Why is it that my x-wife to be has............?

Lulu

she obviously doesn't want to do it either, it might sound cheesy coming from the devil but send her hallmark cards or flowers little gifts with sweet notes...am sure deep down inside that tough man is a sweet blond lady.. i mean a sweet man with good thoughts stop being such an as s fight for what you love

that's the only way Puss

Pam H

What is stopping you from filing? Go get a lawyer and file yourself.

eeyore6838

Hunny, because she is torn, its hard to divorce, sometimes people need a little break but being mean doesn't help your case. You might want to give her time, like i said you aren't helping yourself by being an ***, I understand you are hurt and miss your wife, but you are only pushing her away with your attitude. You were given a very small space of time and hurt her feeling instead.

bibliophile31

She's unsure, maybe. Or perhaps she's taking her time finding a lawyer.

Jay-Jayâ™¥

i guess for the same reason i havent filed yet. Maybe she still has hope. & is just giving u a hard time about.

Sweetnes

SHE IS A PHYSCO

bloodshotcyclops

Her lawyer is waiting for tax returns.

BRUCE ALMIGHTY!!!!!!!!

she is taking the time out as she feels you havn,t given your attention to her.........now she has your attention you need to dispay it now and recognise her needs,her love,s and expectations for the future need to be planned,when you have done all this and only then will she respond to your needs,you loved her once therefore..remember each day you have in the future as your 1st.good luck and remember the only relationships that last,are the honest ones.

facee

well do it before she does!

Calm

She may be having second thoughts and thinking of coming back home.

MATTHEW B

maybe she wanted to see if this would lite a fire under your *** and try and patch things up, or maybe she's waiting for you to do it first so that it will look bette on her in the divorce procedings

Hatakechiyo

hmm maybe she doesnt really want it and rather want you to beg her not to and fight to stay together or........................she is just procrastinating it cause she lazy with the whole process

Ramona-please step back!

It's a big step, maybe she wants to be sure..........

dedeshry1

aww c'mon.. you can't be serious..

Lucinda M

Maybe she doesn't have the money to file just yet.

Cartogirl

If you agree that it has to end, or that she is unwilling to repair the marrage than maybe you should file it.
Maybe its due to the cost of a divorce..
Maybe she wants to patch it up.. Hard to say.
Good luck however it goes

jmichenn

Why don't you just file for the divorce.

purna

shes still in two minds? mayb she wants u to come asking for a reunion or mayb shes too stressed to even think abt it.
u decide whether u want her in ur life or not and act accordingly.

American Beauty

Perhaps she doesn't want to divorce you. What do you want? If you want the divorce, go ahead and file and stop stretching this out.

morrowynd

She is probably getting legal counsel. She may be preparing her case.

You don't have to wait. You can file, too. But speak to a pro. Only a fool has himself as a lawyer.

Simply Lovely

Maybe she is waiting for you to beg her to come back.

Jaylin

u proply still love her.....i know my friend and her husband have fought all ready for 2 hole years .......they when throw counsling nd now they lov each other more then ever...and they have a baby on the way as well........may be u 2 jaut have eo sit down and talk.......tell her how u rally fell and hold her in your arms and tell he how sory u are and that it is all your fault even if it isent

Don G

why dont you file and before she does sell every thing to your best freind for a dollar and have him register all vehicles

peter rabbit

maybe she doesn't know if she's ready or maybe every time she see's you it upsets her. did you do something?

randomcutie69

maybe part of her wants you to try to win her back, chase her and beg her to come back to you... I'm not saying do that, but that may be what she wants.

racache_us

Call her bluff! www.Legalzoom.com has the cheapest quickest divorce around.

Racer

Don't know... only she can answer that. For whatever reasons, be it financial or emotional, she's obviously not ready... or just being lazy and hasn't gotten around to it ????!!

Terry H

Hmm.. That could be a good sign.. Maybe she's having a issue with expressing her feelings on the situation.. Maybe she's afraid to hurt your feelings or something? Have you suggested any counseling?

tesla_morris

I just separated from my husband of over 17 years. The separation itself gives me time to think, reflect and start to heal. I haven't filed yet...it just seems overwhelming right now. Living in "limbo" is actually quite a refreshing change from the drama. I'll go when I'm good and ready.....I'd rather be calmer and more rational when I go than when I first found out of his cheating and was SO angry and bitter.

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