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Why does love hurt so much?
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Why does love hurt so much?



    




Miss. Misunderstood
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Because you have emotions.

Extract them all and live a careless life!

GO!


Tricia B
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Its not supposed to...so if your "love" is hurting it's time to get a new one


Martin I
No joking intended ... blame it on the hormones that are involved when it comes to falling in love, being in love, losing interest in people we once loved.


KCSH
Why does it? It shouldn't?


ang_phx
Can you provide more details? Love isn't supposed to hurt.


Why not me
Real love doesn't hurt, it isn't supposed to. The "love" you are talking about hurts because we want to be in love or love so bad that we don't care who it is, and when it doesn't work out because it isn't meant to be that hurts


JOHN D
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Tell your Boyfriend to use KY Jelly


lata
Love doesn't hurt..Are you sure you're using the right word?


Its me!!! :)
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Because you let it.. We can only feel what we allow others to make us feel....


Butterfly274
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I know it is said that love don't hurt.But when this person we shared this love with is gone that hurts.
It belongs to no one else and that love will be a forever memory.
I realize with my own experience I have fallen in love only once,I had love for others. But being in love with that some one I felt Like I could accomplish anything.It is also said time heals all things,I question when.
so I feel in life there is joy and pain just like there is night and day.
Knowing how to use each experience is our choice.
Good Luck


JACKIE
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I THINK LOVE IS HARD BECAUSE WE PUT OUR HEARTS INTO IT AND WE DONT TRUST OUR SELFS. SO WE END UP WITH PAIN.. LOVE IS A GRAND THING..


tgiiif_2k6
Love hurts in certain ways: Falling love, Beginning love, and ending love.

"Falling love"- Hurts beacues when you've found anything or anyone that you like you feel emotionally attached until it leaves you at a abnormal moment in your life.

"Beginning love" love hurts in the beginning in love beacuse you feel more responsibility and the pressure to meet the needs of the new possession is highly stressful.

"Ending Love" Much like "bitter-divorces" this tunes in due to your acceptance in your inabillity to rebuld your current relationship(s). Therefore you feel the huge burden beginning to fall, and as a last resort you try to push the stress away by either trying to unrealistically win him/her back in seconds with positive actions (giving the loved one, themselves or either family members treats, cards, money, ect) or negative actions (threats, blackmail, various abuses even to themselves or either family members)

Hope this helps....


BK thang
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I know. Wouldnt it be just perfect when two people mutually love each other and everything from thereon goes perfect between you two? But love just like life have a lot of steep hills and turns, just like never ending road. I guess you been hurt couple of time here and there and love didnt come easy for you. Well dont stress it. Please dont even give up on this. Love is too beautiful to give up on because at some point in your life you've been hurt. RIght now you are fed up and tired of BS and you just dont see the light in the end of the tunnel. It is only temporary feeling and it will pass. You gonna have to learn that nothing comes easy and everything needs attention and effort in order to be great. Just next time...take your time! And if things are not going right between you and someone else who you love then maybe it is just a testing stage and two of you need some time alone to think things through. Its hard for me to comment on your particular situation and even harder to guess why such a harsh question, but dont ever give up. Its part of life and life can be a *****, we all know that. Love is part of our lives so it goes along with lifes issues. Cheer up....:)


Dukes of Hazardous Waste
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Oh. Does it?




;)


roll model
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Love hurts because you give all of you. If love did not hurt it would not be real. If you ever stop loving somebody, it is not love.


amberlynne_2007
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Because it is LOVE. It causes pain and happiness. It hurts you to know how much you love the person. But you can't let it hurt you.


♥ Mischa S. ♥
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Because your heart breaks. Well, not literally, you know. It's like puncturing a block of wood with a nail. You can always take the nail out, but the hole will forever be there.

Plus, love hurts when you get rejected, and who wants that?


Sadbuttrue
If love hurts it's probably not love.

When you can love someone whether they are with you or not, then love won't hurt.


MISSinterpreted
I'm asking the same questions too....


hot b i t c h
i have always want to know that i am going through a breakup and it hurts like hell and the pain is killing me inside i can not take any more


yashira v
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hey i now how it feel i just left my boy friend and i feel like **** i feel really bad i want to cry and cry but i have to get over it soon and it hurt because you like the person


**Lil QT**
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the answer lies deep within a person individually...nobody can feel the pain you are experiencing, just as nobody can feel my pain that i am experiencing.
i can suggest that you try to smother yourself with family and friends around you that will help heal your aching heart. find peace within yourself and you can be happy again...


Dr Universe
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because we get to involved with someone we like and they turn around and hurt us for no reason


agentm006
It's hard to lose someone when you give part of your heart to them.
Love hurts sometimes, but it can be so good, too!

"It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"


hello there
because of imperfection. we are faaaaaaaar off from adam and eve, and living in imperfection, that happens. who ever hurt you, i'm sorry to hear that. take care.

scincerly,
hello there


get_high_and_hope_it_gets_u_by
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Cuz its love.
When u care about someone that much it is kinda hard for it not to hurt


suzyalexisandgabe
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Unfortunately love stinks sometimes. If you've been hurt by someone you love them its gonna hurt for a long time, but I personally think if they love you, then they would go out of their way to make sure your not hurt!


?
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Because maybe his is too big for you?


Kelsey
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Because someone stole your heart.


SHELLBELL
Nothing good is ever easy.


Volleybabe24
Ohhh, you poor guy. You, and a million other people, have encountered the best and worst feeling on this planet-love.
There is really no logical answer for that question, but everyone (including me!) wants to know WHY LOVE HURTS.
Everyone has experienced heartbreak before, but it still aches, especially if it's love.
I don't have the answer, but I do have a remedy: Cry and do whatever it takes to show your hurt, then gather the pieces of your broken heart and try to move on.
I'll be praying for you.





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