Why do men find it difficult to stay faithful?

Taz

Im faithful to my wife

Lily.

My mother used to say there would be no bad men if there were no bad women.

la-la-lauren

Not all men find it difficult to stay faithful.

thelarge17

I don't. My lady and I were married the day after our high school graduation. That was 35 years ago. I wake up every morning with joy knowing that the lovely lady lying next to me will be there for the rest of my life. Staying faithful to her isn't difficult--being unfaithful would be the difficult thing. I love her so much more today than I did back then, and I adored her then. Life is good.

Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions

just as many women find it just as difficult and for the exact same reasons... :D

Gordon Shumway

They are bored, lonely, insecure, selfish and immature. Just like women who cheat.

jallen5606

the question should be why do "some" men find it difficult?..
The answer would be, because "some" men (even with a great woman by his side) will never be truly satisfied to stick with one person the rest of their lives. They also enjoy the excitement and adrenaline rush of sneaking around. A really insecure, worthless man will run around. A REAL MAN, would never run around. If the REAL man isn't satisfied with what he has, he will leave that relationship completely before even thinking about being with another woman. Not skirt around and lie. Hope that answers your question.

crashosborne2003

It depends on the man!

Bill C

And the survey says:

http://www.womensinfidelity.com/

Sinbad

Women cheat too. takes two to tango.

Eat Funyuns.

Badkitty

Unfortunately its not just men. Both men and women seem to have issue's in fidelity.

redhead27

they need instant validation for their feelings they are missing in their own relationship.

people stray for 2 reasons i think, they are too scared to be honest and accept that their relationship is over or they don't know how exactly to solve the problem in their own relationship. both stem from problems already existing in ones own relationship. either they are not getting what they need from it and can't figure out how to express what they need... or two, because they don't want to express what they need and instead of accepting the relationship is over and ending it they look to have their cake and eat it to. they need instant validation for thier feelings... unfortunately when they cheat, it only makes their guilt bigger as well as their problems.

999pheebs

Why do women? Takes 2 to cheat.

Zedakiah

I was married for over 20 years and was faithful ! She wasn't though !

candle jack

i don't know. Why do women?

Keely!

It's not all men and it's not just them.

women do it too and there is no denying it.

if you aren't happy with someone and have to look outside the relationship for companionship and intamicy then there is a problem and you should resolve it with your partner or you should just leave.

don't go sneakin' around.

Brown Sugar

they don't find it difficult! some of them just give into there animalistic tendencies and don't care about anyone else but themselves!

jason c

Not all men are the same but some do let there little head rule there life.
Ja.

kirsten has lost her TC badge...

You can't generalize like that. As long as there are bad men, there will be bad women.

franz dumke

most don't

DianeP

Faithful, means having faith. Even in one's self. A lot of infidelity occurs for many reasons, one, is that a person is insecure with him/herself and needs to obtain self confidence from another person outside his/her marriage to obtain validation. Two, some people need to cheat because they are not getting the affection from his/her mate and feel justified in cheating when there is no justification at all..
Three, some men and women do not like themselves and attempt to run away from who they are by using another person outside their marriages because his/her spouse is not a safe haven for his/his feelings about his/herself. Four, some men and women were raised with the example of infidelity and that concept became ingrained in them as to how to deal with failure in him/herself. Five, some people are just morally bankrupt and really don't care who they hurt. But the biggest reason that I have witnessed is, Six....that the man or woman was never "in love" with his/her spouse to begin with and are looking for the "one" soul mate that they haven't found yet....he/she settled and are looking for something better to fulfill him/herself.
Infideltiy is so sad and people sometimes run around aimlessly looking for themselves in another person while, really, they are in themselves all along.

Fozzy

im a guy and faithfull but tbh ur question should apply for the majority of women 2

shiest girl

the envoriment they are on..... the people they interact with, friends, alcohol..etc....but let me tell you not all men are unfaithful... i guess sometimes they do it to man up.. or just because they feel like it..man are so difficult to understand and women are too.....

Disco Stu

PEOPLE find it difficult to stay faithful for three reasons:

1. Society has come to not look down on this behavior so much anymore.

2. Their spouse ceases to pay them the kind of attention they crave.

3. Their need to get said attention overwhelms their good senses and/or morals.

nicknamelegalforce

Because of those women who establish link with such men for many reasons that make it difficult for such men to stay faithful.

Ryleigh

You know what... It's very fustrating because I ask myself the same question. It drives me crazy. But I just keep reminding myself that not very one is like that and women do the same thing also. I just don't understand why people aren't faithful anymore!! It's scary.

sexzyredick#7

Why do people find it difficult to stay faithful period? It's not a gender thing it's a moral thing...

William

Not all men is true; it's probably because the men that usually are unfaithful tend to have commitment issues from the beginning or get into relationships for the wrong reasons...

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