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Why do I love him sometimes and sometimes I don't?

I am married but my husband and I separated 4 years ago after he cheated several times I got involved with someone else that fell through and I just got back together with my husband. Some days things seem perfect, then other days I don't want to be near him, don't want him touching me, kissing me or even talking to me. It's like sometimes I love him, and sometimes I don't. I can tell he's changed and He is so good to me, very respectful always puts me first. I love him today but tomorrow I may not.. I know it sounds weird but I can't control it. I've talked to him about it and he says he loves me and has enough patience to wait for me to work through it but it keeps happening.... What do I do?


    




candye
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Sounds like a good man! I think it's pretty normal for you to feel this way. You're still not over him cheating. You have resentment inside you. You may just be having a bad day and because that is what is so close to the surface-that's what gets the most focus. It seems that you are trying to get over what he did to you but are just struggling. In time it will get better. Be thankful to have someone who loves you enough to wait for you to work through it. (He knows it's his fault anyway)!


Catherine B
Did you ever get over him cheating? Do you fully trust him? I'm just wondering if deep down you're still remembering that or if you just aren't that into him. Ask yourself if you're with him for the right reasons.


HbK
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dont do that he loves you alot


daniellejaramillo@ymail.com
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You have to fix yourself and your lingering issues before you can truly be happy...get started now!!


honey
are you pregnant?because you act strange.well i think you have to be sure about what you want to do.because once you decide on it a lot of things will change,.if you can live with it or not.





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