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Why do my friends make me feel like i have to go out Tonight?

they have been planning outing to the club for weeks, and i agreed only because i thought it was only girls, now they say they are taking the hubbies...They just don't understand i feel uncomfortable being the only single one...

at first i didn't like to go because they are all married and leave the hubbies at home and thought that was not right, but then i noticed they really do it for fun and to dance spend time with friends...

Lately its just hubbies and i really don't want to go...Im not up to meeting anyone in a club...

should i just ignore the calls since they cant take no for a answer? plus i don'tt have any clean socks..
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Well even if they were thinking of you it would be difficulty meeting anyone with a group of couples? I would stick to your decision and not go and if they fail to understand why then they are being selfish. Anyway the lack of clean socks is enough to save you…;) Can’t beat warm feet…;)

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Edit: Oh you will have to enlighten me, I thought it was the new cute look, as I’ve two men saying they liked my socks lol… (they were Scottish though ha ha)


Ghost of revenginator
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Have Irksome dress up as a man and be your "fake hubby."


Irksome
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Just say you're sick..

or you have to take care of sick lil' ole' me :)))


OH revengi is here, let the hilarity ensue!!
which reminds me, still wearing those leotards sweetie??


Kev
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I'll go with you Lulu, I can be your escort!


Michael T
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You'd better stay home and do laundry. And call Sil. That sounds like more fun for you.


Sicilian 1 dtg!
Just stay home to take care of your sick BFF!


Conspiracy Carrot
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I put the phone on silent and never leave the house. I think you should stay in and wash your socks.


blue knight
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Why do you have to lie ? Just tell them the truth . Tell them that if it was just the girls then your in . But that you do not feel comfortable being the " 3rd " wheel . That's all . They should understand . I know we do .


unix... peace be still...
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stay with us.... :)


stupendous
Maybe your friends care about you, and want to give you the opportunity to go out, rather than be home alone. It might not be the kind of table that attracts a lot of male suitors, being men there already, but it should be a relaxed table.

You can sit there and scope out some guys you think are cute, and maybe make a little eye contact or something. Or just sit and chat with your friends, I'm sure they don't dance every dance. Of course nowadays the club scene it seems like the music is so loud, you can't carry on a meaningful conversation even if you want to.

Oh and the socks, I would be more concerned about your underwear!


Shortstuff13
Your friends can't make you feel any certain way unless you let them. Tell your friends for the last time that you appreciate their invitation, but you're not interested. If they still persist, then yes, ignore any further calls, since they are not respecting your feelings. Not having clean socks shouldn't have any baring on your decision.


Lilmama
Just tell your friends that you are not going because you do not feel comfortable being the only person there without a date. You will feel while they have their husband to talk to you will be all alone. You do not have to bring up the fact that you do not have any clean socks. Just tell them no and stick to it. Nothing if they come to your house and try to drag you out of it. Just make sure if they do that, you are in your pj's and in no way ready to just walk out the door.


wannaknow
You wear socks to a club? Just go! You might have fun!


K.C.
Say to them clearly - I don't feel comfortable being the only single one, I'd prefer to stay home.
If they still nag you, they're not gr8 friends.


jl
yes you should marry and/or divorce them just like the section says.


Army Girlfriend
if you ignore the calls they are either going to come over and see your car in the drive way or be really mad at you or be worried. The best thing you can do is tell them the truth that you dont like being the only one thats single. You thought it was going to be girls night out. tell the truth





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