Why do woman get fat after marriage, don't they want to keep their man attracted to them?

Daddy's Girl

this is a very general question and puts all women in a box!

I didn't get fat! after child birth and a stressful marriage I got curves and breast. I think I look better than I did in College. My ex husband agrees and my current husband loves my body.

â™¥ â™¥HONESTY RULESâ™¥â™¥

Nope we don't.

We strive to make sure you have the fattest nastiest wife ever.

Who sold us out? I thought that was our secretâ™¥

Kaylei J

I think some women just feel more comfortable when they are married to stop dieting because they think there man will love them anyway

867-530Ni-ee-yi-ee-ine

I think some women (and this is not the way it should be) figure if their married, they don't have to try anymore. They figure the man is stuck.

Marcus

It's because they were going to get fat anyway. They just worked really hard to stay thin long enough to get married. After they got what they wanted, they can go back to getting fat.

Rebecca B

Because the men get fat too and then there's really no point.

Candy Floss

A doctor friend told me once that women tend to gain weight when they are in a secure relationship.

wornout

Why do woman get fat after marriage?

For the same reason men get lazy. They get comfortable. Get off your butt and romance your wife pig and maybe she'll feel loved and want to work on her appearance instead and feeling like your slave!!

sweetie

I don't think its just the women. I know my husband has put on some weight to. I think its because your comfortable with the person and don't have as much time to work out as you did before you were married and cleaning up after your husband and having children puts some weight on to.

honeybee72781

Because we have THEIR children

YEEZ

they gain weight because the man in their life stresses them out

Lucy

No Paul, no they don't want to keep their man attracted to them.

Mr. Brightside

Because a douche who asks a question like that doesnt deserve an attractive wife.

Anon

They let themselves go because they already have you trapped and will leech off you for the rest of your life.

sonni c

Women seem to be more willing to put up with how bad their husbands look than men are about women. Women tend to look more toward meeting their emotional needs and look inward and men go for looks more, the outward appearance.

Being attractive isn't always better they may look better but that's it. Both people should keep themselves up for themselves not for anyone else. That's why they fall apart they don't care how they look they have to want to be healthy and look good for them not for their spouse.

smileâ˜º

my sister was 125 pounds when she got merried and now she weight alot more because she's having her third child all woman get fatter when they have a child=)

bunny

HAH! One might ask the same about some of the young men I've seen around town who were in good shape earlier as well...It is true however, that weight when pregnant and thereafter is a little harder to maintain for women as opposed to men.

Today, obesity reigns in the US, in men and women and children - all of the above. It's about sensible eating and exercise working in concert with one another. Methinks too many people have no pride, interest, education in their well being. Hence the ungodly weight problems of our population (and I'm NOT speaking to health problems creating such issues such as Diabetes and other serious conditions)

Sincerely,

Grace

"Arkie Mom"

Oh no you didn't just ask that question. A lot of women have children and you try carrying around something that ends up the size of a watermelon for 9 months and try to raise it for 18 years with the bulk of the responsibility on you and then try and see if that pound cake. fudge brownies, ice cream, chocolate chip cookies and ho-hos don't make you feel better. *uck the great personality too because I have someone like you that thought like that and now he is visibly fat. I was not chipper and happy with his lazy @ss sitting screaming shut those damn kids up!

(WOMAN)

This is probably going to sound bad but American girls are known for getting big after they get married. I mean just look at the teenagers now days, they are BIG they don't look their age. Probably is all the vitamins they shoved down their throats when were are kids.

I see a lot of women getting offended by this question but it's true that some women don't care anymore about their looks b/c they feel secure with their man and it should not be like that including husbands too.

SGT. Dillers Wifey

"for better or worse"

Seth ...DILF-to-be...HaHaHa :)

Some women are fat before marriage too. You should see some of the women at my office if you don't believe me. They're always really jolly and great fun to be around though. Don't discriminate.

Emily

When they get married they are off the market so they don't see the point. Also new wives (some) become obobsessed with cooking and make tons of food and cakes and what not. At least this is what happened to my stepmom. Who knows?

charlie

I think it's a defense mechanism so their man will stay away from them. It works for them. Whats the problem then. How else are they suppose to get rid of the bum???? If you have a better way, then let the ladies in on it. SHARE come on

Honey

Some men actually like women with meat on their bones and aren't attracted to rail thin bodies. So, getting fat only matters if the man isn't in to fat women. In that regard, I have to wonder the same as you. What is it about marriage that makes some people forget what it took to attract their mate and why do people not feel that if it took that to attract them, that it would take that to keep them? The older I get, the better I understand. All those cookies and donuts, coupled with a lack of activity, have a totally different affect now that I'm 30-something than when it did when I was 20-something. I'm not at all fat but I could use some tightening around my hip/***/thigh area.

I gained weight after getting married but it was because I had a baby and really had nothing to do with me getting married. It was just coincidental that I gained weight around the same time as getting married because with the exception of the two times I was pregnant, my weight had been the same for over 10yrs.

On the flip side, my husband has been gaining weight since we've been married and has increased even more so now that he's a stay at home dad, so maybe some guy out there can share why some men let themselves go for absolutely no reason at all. It's not like you have baby weight to lose and for those guys who work, they have absolutely no justification (since one is needed) to gain weight because it's not like they're sitting around the house all day.

Tony S

Paul, most wives (like mine) don't just get fat - they gain some weight because of pregnancies, and some with age. But frankly, who wants to be married to a toothpick. Keep in mind that as your wife is changing so are you, its called the stages of life.

xyz123

I think it's incredibly hott for a woman to gain weight either before or after marriage. I hope when I get married, my wife does.

I agree with comment above the man stresses them out, yelling at kids, yelling at them etc.....

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