Why is divorcing easy for some women;?

mt75689

If it was easy, they probably never invested much into the relationship to begin with.

dobiz_rule

just because not everyone shows their emotions for the world to see, does mean they are not suffering.
divorce is always hard for most people. some show it, some don't.

Harriet

I really doubt it's an easy choice for anybody, unless the relationship has been dying for years, and in a sort of slow nice way so they can realise it, and then the actual divorce isn't too painful.

I think it's very wrong of you to assume it's an easy choice, not just for some people but for "most women"! Remember some people might on the surface pretend to be less upset than they are. I can tell you when something bad happens I don't go around crying in public but I'm devastated inside. And sometimes people make a difficult decision they wrestle over, but to other people they make it seem like an easy choice. Do you know about most women's divorces? What impression are they giving out that makes you think it's easy?

Even when the woman knows she has to leave a cheater or a beater or whatever, it's often not easy. That's why so many people don't leave their abusive partners!

Harriet

Cutie Pie

because when they marry, they dont see their partner as ONLY ONE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE.. they may at the begining, but if he changes a bit or their relationship gets a bit boring for her.. she already thinks about how shes better off without him and can find someone else..
it should never be that way..
for me, my partner is the only one.. we have been thru aloooot, and i never want to give up on him cuz i concider him as the only one and i want to be with him and not be soo into my pride and how i can be better without him and there can be someone else who will treat me better etc etc.. thats all BS..
ive even told him that if he ever feels like leaving, he can leave.. but he should never think that ill be with someone else, no matter what.. even if he finds someone else or this and that.. i want to be with only one man forever.. and think of only one man for the rest of my life..

midnight2197

They've probably checked out more by the time they call it quits.

JellybeanLOVER

Because every relationship is different. You can compare your situation with someone else's. People have different morals, values etc people divorce for different reason.

Sue B

Probably because their sick of being abused.
Or havig him be unfaithful, time and time again.

i8pikachu

That might be true -- you may have made a very bad choice, but have you thought about what you might be doing to cause problems with the relationship? Are you the wife you would want to be if you were him? Think about it.

Check out these books for help:
"Proper care and feeding of husbands" for you.
"Proper care and feeding of marriage" for him.

Good luck.

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