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Sallie W
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Gosh! I saw your question and I thought I asked it because your avatar look so much like mine!
I think men cheat because they can and the ones not cheating are the one who don't make enough money or are too ugly and/or too old and/or too fat and/or too lazy.
Anybody claiming to be "happily married after years of marriage" is either a liar or in denial in my book.
That said, I still think a cheating married man can still, in a way, love his wife and children, after all, she's the mother of his kids and his kids are his immortality and he knows it's still his duty to take care of them all.
Yes, I think he could end end having feelings for the other woman but I don't think it will be reciprocal, since she knows he's a cheater and eventually, will cheat on her too.
At the end, the man will realize he lost the trust and love of his wife and family, just for a hot piece of a** who will never really respect him and eventually will bore him again. |
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abc
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lack of character and opportunity |
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michaelnangle2002
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Men or women who cheat just have no respect for their partner. End of story |
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joe_fleeman
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Some guys are dogs and will do any woman anywhere anytime.Others are unhappy and they are driven to find love and affection outside of the home due to neglect. |
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use 2 b lost
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cheating is a form of greed. no matter which side it is that's cheating...it's greed. you want to do what you want to do and control the what the next person does as well. like having your cake and eating it too. They have only the same feelings for the next person as the feelings they have for the person they cheated on. IT'S ALL ABOUT ME. |
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J'adore
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No it's because they are selfish and feel it's the only way to "save" their marriage...
it's a cop out, and I have no respect for either party if they are going to cheat. |
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jt_eradicator
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nope, bored and it makes them feel like 'big men' to have a variety. |
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Kris
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yes its because they find "newer and greener pastures " around and so they cheat.no matter how much fat and ugly they are, they will use lame execuses for their wives being fat and ugly as a reason for them to cheat. |
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Amber B
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As time and life goes on, little resentments build up that are not spoken. The resentments build and build until men start to feel that they are justified to cheat. The wife's a nag. She doesn't keep a clean enough house. She doesn't understand him. Blah Blah Blah. He's still "in love" with his wife, but she doesn't love him enough. Then someone else comes around that "understands" them, and they start to share these emotional frustrations with them. And then it builds. Do they have feelings for the other woman? Of course. But they can actually have feelings for both of them. Then it really gets screwed up. |
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towanda
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Men cheat because they can and have no regard for the feelings of those at home or their relationships and commitments. It's easier to develop feeling for someone that is just fun and isn't there with all the day to day problems. Long ago I was tending bar and this gentleman walked in and in the course of a conversation said he was married and not looking for any shenanigans. This really beautiful girl sitting on a stool next to him, spun around and raised her blouse and flashed her very amble bosom and said, "What do you think of these?" His hands went out to touch and she said, "Uh Uh, you don't cheat and laughed and spun back around. The whole bar laughed and the man was mortified. He was way out of his league. Both women and men cheat on their spouses as if fidelity and trust don't matter. Why do they do it? So many answers . . . |
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Chocolate_Bunny
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same reason married woman cheat....
A few things to keep a marriage happy.
1. Keep the mind(s) stimulated
2.Make your partners feel like Kings and Queens
3.Communication is key
4.Keep yourself healthy/presentable
5.Remember, marriage is not 50/50 it is 100/100 |
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jeannieboop
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the ones that do are all dogs matter of speaking, if they loved their wives they wouldn't be doing that. so it just tells us what kind of men they are and they wonder why woman can't trust a man |
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LDJ
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There is lust in their hearts. No I don't believe they have feelings for anyone but them self's. |
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Mandazzar
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I agree monogamy is asking so much of a person. You can love someone but still manage to cheat, because some people like a change every now and then and if you've been together for a certain time you can get bored and want to try new things, without losing the one you love.
For many its a win win situation, until the partner finds out. |
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Dragonheart
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Perhaps, there's a need that is not satisfied, as well when the woman change the approach with her partner or viceversa, another reason is when the woman change their feelings of being a "female" to be a mother, and the man instead of seeing a woman.... a mom.... |
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Should of Used Birth Control
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Same reason women cheat.........immaturity, insecurity, selfishness and no sense of loyalty. Period. |
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Brown eyed girl
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boredom, they get tired of their same old lives and start to look and wish for something different |
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hardrider_x
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A lot of men who deem themselves "happy" are really very sad with everything, including themselves. The biggest reason many men married men cheat is because it gives them a false sense of youth. They wish to relive that time when they were young and virile. In most cases, these married men REALLY DO love their wives and children, but the prospect of being with another, coupled with the newly-found thrill of pursuit often makes them open to their desires. Either that, or they strongly feel that something is missing in their marriages.
In rare cases, some married DO develop feelings for their lovers, and sometimes leave their families for the other woman. But it rarely works out, and they wind up right back where they started. |
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Mary (dokhtar aryaei)
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yes i had this exprience believe me its right and men end up having feeling for other women |
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Denise J
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Married men cheat because they know their wife will:
1) Forgive them.
2) She doesn't have a job so has no choice to just accept it.
3) She wants the same lifestyle and won't have it if she divorces him.
4) Because she is stupid and won't notice.
5) Because she doesn't care.
6) Because she is happy he is leaving her alone and bothering another woman.
And for your last question......yes, they sometimes fall in love with the other woman. Sadly, that won't stop the guy cheating on her either. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Somehow cheaters just feel they can do whatever they want as long as it makes them happy without regard for the feelings of the rest of the family. |
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♥xChannel.
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well, when they get attention from another woman, it makes them feel special and attractive... that and they cant say no to having you know what :) |
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Alex b
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probably for the same reason women cheat something is missing isn the relationship, and we all need to feel needed, important and loved.
A relationship is a two way street and you both have to work at it to keep it real.
And yes, anyone can start having feelings for others |
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Johnny
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selfish loser pigs there mom treated them like crap there drunks no real reason just plain destructive assh---s. |
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Kristin Since 1987â„¢
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Because they want to?
because they aren't happy with their marriages
because they like having more than one partner
I don't know, cheating is BADDDDDD |
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