Why does my girlfriend want to be the boss?

tionna2nice

u know u like it thats why your there

punxsutawney phil

Grow some balls and walk out. No one needs that cr@p. You will have to put up with it for life. You prepared for that Mr Doormat?

SeaShells09

u are getitng yourself into a controlling relationship. its not 50/50 i say dump her. and move on and find someone better. cause you can. and if she is bugging you to get a ring... um?? u r suppose to make that decsion not her.

Lugoo0412

Uhm, someone has control issues! Meaning her. You need to take a break from her if she keeps this up.

tugar357

I'd walk out.

If you are not working then yes, I would be mad if supper wasn't ready. If you both work, then I tell her politely to make a list and stick to who does dinner when. Or let her do the dishes. You aren't her slave and she isn't yours. If there isn't mutual respect, it isn't a relationship, it's a dictatorship.

why.... is she the only one bringing the money to the home?
And good for her.... I wish my husband took that from me....

peachesdeese

Tell her shes not your Mother....help her pack her stuff....and show her psycho demanding butt the door!

lil b

your getting into a situation called "being whipped".
sorry guy, get outta this

You ask, I answer

run. run fast. quickly....

Ricky K

I would tell her who's boss. Don't let her push you around dude. Tell her to shut the **** up and listen to you for a change, she might like it. If not you need to get away from her. Be a man. Good Luck.

mjbrightergem33

maybe because u are not man enough or dont know how to make good decisions?? mj

Matter

Put your purse down, take your dress off and try to act like a man!!

BTB{06.22.09}

Maybe it is because you can't really accomplish anything on your own...

And she probably bugs you about a ring because she's not confident that you are capable of getting a ring and proposing all on your own.

Honestly, you are probably too dependent on her and that's the only way she knows how to deal with it. If she is forced to take care of all the details and make all the decisions than she IS the boss, she's just letting you know. But that would be your fault for not stepping up and taking care of your ****.

Start making your own decisions, take care of ALL of your responsibilities without her help, and plan things for you two once in awhile.

Trust me, it will make a HUGE difference if she sees that you're capable. I guarantee that she doesn't like making ALL the decisions and planning things... She gives you a hard time in hopes that you'll step it up.

Good luck!

Vendetta

She wants to be the upper-dog. Unsecure, she needs to be in control. If you let her, you are enabling the situation and will only get worse and worse. Give her an ultimatum. But be careful, she might pull back temporarilly then resume the behavior. Unfortunately for you, it is a personality disorder and there is no fixing! Get the f---- out!!

Alwyn C

Things won't get any better once your married either. You have to make up your mind if she is worth it all. If not get out quick while the going is good.

Alyssa

Girls are girls. But she sounds out of hand. Is she playing around? If she is tell her to stop. Or is she speaking her mind? If she is and you don't like it, it's time to leave.

Joey B

She probably has some control issues, there really isnt much you can do for a girl like that. So, unless you want to be controlled you should get out of that relationship.

d-i-v-o-r-c-e

Texan to the Max-AKA-Plowmaster

Your getting into a thing called love. She wants to see that you will do all that she wants you to do before she says I do. They all do that. Best advice I got was just agree and go along you'll win in the end. She says something agree let things play out even if you know she's wrong and when it blows up or she loses interest you win. Financial decisions always say yes because then one day she will say yes to your riding mower or some other thing you want. She will see the balance and she will realize I spend this no money for that. When I got married my wife was the same and trust me when she sees it's food or xyz she'll chose food. Eventually you will take over just give it time.

MISS TT

like the old saying say's GIRLS RULE BOYS DROOL!!!!

cattbarf

Well, an alpha male and and alpha female can clash. What did you expect to get into, except her?

LifeIsPeachy

LOL. Welcome to planet earth. Nice of you to join us!

Jamie Lynn

She is controlling and you let her control you and I understand how you don't want to lose her, but you need some freedom and hey maybe you want to wear the pants for a while... and talk to her about it that is if you can handle it... not to be rude... but you kind of dug yourself into a hole... so get some balls and jump out!

poopsie

run as fast as you can or you will regret it for the rest of your life, she's a big time CONTROLLER, MANIPULATER, run are you man enough to tell her to get the hell out, I hope so buddy, if you don't love this woman tell her!!!!! break it off

CRYSTIZZLE

wow... haha.

either your really stupid and she has to keep your butt in line

or shes really controlling.

take your pick..

Kelly C

She wants to be the boss because she likes the control.

I would put a stop to this now, unless you want to be dominated for the rest of this relationship.

What was she doing that she was not able to make dinner..was she at work

Make some changes now before it is too late and she gets used to her role.

csiintraining2006

OK let give you some real advice, Just think it over a minute You just said you love her. So that's means even her bossy ways. Shes an aphla woman. I'm not saying that her way is always right. Try talking to her see if maybe she's willing to back down some. Tell how you feel, shes sure doesn't have any problem telling you. Explain to her that if she was willing to try even you might actually consider a ring because that would mean she is willing to try anything to make yall's relationship to work. That's what a marriage is about anyways. If you aren't ready for marriage then you really need to tell her that too. You need to be honest with her. That's what a relationship is base on.

Spartan316

Sounds to me like she has an inferiority complex and needs to be in control of someone to feel better about herself. If you ask me, time to go. there are plenty of women out there that will treat you as an equal, not a slave or an inferior being.

Nicky

Next time she asks for a ring, point out that your looking for a partner to marry not a boss.

tim2honorgod

Sounds liek you have a dominatrix on your hands. Just be submissive, believe me, the returns are aweome. If you really wanna have some fun, buy her a whip.

R. Media

Maybe at some point in her life she was bossed around and is now doing the same thing to you. Or maybe she is waiting for you to stand up for yourself and say something about her actions and or words. Either way you should talk to her and tell her how it makes you feel. Let her know it bother you and maybe she would reveal her reasons for being so bossing.

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