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Why does no one want to marry me? I've asked seventeen people and they all make excuses or refuse outright.
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Why does no one want to marry me? I've asked seventeen people and they all make excuses or refuse outright.



    




colmfiveten
Josephine, you've just been unlucky in the people you've asked. They don't understand your real beauty. having read your profile i think i love you. Will you marry me????


loobeloo999
r u ugly?


angryspiderbites
Cause you ugly, have bad breath, no future and talk to much and ask stupid questions. ANd you aint ggots no money.


mark leshark
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You must be a ugly boring pig...


doclakewrite
I think you are lonely and need to have someone in your life to make you feel complete. You should not take marriage proposals lightly, you might get something you are not ready for. I don't know your age, but you couldn't possibly gotten to know 17 people that well that you wanted to marry them.. I think you are jumping the gun and trying to rush romance into commitment. That way you will have someone... You need to figure out why you can't be happy with you. You need to work on personal growth.
I think if you join a group or club of some sort, some of your needs will be met.
Being alone and being lonely are two different things.
If you do not have family , get involved somewhere, in a needy group, the church, soup kitchen, children's club... do something for someone else that will give you a feeling of accomplishment... You are probably strong but don't take the time to really look at who you are, what your strengths are and what you have to offer.
Don't be afraid to be alone with yourself......
Relax a little, get involved in social groups and take it easy...


tweetybird
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i suggest u get major counceling b4 u ask another person to marry u ... u'll have comitment/relationship problems till u sort your head out ... wats your relationship like with your parents?


ashley s
WHAT??? WHY???? Do you think you need to be with someone to be happy? you have had 17 people that have been a part of you're life long enough for you to ask them to marry you?there may be a problem with the choices you are making in youre dating life. I don't think i know anyone that has seriously dated 17 people in there whole life. Stop being in such a hurry to find MR/MRS RIGHT NOW, and take some time to get to know the person your with.
Sounds like you need to slow down and take a good hard look at yourself and decide what is it you really want.
You don't want to spend the rest of youre life with just anyone. marriage is hard enough, you really need to make sure they are your best friend, true love and know them inside and out.
Don't be so hard on yourself, i'm sure you are a great person with alot to offer to the right person, but give it time!! they will be there when you stop looking so hard! GOOD LUCK.


steve w
Well you have to build up a really tight relationship before you just randomly ask people.


tacho
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let me see what you look like and will tell ya


vexon
why are you asking so many people. It could be that you are asking the question to the wrong people or that you are asking way to quickly into the relationship. stop asking people, wait till the other person in the relationship brings up the topic. dont rush into it and stop thinking that it is the end of the world that you are not married. it's not the be all and end all. some relationships work better when marrage is not involved than when it is.

dont worry about getting married and focus on the relationship itsel. you may be suprised!!!


starlet108
Maybe they think youre a bit weird - its not normal to ask SO MANY people to Marry you. You cant actually know these people very well if you've managed to ask 17 of them in total. How about actually getting to know them, fall in love a little before asking next time x


dragonsclaw27
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17? what the heck? did one have any love involved?


learned_old_sage
Better luck with the eighteenth!!!


m deal
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maybe you should go out with the person first and see if they like you also. you'll probably have better odds then.


mimi
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Why would you ask anyone, wait someone should ask you. You come across as desperate to be married and men run the other way. Be more reserved and not as forward and men will find you more interesting.


sexy legs
your desperation is scaring them .....


goodlookin.mama
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probably becaise they aren't in love with you. You need to find someone that makes your heart feel warm and you that you are in love with, don't just ask anybody. Date some one for a while and when the words I love you come out of both your mouths and it means something then that is the time to ask someone to marry you


♥Sweet Girl♥
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you asked 17 people to marry you???? stop throwing it around like it's a prom date invite!!!!


smarto
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Next time state whether you are a female or a male. That will help the community.


j3z7kd1j09aj
because you are asking the wrong people. go for number 18.


undecided young man
youre kidding right?


lovetofly46
Seventeen people? Are you just desperate to get married? Obviously, you are. Why? Ask yourself. And then seventeen times you have been refused.

It is very apparent that you never got to know anyone of these people. You must ask them on the first date or something. It takes time to know if two people should spend the rest of their lives together.

This question should not be asked on a whim. Since you have asked this particular question and admitted to asking a group of women to marry you, I know why they said no to you.

I do not want to sound rude, but you need to get some reality of yourself. This will take time, so forget about getting married and focus on yourself.


jlthomas75844
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Maybe your reputation has something to do with it.Stop asking people to marry you and sleeping with everyone and start just making and being friends.Don't ever look desperate and and sooner or later you will make friends with someone that leads to marriage


?
You may be sounding too desperate! Why are you so into getting married? Its not even about love, its about getting married for you. Don't be in such a rush!


Taste the Rainbow <3 Tara J
no offense but maybe they think youre desperate


carmen d
You don't give a lot of information as far as age and why you feel the need to be married. You seem to be moving fast 17 people, that is a lot. Join some clubs or groups you may need to have a bigger variety of people to choose from. Maybe you are trying to hard and need to relax a minute, get to know the person that you are trying to marry. Some people like to be romanced so take it slow and keep your options open. Get to know the people and talk to them letting them know that you want to be married but are waiting for the right person. And don't forget the diamonds in the rough that are out there, You know the ones that others pass by, this may be where you find your soul partner. Where do you think the "ugly" guys with hot women come from? They know that they are soul mates but it doesn't happen overnight ya know. Everyone has a mate I have always believed this and will continue to believe it. Good luck to you in this aspect of your life.


Tony M
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Yer ugly.


blazegirl
You need to get to know them first! One thing about you is that you are not too choosy!


Chris
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Because of your pregnant girlfriend, the affair you're having with your friend's fiance, and the stuffed dog thing!


chelsea19622000
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17 people ! Over what length of time. Sounds as though you are desperate to marry and they know this.


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