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Why do people cheat on their spouses?

Isn't marriage supposed to be about loving the person they married and protecting them? Being with them through thick and thin so why would people cheat?
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Dillion don't be ridiculous. You could cheat on your bf/gf


    




jude
people cheat because they have a desire to and someone makes themselves available. marriage begins with love and thinking your going to be with that person forever, but once someone else begins to boost their ego, make them feel special, u become like an old shoe. people give all kinds of reasons why they cheat, but its all about whats in their character and what they believe.


DILLON
Who could you cheat on other than your spouse?


red moon
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cause people are into themselves and don't care about anybody else.


mrs_G
1. They DO NOT love the spouse. You don't betray those you really love.
2. They are IMMATURE, and never grew up.
3. They are SELFISH, and don't care about anything other than getting their way.
4. They are STUPID, because they think they won't get caught.
and finally,
5. Because some moron FORGIVES them. That hands them a free pass to cheat again.


The Krazy Kat Lady
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Becuz there a bunch of idiots thatare 2 stupid to realize what they have is precious.


Complicated
No they don't cheat, Kelly. No. Sorry, that only happens in the movies.


Me?
key word SUPPOSED. but that does not mean it always is


Ûž
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reason why I got cheated on

I married my husband after 2 months of dating him...yes young and stupid
I got pregnant right away
and during my second pregnancy 3 years into marriage
I did not even want to see him around me...let alone touch me. I wasn't even sure if I even wanted to be with him at all.
so he decides to cheat and leave
then both us realize what we had ME as much as HIM

marriage isn't perfect and whoever says it is...
IS LYING!

it takes work and lots of it!


bandaid_46
Because they can.


WOWZA!
Some people are missing something or some people want more than what they have. It is supposed to be about loving that one person but cheating has always been around.....always. Even in the churches, and old school days when punishment was hard core...it still happened


shady
Because they are bored. Because they are not getting what they need at home. Because they are stuck. Because they love their kids and don't want to leave. Because they are looking for some excitement. Because they are sick of the same thing everyday.


kelsey
Didn't people cheat for differnt reasons. sometimes they feel neglected, or they are bored, sometimes they are insecure and need all that extra attention sometimes oppurtunity. Whatever the case is they do it because they have a personal issue and look for an excuse to do what they want to do for those personal reasons.


Gorgeous
Maybe there not getting what they want or maybe who there married to have one thing and the other person has the other


leslie k
Too many people are married to the wrong person. When we are young we want to be married, so what we believe to be love is not. We cheat to find the love we need... but that never works either. My new husband and I are in our 40's and our love is stronger than any before... we could never cheat on one another, we are honest and together every free minute, we found what most need the forever love.


Patricia
Lack of morals, drive these selfish dishonest cowards. They betray then hide their deceit, all for their pleasure, and at the expense of their spouse and children.


d.
They're not happy. Also, sometimes the thrill of doing something "wrong" and the potential to get "caught" add to the appeal.


SmEAgOL
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discontented about their partners your right and its hard knowing that your partner is cheating you


.
Why would you stay if you've had better? ;)


Heatherrrrrrrr
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Because they were more focused on the wedding than the actual marriage and they lack communication in their marriage.


Kenny K
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because they're unhappy/bored with their current situation

they cheat with someone that is more exciting and fun to be around





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