Why is my husband always telling me what he is doing and where he is?

Dorothy and Toto

Usually it's the gals. Most women would kill for a guy like that. Why are you irritated? Are you just an unhappy person, or is it that you are unappreciative? Get you act together.

Only Me

He loves you.

You're lucky!!!

Hicktown girl66

Why don't you ask him? Would you rather him not tell you anything?

telaine

Count your blessings; he talks to you openly without inhibitions and is considerate enough to let you know where he is and what he's doing. I think it's wonderful.

violet

and you are complaining because...

Master Hoyle

Well he wants you to know what hes doing and where he will be, so that if u need him you know how to contact him

ladyluc39

So you know??

teri81979_2000

because he loves you and wants to let you know where he is.

LuckyChucky

It's called common courtesy

Do YOU know?

maybe he wants to tell you cus thats the way he is, or he wants you to trust him.

grahamma

He just wants to share his day with you. How long have you been married? After awhile, you'll wish that he'd share more things with you! Enjoy it and be happy that you're such a special part of his life!

catty

wel he feels that he should allways let you know were he is this is common in men because if anything happens they want you to be able to find them quickly also men have the fealling u might doubt them so they tell you were they excatley going so you believe them but what they dont know is it makes up not believe even more!

Mr Bellows

Because he wants you to know and feels it is important that his significant other knows about his day.Would you rather have a husband who tells you nothing???C'mon

So that you don't suspect him for doing anything behind your back!

shyboo91

He doesnt want you to think he doing something he should be doing

littlenoza

He wants you to know that he loves you

serina

My question to you is ,"why does this really bother you"? How long have you been married? Be grateful your mate communicates with you. When a person does this , just common courtesy in case something happens, one knows where to reach them. Hm, on the other hand, maybe he might feel , you don't trust him and wants to show you , he cares for you. You don't give the state of your marriage at this point. All whom are reading can only speculate toward the real meaning of your question. When your mate stop communicating toward you in any manner is a red flag .
Serina

graciegirl

I'm the same way....I'm sure he expects the same from you, my fiance is not like that at all, i always ask him where he's at what he's doing not because i'm trying to control him but because i like to know what time i should expect him home and what not, i tell him all details incase something happens to me he knows where i've been and my agenda for the day

AnnieD

He wants you to know where he is and what he's doing because he values your marriage. Appreciate the gesture!

Bryan M

He wants you to be able to trust him, that's why he does it.

When I leave work if my wife is at home, I always call her to let her know I'm heading home, also tell her if I am stopping anywhere on the way.

It's a way that we can be accountable.

Your husband is using it as a way to be accountable to you so that you can trust him that he's not cheating on you.

Honestly I think it's a very good thing. At least then you know what he's doing.

kellygirl

He has respect and love for you ,it's a good thing.

gonzalezleon3022

Take that as a good thing. Its a way of having communication and maybe he just wants to let u know what he is doing or where he is in case of an emergency u know exactly where to find him. Give the guy some credit most women have to go on a manhunt just to find out where their man is at or just to get them to talk to them.

chingona1027

has there ever been a problem with trust or cheating in your relationship?? if so, he might be telling you everything so that you know that he's not doing it again. or, he could be "projecting" meaning that he is telling you all of this info b/c he does have something to hide and doesn't want u to ask him questions so he tells you his story before you get the chance to ask him first. i would confront him about it. tell him that you love knowing what goes on all day but you don't need to know every single detail unless there is something more serious going on. good luck!!

bryan c

Maybe he wants to show you he can be trusted??? Just a thought.

I luv my kids

Consider yourself lucky. Mine just lets me guess.

tiki

Because he has nothing to hide. You should be glad. I wish I could find a guy like that.

sorcergeek

Maybe he's afraid you don't trust him.
He doesn't want to come home to you angry going "Where were you???"
My husband sometimes does this. If I think it's getting unnecessary I will tell him to go out and have fun and if I start wondering where he is, I tell him I will call him.
Or sometimes I drop a sarcastic catty remark like "And you had to call me to tell me that? Are you pu**y whipped or something?"

lovenotlost

He is doing this because he loves you and wants you to trust him 100%. You will never have to worry about his straying as long as he keeps you informed of his whereabouts.

auntdeen06

He only wants you to trust him.He is letting you know his every movement,so you don't ever worry,or wonder.He must love you a lot.

Nancy M.

Quit your complaining. I would have given anything if my first husband had been like that. We had problems communicating with each other. He would not let me know where he was at. He seemed to think that I should already know. He took everything for granted. I am married again and this one is sometimes like that. He does talk to me all the time. Be happy that your husband wants you to know and he talks to you.

texas tornado

Is that a problem????
Look, he obviously cares enough to let you know what he's doing or where he is going. Jeez, to bad more of them couldn't be like that...

twicebitten

Good job Chingona 1027, You are keeping it real. My husband would start early in the day, mid-morning, midafternoon, calling to tell me where he was. It all seemed real until at the end of the day after he returned home, that he himself couldn't elaborate on his daily. Fishy??? Yep. Then I ran into him out and about around town, both times, he freaked out accused me of following him! Small town so noone was following him. Turns out I wasn't the only one who was thinking he was fishy, the company he worked for activated the GPS on his company truck, BUSTED, FIRED, he lost his 6 digit a year income. ladies listen up, if you SO just starts volunteering his every move, you better get involved, he just making sure you stay at home, don't ask questions and get to you before someone else does and tells you what he is really doing!!!!! We are now seperated, and he continues to see the other woman he was spending so much time with most of his days for the last 9 years.....I consider myself worthy of an honest man...which he is not....ladies watch you back side the world is full of men with issues......put yourself first...you will find a man that will do the same for you otherwise you get a cheater and you are the least of his concern..

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