make better for you and have a good attitude.
Looking back at some of the past just makes you either hurt or feel sorry for those involved.
Change has always been A GOOD THING.
LOOK UP AND GO FORWARD.


iyamacog
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I believe it's called progress. There's no stopping the world.
$hit happens!


Queen Burn
Things always seem better in memories which are tailored to us by our minds.





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