Why do women NAG and NAG and NAG?????

Turtle

Take your woman by the hands, look into her eyes and lovingly ask her what she really wants to say to you. Give her your undivided attention and respect while she spills her guts. Tell her how important she is to you but that her constant nagging is driving you from her. Tell her you're sorry for your part in the breakdown of your marriage and communication and that you'd like to get better at it. Let her know that you hold her in high regard. It sounds like a breakdown on both your parts. You no longer listen so she nags. You may have to have lots of talks with her before she finally understands that she can have your attention without nagging; be willing to be a good listener, try to understand her and ask questions when you don't, be respectful, attentive and sincere, and show her you care. Try this and I hope it helps. Best wishes to you both!!

Jenni P

cuz men don't listen, listen, listen!

Ego's Twin

When someone (man or woman) has to ask something more than once, it sounds like a nag.
So the better question is, why would anyone make someone ask more than once?

Puresnow

I never nag.

He does the laundry when it gets backed up. He orders in when I am too tired to cook. (I'm okay with him not cooking. I like ordering.) He mows the lawn, checks the cars, takes out the trash on trash day. Never once have I had to "nag."

Nagging is the symptom, dear, a lazy husband is the disease.

Jeni W

yeah well what can I say as a female we dont all nag
you know what women who nag drive me nuts............

maybe I dont know they dont feel like they are heard
i dont know

I don't know about there being a nag gene. I just know that when I nagged my husband, it was because I was trying to get him to change some behavior I didn't like. Most people (myself included) do not take the time to get to know their mate before they marry and then think they can get them to change afterward. In fact, I thought it was part of being a good wife, to get my husband to stop smoking and drinking beer. What I failed to realize was that by nagging all the time, I was making him smoke and drink more so that he would feel good about himself.

Cool guy

buy a pair of ear plugs

Sweet Suzy 777!

You are the one who is listening to it. Tell her to shut up.

alpha & omega

I heard of a camera whose lenses are so fast that they had pictured a woman with her lips closed.

K S

There is no "nag gene" Do not generalize all women. If you're having a problem with your significant other it is with her and not with every woman on the planet. Maybe she nags you because you don't listen/do whatever needs to be done. Or maybe she nags because she has trust/control issues.

Because you do not acknowledge us. Because you do not acknowledge that you hear us. Talk about ignoring someone and showing disrespect!

spork

BECAUSE YOU DON'T DO IT THE FIRST THREE TIMES WE ASK!

It's bullocks to believe that all women nag, m'dear. So stop biatching about it, already!!! Man, such a nagging question..... it would be like me saying that ALL men are troublesome to women because they are deaf, dumb, and blind.. it just isn't so. Maybe you just keep running into those types that haven't grown up yet?! What does S say about it?

Oh, by the way.. long time no talk to.. hope you're doing well. Miss you! ^_^

turtlewoman2005

Women nag when they don't feel heard. If you listen the first time, she won't have to repeat herself. It's more exhausting for the "******" than the "nagee" - believe me...

Ol Goat

And they say we have the lecture and narrator genes.

Stranger In My Heart

You're right. We DO nag a lot. That is ..if nagging entails getting you guys to clean up this world you have control of; I mean, it's a mess. Some guys don't hear a thing women are saying, don't ask directions, then cry to us when it's time to clean up your messes! You don't want to talk, then you want to know "Baby, what's wrong?"...by that time we are tired of trying to get the point across to you... "Oh, NOW you WANT to talk!!!

~*tigger*~ **

well may be its because someone is not listening
so to get through they have to go over board with the asking
LOL
have we been naughty??

bear

Women only NAG if you listen to them. Otherwise it's just a slightly annoying hum in the background. A good idea can be to change the channel on the TV. They will stop nagging then. Mind you it could be advisable to be wearing some knife proof clothing at the time. That is the only sNAG

Confused.

I'm so glad I realized I was a ****** for some time! I think it comes from not being able to relate to the state of mind men get into when they "shut down". I see now that you need to gather your thoughts and if we say it once it sticks.... It was, for me, a need of immediate gratification. To know that I was not being walked on and to have the immediate feeling of being listened too. The nagging starts when I don't get it the first time I ask... Which I now see will come with much Patience. It's the same thing when you guys can't relate to what a woman goes through when she is PMSing. It is something that needs to be understood...that you just can't understand. Hopefully your lady will learn to understand you more as a person and give you the spoace and consideration you need as a man!

cheri

Maybe if men do what and when we ask them to do that something it will not be necessary to nag nag nag and if men really hear what we are saying and not what they think we are saying, or want to hear us say, we will not have to nag nag nag

Suzy Q

Naging is not nag nag nag. i was once told i did that and its really concern and worry over the person and that is what you are saying nag. i hate it and i know what is going on there. you must be a real monster probably not coming home on time and other things well if you dont' want to come home leave and get divorced.

Russell

don't give them a reason to nag you

angeleyes

'Cause you guys don't listen,listen,listen.

usmctanker1962

Quit whining, either tell her to shut the f*ck up or leave her as*.

biglipps89

If you would just do what your supposed to without us asking, we wouldn't nag.

justme

Are you not grown? Get up and walk out the room. tell her to shut her trap and go for a car ride if you have to get away from her. Do all men have to ***** and moan about everything that they perceive as nagging. maybe she isn't nagging but actually needs you to do something.

sugarbrownsweetie

I nag because he's stupid!

SheDontKnow

If you guys would listen once in a while we wouldn't have to repeat ourselves

Denecia C

women NAG because we get tired of you guys treating us in a bad way and that is the reson why we NAG!

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