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Ms. GTO
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They should make it harder for people to get married....make premarital counseling MANDATORY. |
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Stephanie D
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People have turned to whatever is most convenient... fast food instead of home cooked meals, cars instead of bicycles (long distance I can understand), liposuction instead of a healthy diet and exercise, divorce instead of working problems out (few exceptions such as an abusive relationship). It's unfortunate, but there are still a handful of people who take the time and effort and not just the easy way out. |
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sweet_emotion
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Keeps the murder rate down. |
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missmojo78
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People have become to lazy about working on a relationship in my opinion. It's like marriage is now disposable and if you aren't happy you just get divorced. I don't plan on going that route, my husband and I have talked about it extensively. Until there is truly something that cannot be changed we will always work it out. Relationships take work and some people are just lazy. |
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Lovin'life!!
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I personally think the main reason for divorce (aside from cheating and abuse) is selfishness. They just want out cause they can't have it their way, they don't think about the children, they want to have fun with other people. They're just so immature and never should have gotten married in first place. They just wasted possibly years of their own life and their ex's life. |
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cute redhead
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I feel a lot of people get married because the girl got pregnant.And that is why so many people get divorced,
And a lot of people get married before they really know each other.I feel a couple should live together before getting married.That way they know if they are compatible or not.
And young people getting married at 19 and 20 i feel that is to early to be making a life long commitment. |
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Shadow
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Apparently you've never been divorced. It's not as easy as you make it out to be. Trust me. |
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Big J
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I wish I could tell you. It tears me up that I have to go through it. |
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Guytheterrible
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It's a lot easier to get married than divorced. And a lot cheaper too. |
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Drew T
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Unfortunately I agree with you It is just to easy to get married and even more so to end a marriage today. I believe that people don't view marriage vows with the right same commitment that they should. Also they try to change the things that they don't like about their spouse when they should try to find common ground and except the person for who he or she is . Also sometimes women take the attitude that only the men has to justify their actions to their spouse, that's one thing my wife zinged me with a couple of weeks ago and she wants me to file for an annulment. Money's tight for both of us so she may have to wait for it.... Take care and have a good day! |
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anarchist baby
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Because its easy to get married. People dont want to work at it anymore. Its just easier to get divorced. Falling in love is easy but staying in love is work but something very special. |
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Tracy H
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It's not that divorce is easy, they make it to easy to get married. People get caught up on what they don't have rather than what's right in front of them. They find excuses to not fix the relationship. It's sad really, too many kids come from broken homes these days. |
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mebo
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Easy? Why is it so damn hard? I filed for divorce from my alcoholic cheating wife in September 2007 and it is STILL not finalized. |
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JDMjosh
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I don't have an answer... But If I had to guess... it would be selfishness. Mind you I attriblute selfishness to be the root of A LOT of problems I see around me.
Maybe it's rooted in how kids are raised,... the kids who were raised more liberally in the 70's and 80's are probably more likely to view exiting a marriage as a convinience, when their parents before them may have stuck through it, even if for the kids sake. Put on a happier face, and 'man up' if you will. Bite your lip, and do the right thing.
Probably 4 in five of those 'old schoolers' made it through the rough patches and out the other side, and were happy that they did so.
My parents used to say, 'Do unto others, what you would like done to you. Treat others how you want to be treated. Put others first, and good things will happen to you..."
People my age, (I'm 26) have been raised with so little character, I wonder if getting married someday is worth it.
Even if I love some girl, someday in the future, the odds of her having good character are mediocre. The odds of her coming from a broken home are very good. And the odds of her looking out for herself in a moment of hardship are staggeringly high.
Good ol' humans. You can't take your money or your status with you when you die, but i'll be damned if most people I know don't put their own wants and needs first, and everything else second.
The world is dysfunctional, man. It's the way it is. |
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soboreditsnotfunny123
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