Why do people give me such rude answers?

Dr.PhilwithBoobsDueInJune

Probably because you stay and it seems as though you are just whining about it. If things are bad then you need to get out.

â™¥Pure Evilâ™¥

Hmmmm... U go ahead and vent away!

However...

If he is so abusive then WHY is he STILL ur HUSBAND???

good looking

because your an idiot for staying in an abusive relationshipp

Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess)

Because rather than do something about your situation (like get a divorce and get on with your life), you'd rather b*tch and moan and basically try to make everyone else as miserable as you are, maybe?

Mercedes A

Probably because if your husband is abusive then you should be doing more than just venting.
Im sure there are many support groups and organizations you can turn to to help you with this problem that many women go through daily and they can give you professional advice, its what they're there for.
I really hope you look into this, best of luck!

somethingtrinity

Some have not had to walk in your shoes, they don't understand your situation. If you ever need to talk you write to me.

I_love_chase's_tie

Probably becasue people feel you should leave him instaed of just venting and complaining about it. I know leaving is easier said then done, but complaining about things without actually putting an effort into changing then is annoying and seems like you just want people to feel bad for you. Instead of complaining you should do something about it or stop complaning.

Sam

Some of us are understanding and not rude.But you cant stop what people leave for advice.Btw did you get that job at wal-mart yet.lol

Brie

i'm really sorry to hear that ! i think its just
terrible that he does that. i just got finished
reading "a child called it" about a young
boy that gets beat up by his family member
and if he abuses you badly, get out of there
if you can. just be careful he doesn't catch
you or badder things might happen to you =/

I AM KIRA

I understand.

Sookme W

because your rants are all one sided and there are always two sides to a divorce

Packer Fan 977

I don't think you should use the Internet for help like that. Anyone can see this. Maybe talk to a friend or a psychologist like Dr. Phil, or someone else. Maybe even a private psychologist. Hope this answers your question.

Illegal Immigrant

because they are @ss monkeys who like to be schligglepops.

MICHAEL

Since I have not seen the answers you are alluding to as being "rude", I cannot either confirm that they are rude; or provide an opinion as to why, presuming they are rude, you are being give such answers.

In any case, it would seem to me that you could look on the bright side: Many on this site don't get any answers to their questions whatsoever. At least you are getting answers of some kind to yours.

some one but not sure who

( hope i was not rude if i was I'm sorry ) could be the mood they are in so hey vent away we all need that

maximac

because people are people and some are just looking for an opportunity to take shots at someone.

<Raised on Promises>

The first reason that pops into my head is that this is a Q&A forum, not a venting forum....

itgirl

Depends on what you are looking for. Sometimes when we ask questions; we don't really want opinions. (except what we want to hear)
Abuse is a very touchy and misunderstood subject. It hits on some very sensitive nerves with people.
When you say understanding..........sounds like someone can't believe you don't get out. Get some help for yourself and your husband if he is willing. Tough love can be very hard, but necessary sometimes. Good Luck and God Bless. Only you live in your shoes and can look deep into your heart to find the right answers.

Sally

I haven't seen your questions, but in general many people think abused women "should have known better" or "ask for it." Only those with experience understand the situation. We need to join together to find a way to end the abuse and make it the man's shame, rather than the woman's.

My prayers are with you!

Andrea

It might have something to do with everything listed before me, but I will also add that this is not really the place to go to get sympathy and to vent. It's Yahoo Answers, which means you ask a question and get an answer. Have you looked into any online forums that deal with marital problems or abusive spouses? Those will probably help you vent a great deal better than here. My mom went through an abusive husband a few years ago and found strength at online sites and local groups.

Kelly G

yeah it really sounds like a bunch of rude kids...but anyways you should get out its not good...and it helps to talk to people..

Scooter

i would get out of there, you can do better. don't live your life like that.

da da

I agree what Alexa D comment..

thedruidess81

Because people feel less sympathy for people who don't do anything to help themselves, and some people may be of that opinion. Besides, no offense, but they don't call it Yahoo!Vent! Often your questions are more rhetorical than actual questions, But then again, that goes for a million people on here. Don't depend on everyone on here to be mature because they all aren't. BTW, what area are you from. I only ask so I can figure out what resources you as a victim of abuse have available to you.

Ms Pollyanna

I have notice that most men here hate women, so they feel no sympathy.

lovleymel@sbcglobal.net

Because abuse of others angers people. Anger is a natural reaction to abuse.

ehrlich

Well if you are ranting about it, then its against community guidelines, like just ranting and going on and on and on and on instead of asking a question then its pretty annoying. Also if you have been asking questions for months about it people get tired of it, like just leave him already and be done with it type of thing. If it makes you so angry and he is so bad then why do you stay, doesnt that make any sense? I don't know what you do but you have to ask questions, not just say what a bad person he is in a long long paragraph.Not saying you necessarily do that.

ekibafang

damn if i had a place then u could stay with me until u find a place of ur own... But they r afraid to heard the truth lol ^_^
hope everything works out for u. Get out as fast as u can ok
take care *love*

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