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Why is the 1st year of marriage so hard?

Why is the first year of marriage so hard for some and not for others? If its hard then are you with the wrong person?


    




chisolmmargaret
In that first year you are still trying to do what the other wants. To Scared to really let anyone see your bad habits. And trying to get use to their bad habits. You are also trying to learn to budget as a couple. And trying to get use to the fact you are now two not one. Its a lot of pressure, Just don't worry to much about it. It does get better.You will cause yourself to second guess what made you fall in love with person in the first place. Trust me go with the flow, It does get better.


the_emrod
Mine was a breeze!


Amber H
I never heard of the first year of marriage being hard. If the first year of marriage is hard for you then your doomed when you have kids.


Jane Marple
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My first year of marriage was extremely hard because we had not moved in together before and I had no clue who was this man even though we had dated for 3 years.


Lisa S
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The FIRST year?

Sorry...not in my experience.
Now year ten....


J
Because you were both independent and used to doing your own thing. I'm in year two and it's still difficult as heck!


Alison
I've heard of this. Mine was a piece of cake...still is.

I think people say this because back in the day, most people didn't live together until they were married. So, it's probably because they had to get used to living with that other person and getting used to their habits.

It's an old saying.


Rich
Well you have to get used to living with the other person and that isnt easy..





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