Why have I always been attracted to older men?

Emmy

its common maybe because you are more mature than boys your age.

Diane M

It is possible that you associate age with wisdom and maturity. For example, you may believe that older men are wiser and more mature. Older men often have more money, pay more attention to your needs, and just seem to have it all "together" so you feel well taken care of.

Examine your values. Look at the qualities you like the most about those older men. Then ask yourself why you may not think that someone your age would have the same qualities.

Why not over 40? How old is your dad? You may not want a man who is older than your dad.

OneBrilliantMan

It's probably normal. Do yourself a favor, date me. I'm older.

Ms Pollyanna

I think it has to do with your father, maybe you did not get the attention you wanted and needed. Your probably looking for a father figure.

Roller Blades

Daddy issues.

Beth

Because they are so much like your dad.

Opionated Trucker

It's been scientifically prove that women are attracted to men that are similar to their dads and men are attracted to women that are similar to their moms, and you could just want a wiser and more experienced man. It's very normal to want someone that is older, just like most men go after a woman that is younger than them, and it's been medically proven that if a man is in a relationship with a younger woman he will live a much much longer life, so here's a way to think of it, your helping a man live longer, just don't date him to get life insurance, lol.

Strong Woman !!

Did you grow up without a father? If no, was your father good to you?

You may have Daddy issues, as I had when i was young.

Gia

when i was 8-10 i would have been creeped out if my friends dads ever hit on me you have some real issues that need to be worked on because any guy that hits on kids that age are child molestors and need a basball bat beating!

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its just what you're into, whats normal for some isnt normal for others.. i know people who are into feet and people that are into food.. soooo i think u being into older men sounds more normal than the other 2 xD

dw its just the way u were made i guess, ur fine ^^

Marilyn

if at 8 you had crushes on your father's friends, the problem is with you.
you should not even have looked at them like that.
you want ATTENTION from a daddy figure
a young girl should want a young man
NOTHING BEATS YOUTH
nothing in this world

Joseph

because they are much more handsome that the boys your age. (especially in theirs 20s - 30s) they have beard and nice style and cars which they can pick you up with and access to nice places like bars. you want them because this life is boring to you
I have the same problem :( how old are you?

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