Why does my wife always hides from me when ever she is changing her clothes or coming out of the shower.?

igotplayedonce

I'll bet she wants to make love in the dark huh?

Tell her you love the way she looks (and really mean it). Jump in the shower with her and wash her up. Walk in where she's changing with yourself on full "WOOD" hold and caress her (try you best not to try and bone her), tell her you love her and she's still your pretty girl, kiss her on the cheek and go back to doing what you are doing (understand, if she starts getting horny, serve her the pepperoni on the spot).

You can help her get past her shyness if you make her more comfortable about her body.

dianesomeone

she is embarrased to let you see her body or she is incredibly shy....

sierra33ok

She might not like the way she looks naked... and thinks it will be a turn off to you. If you really want to help her get over it tell her every day that you think she is gorgeous and looks better than the day you met.

*~>Nicki<~*

maybe she feels insecure or embarrassed. let her kno that you love her no matter what and that you married her for 'her' not her looks. tell her that she doesnt need to be embarrassed b/c you love her and you married her. you wouldnt have married her if you didnt love everything about her so she needs no reason to hide

sw312

Do you down her about her weight or appearance? She is insecure about something. Ask her. Communication is key!

adamsgurl

maybe she is very insecure. i was like that and my friend is like that. maybe she doesnt feel good about herself.

TracyBee

Your wife could be very self conscience about her body. Maybe in the past she has a bad experience and is shy when it comes to being completely in the buff with the lights on, etc. She could feel vulnerable to a point. Make sure that you are not making crude male type remarks that are made to make women think that they are only wanted for there bodies. She might need you to make more compliments to her about her body when she is dressed as well as undressed. Assure her that she is completely safe around you and that your RESPECT every ounce of her body.

Gucci S

Maybe she is not used to exposing herself in front of other people. This is a good thing. It shows you that before you married her she was not a **** where she would expose her body to any male out there. Give it time. She'll get used to you!!!!!!

AnswerMom

It depends. Has this always been the case? Or is this something recent?

If it's always been the case, then it's probably that sometimes she just wants privacy.. Or maybe it's "that time of the month"?

If it's recent, or it it hasn't always been this way, maybe she's shy about something. Has she gained a few pounds? Even if you haven't noticed, maybe she has? Or is there a "flaw" she's uncomfortable with? For example, I got really bad stretch marks when I was pregnant, and even though I'm in great shape now and have lost all of my baby weight, my stomach is still a bit saggy and jiggly, and I'm VERY self conscious about it.

If you think it's something she's self conscious about it, rather than just being shy, maybe just reassure her from time to time that you think she's beautiful, etc.

college girl

Some women just feel that they are not very attractive physically. Some women just want privacy.
Some women are just a little shy and know that if they are naked in front of their man they will be staring a hole straight through them.

Rosie

How long have you been with her? Has she have any kids after you both got married? It could be that she is no longer comfortable with her body, especially if she had kids and have gained weight as a result. She might be thinking that you no longer finds her attractive.

Sit her down, hold her close to you, let her know that you love her more than when you just met her (especially if she have kids for you). She just wants to feel needed although her body is not the same as when she said "i do" to you.

Just let her know, don't just do it to make her feel better. Instead, do it because you mean every word.

PAULINA S

sometimes especially if she has had children a woman feels embarassed of how her body looks she probably feels you would not like what you see, because she dose feel pleased with how she looks. re a sure her and if she has the bomb body and a flawless figure then she needs work on some self esteem with a flawless body there should be no problem especially with her husband

stacy

immature childish insecurity-good luck with that

Brianna

She probably doesn't want you to see her naked. There's a difference between being Nude and being Naked. In bed making sweet love = Nude. Awkwardly putting on clothes under the glare of fluorescents = Naked.

Robert B

Maybe she does not want to give you any Ideas.
Not interested then... get my meaning..

LeeLynn

I do the same thing. I really don't know why. Guess I just been walked in 2 many times...

ladee giggles

i don't know......maybe she's still not totally comfortable with showing her body to you......how long were you guys married?????maybe she thinks she ugly and thinks you'll think that of her.......she really cares what you think of her.....it's a self esteem thing

Dreaux~

she doesn't like her body and she's afraid you won't find her attractive.
or, she comes from a long line of puritans.

sweetie

insecure and probably ashamed of her body

aliyah

she most be very selfconsious.....have u told her how u love no matter what?Keep telling her how she's everything to you....try and make her feel comfortable...and dont press it..she'll feel comfortable in time.

Wiser1

She's modest and probably doesn't think her body is all that good. If she is wrong, TELL her!

Nicole

she might be self concious

IT'S JUST ME !

Tell her you will turn out the lights !

Rochelle

She may be self conscience about the way she looks without cloths on.

This could be because you have made her feel unattractive...which i doubt or you wouldn't' have asked this question, or she may compare herself to other women.

Society and the media portray beauty in one way and too many women compare themselves to it.

shedevil

you cant blame her if she doesnt really like it. so its up to you to change how she feels and do something about it.

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