Why is it considered wrong to marry at a young age?

Faith

I think when you get married at a young age the reasons one may indicate it to be wrong is because:

1. you have not evolved as the person and you may not be able to identify and truly exclaim you know who you are and what you are set out to do. (This can bring confusion and negativity)
2. you have not established yourself i.e. finishing your studies, having a stable job where finance is not an issue, having a home and no longer are a form of dependency but independence.
3. you have not achieved things you may perhaps want to do which may be difficult or quite sensitive doing when your together with your partner due to other interests which may come into conflict with your timings or perhaps them not really feeling or seeing the urge to experience it.

I can understand why people may respond like this and this is what i am currently facing with my husband as he is trying to stablise and come into contact with the knowing and adapting to how far we have come along. I mean everybody develops differently in according to another, what i may be able to do which i find is making things quite tense for me is that i am very good at multi-tasking which makes me highly flexible. Whilst my husband is very rigid compared to me and takes time to handle a task which with the slow pace he does it at although it will eventually be achieved is it draws up on negativity. That also effects our relationship. Marriage is HARD WORK and you surely need to be STRONG and value your marriage VOWS highly to be persistent, having understanding and awareness to make it work.

Buck

Unfortunately many people do not consider the Lord to be important in their lives or to even be the Lord of their life at all. A better way to put it is that the poeple that get a divorce many times do not seem to take their vows seriously and that is mostly tracked back to the fact that they do not put the Lord and His commandments above themselves. They may not know the Lord or some just do not want anything to do with Him so in a since they live out selfish lives and will not compromise their happiness or whatever it may take to make the marriage work. Now their are other reasons that some get divorsed but I went with this one because of your statement of basing their relationship on the Lord.
As far as the age thing goes, it really depends on how young we are talking. The younger the age the harder it is to begin to build a life with someone and the more the marriage is strained early in the marriage. They both need to be mature enough to deal with the struggles and situations they may face especially in the first few years that are normally the hardest.

Mazy

Not everyone has the same religious beliefs as you. I am not marrying for any higher power's sake, I am marrying because the fiance and I are highly compatible.
I am a little confused by your question though.

mochabiznswmn

There is nothing wrong, it is just not the wisest thing..you need to find yourself and make sure you are prepared for that role and being that men mature at a slower pace it's not the wisest times has changed..I keep God first but we must realize that he gives us common sense and a spirit of discernment and understand God has things in his timing not ours

purple flower

depends on how young you are, and how financially stable both of you are, you don't want to have regrets later on in life.....

freakboynv2008

there is nothing wrong with it, is it just very unwise.

BabeHeart

Young people tend not to know who they are as adults, much less what they want in a partner.Divorce rates are higher for couples who marry very young, as they didn't take the time to experience life as an adult person, learn what they wanted out of it, get into their education or career, and have mature relationships so they'd be fully aware of the difference in a teen infatuation and mature, adult love.

It has nothing to do with mythology. No 'lord' is going ot put food on your table, a roof over your head, or intervene in your arguments. If you don't have the maturity and ability to provide for yourselves and handle your issues like adults, the relationship isn't likely going to do well. If you are so sure as a young person that you want to marry...why won't you be just as sure a few years down the road? Why not wait and make sure you're ready and that you've done some of the growing/maturing/changing you're going to do when you hit adulthood, that can cause you and a partner to find you are no longer a good match?

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