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Why is my wife upset over this?

My wife caught me pleasuring myself to a video of our young hispanic housekeeper on our surveillance camera. I cannot see how this is cheating but she insists that it is a betrayal of her trust. How do I get her to understand that I need a release especially because she does not give me oral (deep throat).
this has nothing to do with how much I love her, but how can she see this as cheating?


    




Bigsunny
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you should switch over to men. ill give you as much deep throat as you want!!!!!!!! i have a maid outfit with your name on it ; )


hipmom
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Ever consider listening and working it out with your wife...not us?


Little Dragon
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you should be pleasuring yourself with your wife, not a video of your housekeeper. i can see where she'd be pissed.


skittles
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she thinks that u are interested in other women cause you r watching them i would agree with her


kimbakererie
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The video is what got you in trouble. Do you really need it?


kerida_menina
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Ok so what if she did the exact same thing?? U r a pig and if you were my husband i'd take you to the cleaners for every little penny u got..


Have a GREAT day!
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Lol. Youre an idiot if you cannot work this one out in your head.


Red Rose
Honestly, how would you feel if you caught your wife pleasuring herself while watching a video of the pool boy or the gardener or the bag boy down at the local grocery. You wouldn't feel upset?


Jenn
uhhhhh HELLOOO! because you were that turned on by another woman! Honestly, how would you feel if you caught your wife pleasuring herself to a pic or video of a man who was probably more attractive than you?? i'm pretty sure any guy would be jealous. And #2 thats just creepy and stalkerish!! You could have just used playboy or something...i feel bad for your wife and your housekeeper.


Brody_23
Talk to her about this. You're pleasuring yourself, not like you're asking someone else to do it for you. And partly its a fault for not giving you a deepthroat, which results you to this.

And she should also know that you're doing that for the sake of pleasuring yourself. I think she's just jealous that you're not pleasuring yourself to your own wife.

Just talk to her about this, get this matter settle. I don't think its sucha a big deal. For me, I watch p.o.r.n and my Girl doesn't mind. She might even join in and watch with me. Hahah.

She's just jealous.


Just Me
I don't think you can say that is was cheating. Maybe your wife does not like it orally. Maybe the wife sees it as cheating because you are pleasuring yourself using another women to do so. You need to just explain what you did in your question. Hope this helps.


fastkat74
no i'ts not cheating. lol but i totally understand why she is pissed off. make something up, don't tell her you were doing it to the maid.


becca.boo09
first, im sure u would u freak if u found ur wife masterbating infront of ur lawn guy. and second it is a betrayal of her trust because she expects that u will only want to those things with HER not some housekeeper?. she want to be re-assured that it was only a fling that u completely did not do it for the housekeepers love. or fure ur sattisfaction. when u got married u vowed for trust, that isnt being trust worthy, if she knew you were going to do that before u got married she would not of married u, any women wouldnt. and if she knew wut u were doing before u did it she would want to stop u. dont u think?


Plethera of Ideas
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If you saw her watching a video of men on the beach topless or something involving other men, would you get mad or upset?
She's probably worried that the man she married might leave her for another woman. Once you're married, you can only be and admire one person (in some cases). But it seems your wife would prefer you not look and admire other women.
--I would suggest surprising her with a dinner and roses to make up for the incident and tell her how sorry you are and how she's the only one ;)


Nanometer {Formerly Ownz0rz}
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Everyone's said enough.
Tell her (your wifey) what you want, and if she isn't going to give it, then tough. Go hook up with "bigsunny," the first comment on this page.





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