Why do women just want you to trust them?

AnaT

Maybe she's telling you these things to get you to pay more attention to her. Are you complementing her enough? I've told my husband before that I can sometimes get more complements from men on the street than I do from him at home...but I only say that when I'm truly pissed:-)

alialoggi

You stupid goofball! lol, she wants you to know that other people find her attractive. Its an indirect way of reminding you of how attractive she is. Maybe you are complimentary to her, or helpful, but do you ever look at her and sincerely, just let your jaw drop and say "WOW!" Try that tactic. Or, you could do the same thing, go out with the guys and then complain about this girl just wouldn't leave you alone. If you are going to do this, I'd wait a couple months, so she doesn't realize what game you are playing. In the meantime, if she brings up the other guys, just reply, "oh really," and don't encourage a conversation (don't ask more questions). Then, you say, "You know, Bill and I went to the bar last night, and this girl put her hand right on my butt..." Get the idea? You'll turn the tables and she may just stop this flirting. Its strategy and how you want to handle it. She may learn some empathy, or she may lose some confidence, which I suspect she gets by the flirting at the bars, that she does. Honestly, guys don't put themselves out there, unless they receive signals from the girl (who is flirting). I think she is harmlessly flirting though.

Haute-Cature'

Okay, seriously, letting her go out without you is a really idiotic thing to do. Every woman likes attention. It's powerful. And I tried when my husband and I married to get him to let me go out with my single girl friend but not only did he absolutely refuse to allow it but he also made me dump my friend. In truth It's the best thing he ever did. She WAS trying to get me to forget I was married. So if we went out we went out together as a married couple. Letting her go without you is really asking for trouble. Answer this-Do you go out without her? Is she just letting you know how it feels? Or do you stay home moping while allowing other men to hit on your wife? Seriously, you really need to get a backbone and put a stop to this. Maybe she's just waiting to see if you care enough about her to put a stop to this? Really, if she loves you, she'd rather be at home with you than out running around.

Sue B

I haven't a clue as to why she'd even tell you about the men who hit on her. Well, you yourself said she already said it " I like the attention". So obviously your not giving her enough of what she craves.

Even though she's out seeking the attention, I'm still confused what it is that she is trying to do in respect to your marriage.

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