Why do guys say i cant marry you at the beginning and later they change their mind?
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Why do guys say i cant marry you at the beginning and later they change their mind?
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have you experienced it that your guy say im not marriage type, im leaving the country later and cant take you with me,we cant be together for ever and later after a year or two they change their mind?
what made them to change their certain thoughts!!? what makes them to change their whole life plan because of being with someone? is that worthy to be with such a person when they say these things?
if you have experienced same and they changed later please share
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Mark
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I would think it is the internal battle in his mind over dependence and freedom. Guys get scared of commitments because we feel that we will lose our freedom and will be tied down. Sometimes it takes distance to make a guy realize that he can't live without his girl and so he learns to let go of his pride. The absence of the one you love can bring about a life changing decision. |
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WillBe
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Men lose more..
My friend recently divorced, he was part of a balanced relationship... meaning he did half the house work, took care of the kid as much as the wife did etc. She no longer had feelings for him, and eventually he got tired of hanging on (I think that most people would cheat at this stage because they will too scared to let everything go, but he did things the right way - he suspects that she cheated but has nothing to prove). My question is, Why Should Men Get Married?
To me it seems that Men lose much more then women do. Besides our wife, we automatically lose most of our parenting rights - we literally have to beg to see the kids and feel like criminals in front of a judge, we lose the house (and sometimes car) until the kids are grown up because they need a place to live in, we don't have as much support from our peers as women do (most men invest all their emotions in their loved ones, the rest of their relationships are acquaintances) , the courts do not favor us at all. Our life radically changes overnight, just because we signed and got married! It's no wonder that divorced men have 6 times the chance of committing suicide .. divorced women suicide rates are not effected.
I'm not saying divorce is a walk over for women, loosing a partner is never easy. But to me, it seems like men are at a disadvantage when they get married. and the feminist "get divorced, and live happier" motivation surely does not help families, being materialistic and egoistic does not help either... it's a two fold, Everyone seems to be lazy and gives up so easily, it does not seem like anyone even tries anymore!
It's very easy to say if you love the person you will know when to get married etc, but marriage is a concept invented by the human race... Marriage is not that simple, the biggest factor that drives relationships into the wall nowadays is Money and less "quality" time. It's all good to say that love will fight everything, but I don't think that's completely realistic.I also think that not being able to live without someone is not healthy, whilst being able to live without and choosing to live with that person is the perfect balance - sometimes relationships must survive on respect when the passion and flames are gone - not love. |
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Red Butterfly
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they probably realised what a great person you are. guys don't like making promises coz they are scared of the pressure that comes with it. enjoy the ride, just hope he doesn't change his mind again, guys are really good at that |
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Vortex
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its because love changes people. suddenly all of your plans have to include the one you love, or those plans are meaningless. |
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