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♥cutemamma♥
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what?? Who in the world THINKS like that??
I dont think so.. i have never met a single women that thinks like that!
Cheating is a deal breaker... PERIOD! |
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Bilinda G
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Well if you knew then it would be over. If my husband ever cheated I would not want to know. If he started flaunting it or I found out about it then I would hurt him . I don't want him to ever cheat and do not give him permission to cheat but if it ever happened then I don't ever want to know. |
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Jen
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Some people believe that ignorance is bliss. |
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SBC
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because they are insecure and think they can do no better |
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Init to learn
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There are very many reasons why some women turn a blind eye to their husband's infidelity. Children, family status, money. There are so many wealthy guys with their family living in the country estate and he has a flat in London making trips back on weekends. So many of them know that something is happening but need to maintain the perfect family scenario. Same thing applies to most of the big city brokers. Kids, money and status are very difficult to give up especially if there is an existing pre nup. |
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daffyduck153
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They figure that what they don't know can't hurt them and if they do find out then they will not believe it, or say they don't.
The choice of staying in a comfortable position or making it on your own may also have something to do with it. Lots of women make that choice in favor of the status quo.
Lots of people live in denial about a lot of things because to face the facts and deal with them takes more than they have inside themselves. It's a common trade off all kinds of people make, about all kinds of things, so don't think it is rare. |
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♫♪ ki+k@+ b@r ♪♫
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b/c the truth hurts
some women feel like they're not strong enough for the truth, and rather not kno about it |
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Fashay
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What you don't know won't hurt. |
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TristanVR
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If they accept that their husbands will cheat once in a while, it could be any number of reasons. Relationships are complex and don't always follow the same patterns. I am sure the number of women who accept that their husbands may cheat on them is small. |
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Mistress K
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Because that's the way they feel. People have a right to make their own choices and live by their own moral code, regardless of what you personally think about it. |
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<3
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because they dont want to believe it, or the fact that they dont have the perfect relationship. and they wont believe it untill proven wrong |
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♦justme♦
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Because they are comfortable in their life. They like the life style they have. It's not that they want their husband's to cheat or that they don't care either. They just don't want to be burdened with having to know and then either having to choose to leave them or try to forgive and go on with their lives with their husband's knowing he's strayed.
I guess you could consider me one of those women. I love my husband, and I will be loyal to him forever. he is a good man, he treats me well, he's a great father and a great provider. In short I am happy with where I am. I trust him. I have never had a reason not to. However if I ever found out he cheated, then I would be forced to make a decision I don't want to make. I would either have to tear apart not only my world, but my children's as well, or try to put it out of my mind and forgive him. I feel sometimes ignorance can indeed be bliss.
I do my best to insure my husband is satisfied and will never have a need to stray, but if he ever does, I don't want to know.
Edited:
I had to add, that I have never enlightened him to the fact that I wouldn't want to know. It's not like I'm willing to give him a license to do what he wants as long as he is discreet about it.
In that case what HE doesn't know won't hurt....;o) |
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Troy L
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Not my wife. I dont care if she never found out, it is not okay. My guilt would give me away. |
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Joy
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They don't want to face the truth. Sometimes truth is harder than lies. |
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penelope
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They don't think its ok. Its just that what u don't know cant hurt you. Some women I think choose to stay with a man because they think they need one to survive. So, if the man is cheating and she don't know about it, its better. Otherwise she might have to cut his balls off |
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2fine4u
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Some people are insecure and willing to accept anything because they are afraid of being alone. They have not learned to love themselves yet. So they do not feel that they deserve the best and is willing to settle for anything. |
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jna1229
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wth i definately feel that it is wrong thats messed up |
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Jody
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They like to live in fantasyland. |
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Vanity Affaire
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I don't know when this became acceptable but that's not acceptable in my book. I wouldn't want my husband/boyfriend sleeping around with anyone and potentionally giving me a disease or something. It's not alright to cheat in any condition, and if the person wanted to sleep with a bunch of people, they should have never got married or commited to a serious relationship. |
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Jimmy
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I don't think any women would feel it's okay if there husbands were cheating behind there backs.
How did this question come upon? |
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OOO K 611
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Because all men cheat but not all women want to deal with reality. |
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Mimi
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Because they have no self-respect, how can someone want to pretend like everything is perfect? It would be just as much your fault if you got cheated on. |
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sure
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what these woman are saying is like the question.."if a tree falls (in a forest or anywhere) and there is no one there, does it make a sound?".
These women are really saying it's not ok....if they do not know about the affair...then the affair does not exist in their mind....
the bottom line is that it's not Ok... |
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lissa
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I don't know!! I am not one of those women that is for sure and I don't see how any woman could feel that way because what they don't know could hurt them. STD's are very real and I don't want one so my husband better keep it in his pants when he's not with me or he better not come home because Lord help him if I get anything and yes I still get checked. |
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Kooties_ 2000
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Because once they find out then they've got their men by the nads. No pun intended. ( ^ _ ^ ) |
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Bellaboo
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I have yet to meet a women who thinks that! |
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Living Responsibly
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Because they don't want to have to make a decision. |
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SueBee
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Sometimes love turns a blind eye. |
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