Why do women want to check their husbands' e-mail?

mustang64093gt

IM NOT SURE WILL GET BACK TO YOU ON THIS ONE

crybaby

She checks bcause she doesnt trust u

Owen E

This may be a problem for you if you have evr done anything to
lose trust with your wife. Women that are overly jealous may
think there hubby is cheating or chatting with other women anyways if you have nothing to hide then you should not have to ask this question. But really how is she doing this unless youdon't sign-out your mail account or just dumb enough to give out password?

Gucci Girl

The only reason she needs to check your email is because you must have done something in the past that makes her suspicious. My husband never checks my emails because he trusts me and I would never ever disrespect his trust.

just_me_1955

I don't and hope he would not mine Man if there is no trust how can a marriage survive

livetall1

musn't trust you

Scalawag-101

No trust.

misydoll

To make sure you are still faithful.

Tet

Check her email in return!

I'd never pry into someone elses' business that deeply, even my future man! But then, I'm afraid the court will back her up...

Elizu

too many WHY.
It is much better if you will be less mysteried with you e-mail and if you communicate more with her these will not happen.
Question your self about how many times did you lie to her and look at the mirror when you do it since your face and eyes will give the answer you looking for it.

The Answer Man

I think that you are generalizing women. If you have given her a reason then you should grant her full access to what ever she wants or is interested in . If you have not given her a reason then give her full access anyway, after all what do you
have to hide? With that being said, there is an old saying "A person reflects a mirror image of themselves in their view of other people" THIS IS NOT AMMUNITION TO USE AGAINST HER, just food for thought. It may always be better to give the benefit of the doubt, because the truth will always come out. (rhymes, huh?) Give anyone enough rope and they will hang themselves- - - Let them do it by themselves. Or, she may just want to feel secure in the relationship. Ask yourself, does she have ANY reason not to?

isa7804

She does not trust you.Are you cheating if not what is the problem with her looking at your emails dont you have the password to hers? What are you hiding? If you dont want her reading your emails or having your password to her this means that you are hiding something from her.When you start keeping passwords from your wife your obviously not married this is what she feels in her heart and this hurts a great deal to her,so she will try to find the source that is causing her this pain.A real husband will never have anything to hide from his wife as a real wife will never have anything to hide from her husband.Dont worry she will get tired of looking eventualy her love will fade and she will be out of your hair soon enough.If thats what you want just keep lying to her

Etoile

Because in the beginning of the relationship when you first started dating you did ALOT of questionable things and usually without thinking so she is making sure your not doing anymore questionable things behind her back and is also watching her back in case you do things and don't think what your doing is wrong. She is being cautious.

The reason why she didn't leave you was because she saw ALOT of quality in you but whenever you do something that isn't fair an alarm goes off in her head that confirms that you are not totally responsible for what you think and how you act.

My only advice to you is that you respect her and follow the ground rules you two set for each other as a couple as each couple has their own rules that best suits them.

heaven o

She simply does not trust you....Have you given her reason? Shame on you if you have. All I can say is if you have then you can expect her to check everything. The only other answer is that she is just insecure and is just making sure.

StarShine G

because those women don't trust their men. They either have a good reason not to trust or they are just nosy or jealous..

Chloe

Just set up another account that she doesn't know the password to, ya big silly!

.Vibrant1.

H*ll, I dunno. For one, mine doesn't check his very often, if he even has an account still open. Even if he does, I don't care. Anyone that feels they need to be in their spouses e-mail is a little paranoid and need to ease up a bit. Let people breath and have SOME space. Jeez.

Kitty

I don't check my husband's e-mail... I never even go on his computer, I have my own. I've got a hint for you: change your password. It works!

sassybree1979

Apparently, you've given her some reason to think you're being dishonest and hiding something. The easiest way to earn back trust is to be open and honest, hide nothing, and answer questions. As you gain her trust back, these actions of "checking on you" will diminish.

ladydragondale

My husband and I have all of our bills set-up to be paid on-line. When I check my husband's e-mail, I hope to find the notices that the utility companies send him letting him know that we have a bill! That is the only thing I hope to find! Everything else, risque looking or not, I leave for him! I have enough of my own junk mail!

Big Mama

She is insecure!!! Either you have given her a reason to suspect something or she is just a jealous person.

Why does it matter to you if she looks at your emails? What do you have to hide.

My hubby and I have the passwords to each others email addresses and I wouldnt think a thing of it if he went looking at my emails. Sometimes I have great jokes I haven't had a chance to forward.

megan

Your wife is untrusting. Have you done anything that has made her not trust you. E-mails can be the doorway to your secret life, thats the way your wife is looking at it. Or maybe its that she is doing something untrusting and wants to catch you doing something you shouldnt so you are the one to blame.

open_phunguy

Because most women are controling, manulipulating power freaks in cute clothing. Believe me... I was married to 3 of them until I finally found a woman who actually knows what the term "equal partner" means.

yogishwife

nozy, insecure, etc

David

they want to find your secret relationship partner. even though if you were any smart, you wouldnt have it on the same e-mail, and have a second one for her.. so i dont know.. maybe she thinks you're dumb.

JRS

... lol ... I'm so glad my BF drives a tractor ... he has the slightest clue how to even send an e-mail ... if he did have a computer though I wouldn't snoop around and try to find anything ... I'd rather not know what he's doing or looking at ... give him some privacy I guess ... as long as he does the same for me .... it's called trust ... !

Sounds like you're wife is insecure and doesn't trust you ... she feels betrayed and wants to know how to fix the " problem " ... yeah typical for the stay at home wife ... or somebody that's been hurt in the past and doesn't want it happening again ... !

Franchesca

my husband thought he could cheat on me by emailing his girlfriend. I caught him and read what he and she were writing and confronted him about it. since then I know his passwords and if he wanted to cheat which he didn't get a chance to. He never slept with her i caught them in the plans ;). so he has no freedom or trust from me. that is why women check men's email. they go to sites meet women and a lot of lonely women are on these certain sites too.

Andrew

Women always want answers and closure. That is why they ask questions to which they already know the answers. The trouble is that the answers they get are negative, or simply raise more questions. It is a vicious cycle.

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