Why did my husband say all this when i found out?
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Why did my husband say all this when i found out?
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when i married my husband few months back my husband had some girls pic in his wallet and when i accidental saw that he said it was his best friend in college and kind of felt guilty and tore it. he dint talk to me the whole evening. and then friday i read their intimates mails by mistake like i was reading some forwards in his email when he had opened it and he went to loo, and i started going through forwards and found ex mails and pics. later he explained after i started feeling bad (she was his online lover and he had met twice. he liked her and wanted to marry but his mom dint agree as she came from different religion. so they chose me to marry him.) i felt bad that he lied to me that way . he could have said she is his ex in the first place and all that made up story of his best friend and all. . she is pretty better than me in looks. first thing he said was "she is ugly she looks better in only these photos. i am really not in touch with her". why did he say that way??
what do you think??
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my husband is cold and becomes quite when we are getting close.
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Kat H
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He said it to make you feel better. |
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tammee
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Your husband is in love with someone else. He's very hurtful and it will get worse for you. I'm very sad you're in that sitation. Can you get out??? |
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Army Girlfriend
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she was his online lover and he had met twice. he liked her and wanted to marry but his mom dint agree as she came from different religion. so they chose me to marry him
That would make me so mad. Im sorry but he married you bc his parents chose you. He's in love with another women come one. You need to get a divorce and let him be. You need to find someone that is in love with you. Of course you could be muslim... Are you? If yes then i really dont know what to tell you. Sorry |
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originata
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He said that so you can leave him the hell alone and not worry about who she is. You say that you would've be alright with it had he told you the truth but you did go through his wallet and emails. That doesn't show you are ok with it. |
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Kath :)
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He said that so that you would stop worrying and quit asking him questions. It's obvious that he likes this girl and is possibly in love with her. You should sit down and talk to him about it and tell him that it's going to have to be her or you and there's no way that he can have both. If he chooses her, then you know that it wasn't meant to be and you shouldn't stick around. Get out there and find someone who will truly love you and won't cheat. |
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KK
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He does not want to hurt u, he loves u & wanted to hide this for a good reason.. but if he is contuning this then u need to talk to him & find a answer.... Believe me every one has a love failure for so many reasons so if he is ready to forget her & live honestly with you then go ahed... good luck |
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let's all point fingers
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I think he has feelings for her... I'm so sorry, but I don't have high expectations for anything. |
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Bio hopeful
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he didnt want you to over think the girl and reassure you hes not into her |
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