Why do Men always miss the Point???

flagger

What point? Was there a point? What was it about?

And women dont??

Bob D

do you have a point?

smoothie

Maybe if you were not so vague in your explanation he wouldn't have to work so hard to figure out what the hell you are talking about. GET TO THE "POINT".

Spinich

"My wife says I don't pay attention to her or something like that."

Older&Wiser

They have a different set of rules from us. They see things differently; their brains work in a different way. They interpret social situations differently. Give them space. You miss the point in their life too.

Sean J

Because you don't state your point up front. If you would be clear and direct about what you're trying to say instead of beating around the bush, we'd get it.

jstokes1085

Many women take forever to get to the point and many times they just want to emotionally vent and don't want answers. Men hear problem and then try to supply answers and often women just want commiseration. This confuses men so they then start to tune out feeling that they just can't win.

bigslick60

Just be clear and to the point. Mean what u say, and please say what u mean.

Papa Burgundy

I dont understand your question... whats your point?

tristansfate

Its not that we miss the point.....its that you women like to phrase or shape information so that you get the automatic response that you want. woman very rarely actually say exactly what they mean...Unfortunately, women have hidden adgendas when they speak....Next time just say what the F is on your mind.......but you won't accept it because its not the answer you want.....

â™«Secretáƒ¦Mermaid

women do this too. everyone has their own opinions.

Mark Lucas Andrews

a lot of the time girls are misleading when they say things....i do not mean this from a man stereotypical view. it is true we are not good at all at picking up girls hints. So if you mean that missing the point then that's why..if you mean when we do things for girls or miss doing things it is because we think we are doing something good and right...so if a guy does something for you and its not what you wanted still show him you are impressed because it will shape him in to doing the right things eventually

spanks_girls

cause the 'directions' on how to get to 'the point' were given by a female. And many times , even if you were to record what they said and play it back to them , they will say .." i did not say that ! "

phooey

If you "don't quite know what I mean" what fu*king chance have we got??!!

gozedown

Because MOST women speak in codes. If you would say exactly what you meant without us needing someone to translate it for us everything would run smoothly. But we are supposed to "read between the lines" and figure out what you mean instead. JUST MAKE THE POINT AND DON"T DANCE AROUND IT !!!!!!

daj11551

Just ask the question you want an answer to, and it will be answered.

onlineseeker

What is the point of this question?

I think we can all see what happens with you now..............

devy

it's not that they miss the point. It's just you are roaming around the point without specifically mentioning it, you just want to make the men look wrong and you succeed everytime

duster

men think differently than woman do, a mental picture of some thing in your head, you sware , can be easily related to others, when in fact may come across to others like mudd

PurpleLegion

well if YOU don't quite know what you mean, then how are WE supposed to know what you're on about?

if you were as vague to the men that you are referring to as you are in asking this question, then well of course were gonna miss the f*cking point!

if you want men to get the point then try making some f*cking sense woman!

snack_daddy10

Its a self-for-filling prophecy. Women expect men to miss the point so even if we get the point you think we didn't. This in turn makes men not care to get the point since it doesn't seem to matter if we get it or not.

Example:
If a woman starts an argument with the words "I feel". This clear is an emotional argument and not logical so anything else she says should not matter because it is only a feeling and not necessary the truth and only reflective on what she feels which is outside the realm of anything anyone can do about it.

S K

They get the point. They just don't want to let you know that they get it.

trymeimbritish

Well it is similar to the advert I saw,

we aim to please, so will you aim too please!

Step

Why do you say things in a way that has to be guessed? If you say what you mean then you should not have a problem.But if you are beating around the bush how do you expect someone to always understand you?

Clare B

Do they even listen...i think they do it just to annoy us lol

jessy

I often hear from my son that is 20 that woman are emotional and men are rational and thats why they see things so diff.guess he learned that in a college class!

john s

thats because when women think they are making a point 9 times out of 10 they go around the houses to get straight to the point thus either confusing us guys or making the fatl mistake of trying to make a point about something we have no interest in or while the soccer is on!!!

J S

typically we don't care

Beth T

Men don't always want to see a woman's point of view. They prefer to see things as they want them to be.

eagledreams

You are so right.....had experience of that so many times.....and then they can turn it round and make you fel like rubbish. Think we do not communicate on the same levels. The like things simple and we apparently make them complicated. Every now and then there comes a man who does actualy listen and hear.

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