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Blue T
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It is to stop you cheating and I think that she is right to do this. |
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WOWZA!
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She's got the "Keep your friends close and your enemy's closer" she's trying to be their friend so she can find out if anything is going on....She's jealous. |
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Wildflower
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She's following the saying of keep your friends close and your enemies even closer..
Edit: lol.. I see that someone else had the same thought! :) |
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artislife51524
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i think you know the answer to this question. your first sentence said it all. you are intentionally trying to be friends with women youre attracted to and your wife is picking up on that, why is it that you went out of your way to find out the name of the girl across the street who you find cute? and are you actually stupid enough to be mentioning these women to her? you really are clueless. i feel for your wife. |
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Shannon
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Keep your enemies closer.
Now she has a reason to just call them and make sure you're not there.
You should not be making new female friends. Certainly not "cute girl" friends that "live across the street". She should slap you.
You are not single anymore. |
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Amber H
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"like the cute girl across the street" ? maybe she is interested in her for the same reasons you are...its all innocent right?!
Couples shouldn't have private friends..they are a couple and should have mutual friends. |
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marie s
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Are you hiding something from her?
I have male friends, BF knows them and sometimes they all do guy stuff. It doesn't bother me. He knows they have been a part of my life for years and is not threatened by them. I have never tried to keep him from getting to know them.
Perhaps you are a flirt, or she feels a bit insecure. How do you react if she has hot guy friends? |
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Tommy T
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You're a couple... what do you mean "your own friends"? |
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Frazzled Bride
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maybe its because you think she is cute and you show it. She feels threatened and I would be too. You aren't reassuring her that she is the only one for you. |
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Jane Marple
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She's smart.
Would you prefer that she has fits and demand that you don't make friends at all with other females! no, she's more classy than that. |
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Alison
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Why would you want to have new girl friends in your life when you're already married? That's a red flag. How would you feel if your wife went out and made male friends? |
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Jenna
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As the saying goes, keep your friends close and your enemies closer, lol she is just marking her territory and you should be flatterd that she cares and loves you so much that she wants to get to know the people you find interesting. |
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Bibigirl
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Ever hear the saying "Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer." Well, case in point. |
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Semper Fidel
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Easy, jealousy.
Just talk to her and try to work it out. |
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ThaDon
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your problem |
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claire
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why on earth have female friends?are you planning on fooling around?maybe thats what your wife feels that might happen.she doesnt trust who you're talking to when it comes to the females.especially a pretty one.how would you feel if a young handsome man came her way and was talking to her.you coming in from work and shes chatting with this man.think about how you feel.think how she feels. |
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Miracle Please!
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she dont trust you or them. she wants to keep an eye on them and you. |
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Laura S
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l am guilty of doing this with my husband. I've learnt to let him have his own friends now but it still irritates me when he has girl friends I had no idea of and I'm guilty of the Facebook check and then starting a conversation. It's never a nasty conversation, I'm always intent on actually becoming friends with these girls but a part of me knows it's the jealousy doing it to me.
Your wife doesn't want to feel threatened by anyone who may intrude in your relationship, especially if they're attractive or she feels they're more attractive than her. To combat this, try including her in your conversations with these girls to show her that they're just friends and there's nothing to worry about. If she doesn't get it after that then have a sit down and a serious conversation about how it makes you feel. You need to help her through her issues as much as she needs to let you have your space. |
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rhndnicholson
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I think she might be a bit insecure of you being friends with a younger woman, and wants to befriend this young lady because she feels by doing so nothing will happen, or she will be able to prevent anything from happening. Maybe you kinda like this lady, and maybe felt a bit nice, and attractive because she told you her name, then bam, here comes the wife raining on your parade. I feel for you man. |
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Angel's Wings
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Because she's a smart woman. Look, some of it may be that she's a tiny bit jealous, but it's probably because she understands women and knows that most women are attention junkies.
And, why exactly do you feel the need to have women friends? |
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J
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My guess is she has a problem with self confidence. |
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cjmessy
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I would think the answer to this would be obvious. She want to make sure the woman you know, know that she is around. If she befriends them, it will make it harder for them to see you as a romantic interest, as you will become one half of this couple she knows! |
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mommy to be..again<3
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she is jealous man,
talk to her about it. |
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Mr.Mysterious
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I say shes playing it smart, cause women can be much colder,& more brutal then men any day,& they usually are. I would relax If I was u, cause when she sees that there is nothing to worry about, she will back off. In fact,u should take a page out of her book, cause if she developed a lot of men 4 friends then u better be concern, u know how some of us men can be somtimes, with the people in this world today like they are, at least one of those men will look at ur wife as a piece of meat, if hes not gay,lol! |
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Polly
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J E A L O U S Y...
You're wife is a little insecure. You need to reassure her more. |
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