Why did my cheating ex say this?

jude

shes upset that u are no longer unhappy and miserable over what she did to u. she is now having second thoughts as she is beginning to see u in a different light than she once did. don't be surprised if she doesn't want to come back to u especially now that u are becoming successful in business and are happy. the problem was with herself not with u. all is not good with the new love, and she will be wanting u back soon because things are just not working out with her new love as she had hoped, she now realizes the man she left is the better choice.

melouofs

She thinks you should be a broken man without her, not happily thriving! She's upset that her leaving didn't take the wind out of your sails. She thought she had alot more power over you than she did.

Violet Pearl

what difference does it make what a lying cheat says or feels?

texas tornado

Because she's a self-centered person. She wants everything & she wants is now. Your better off without her.

Fantene

It just sounds like she's regretting the breakup and has realized the grass isn't greener. Don't let her bring you down.
Lots of people pick up hobbies and throw themselves into their work after a failed relationship. Your success is a product of you using your extra time to do something productive for your life and the life of your children.

*Warning: Since she's having money issues, she may be trying to guilt trip you into helping her out. If you guys are not working towards a reconciliation, I would stay out of her problems completely.

Mallory

Shes is probably upset b/c she left for another guy but their not doing good money wise. Now she looks back and sees how your making so much money and how your buissness is doing so good. She may regret that she left you.

Kristen

shes mad that you werent like that before and she thinks she made a mistake. damn broads always have to cheat. go find yourself a hot chick and forget her

mafiosu

She resents that you didn't have more for her to take when you were married because you are earning it now and her timing was off. Also, life probably isn't as great as she thought it would be with Romeo and she resents you being happy and prosperous. The worm turned and now she sees that it wasn't you holding her back, but her holding you back! Don't bother asking her though, because she will deny she has any regrets, and probably hasn't admitted it to herself yet.

DEBBIE G

Maybe she's not so happy with her new partner. And possibly realizing she screwed up her relationship with a decent guy after all.

evilasukakitty

She is jealous. By leaving you she figured that you would fail miserably and that you couldn't live without her. Now your not together and your actually succeeding in things and she isn't. She thought that she was in the right (as most females tend to) and now it's come to bite her in the bum. Justice is being served to her for cheating. Maybe she'll learn her lesson, maybe not. Either way, don't give in to her whiny attitude, because then she'll play you like a fool. I would ignore it and be proud of your success.

wc2ketey

The one you loved is gone. She doesn't care about you or what you do anymore. She dumped you for "greener" pastures which, of course, weren't. Your happiness is the last thing she wants. I wouldn't share anymore personal business with her. Keep your conversations about the kids. It will help you move on easier. I feel for you.

BoomBoom

Stop telling her what's going on with you...she realizes she has lost a good thing...don't let her get you all crazy, confused and off track..stay focused on building up your business. She should have thought about all that when she hooked up with the co-worker. Only give her money for the girls..in fact you be sure to be an active role in their lives...she probably asked that question because she realizes she screwed up! And by the way you gave her a good answer..seems like she did you a favor!

Lady

She just realized that she might have just let a good thing go. He's the deal.......I believe everything happens for a reason. The roses have to be crushed inorder to get the fragrance........gold has to go through a lot of heat inorder to become pure......you had to go through that separation so that it could bring the best out of you. She's made her bed.....let her lay in it.

chicago floater

just dont take her back dummy

tbobm

I wouldn't care what she says or thinks she messed everything up so forget about it. If she wants you back I would tell her no way!

should i ?

DR. PHILL !! not a good idea lmao ... anyways , things like that are complicated , maybe in her mind she used to make excuses for her betrayel and one of them was your income , and now seeing that you are doing well , some ground were taken from underneath her ... thats all

capoeirista

She doesnt sound like a good person. She just wants you when you are successful and is jealous of you new found attitude towards life.

You should be glad she is out of your life and find someone who will be there for in when the going gets tuff, or even when things may not be as exciting.

Good Luck

Goodspeed

her spending probably didn't start after the divorce...she was spending before but was limited because of budget...its all material to her...your good deeds , being a better husband than she a wife, have been rewarded financially...I think if they were earlier she would have ruined your finances.

Angie

Maybe she went after the money, didn't go too far, and now sees you doing good. That was wrong of her to do that.

scoopbarns

You made a mistake by telling her anything else besides business with your children. No matter what you say she is going to try and lay some guilt on you. Sounds like things aren't as good as she thought they were going to be with the new boyfriend. If she is insinuating she would have treated you better if you were more successful she did you a favor by leaving. When it comes to dealing with ex's, the less said the better.

kNOTaLIAwyR

You both changed after the breakup. You wanted her the way she used to be when she thought you were boring, and she wanted you to be the way you are now, but back when you were both married.

By the way, free legal advice - telling your ex that you make good money, when you have 2 little kids to support isn' t a wise thing to do. Wait until the kids are both 18 before bragging to their mother about how much money you're making.

frawlicious

Hmmmmm, you are right about one thing, you are not the one that left. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Keep doing your thing, and I hope your business continues to grow! Maybe now she is realizing what she is missing. Good Luck to you!

just my opinion

She's upset because you have it good now and she doesn't. She now realises the critical mistake she made by leaving you. I wouldn't advise to keep bragging to her though, because that isn't fair either. As far as her money issues, do you pay support or alimony? If yes, then her money problems are just that, her problem. She decided to leave, now she has to face the consequences. If you aren't paying, why? Who has the children more? If it is her, then it's only all too fair that you should pay and vice versus if you have them more. All that aside though, she made her bed, let her lie in it..... unless you want her back, then that's a whole different story altogether.

Lindsey

She is doing this because she is jealous and you are moving on in your life and she is a miserable person. You now need to find a beautiful woman that looks better than her and has a great and wonderful personality. Go to the gym and get into the best shape of your life......dress very sharp! When she asks you again why you never did that for me when we were married you answer this ......"well i guess I didn't realize how depressed I was in the relationship with you and now after all of those years I feel like living and I am feeling good about myself now! Tell her very saddly that you do not mean to be hurtfull but that you should have left the marriage years ago and thank her for giving you your life back. You have to do this sincerely now from your heart if you know what I mean. Be there for your kids and to heck with her let her new boyfriend help her out with money just like he helped her out when she was having a difficult time during her marriage! I wish you all the happiness in the world and may your ex get dumped and someday know just how she made you feel.

rhonda w

your ex did the wrong thing and she is paying the price. you should not worry about what comes out of her mouth and just focus on your positive energy. good luck. it sounds like you are doing great. be the best you can be.

PEBBLES

She is so jealous its not funny. She will get over it.
As for you keep up the good work!!

Lovely Lady

shes a GOLDIGGER... your over it all shes cares about is $$$... obviously. looks like youve got yourself on track so dont look back...... good for you!

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