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Why is this guy staying in touch?

This guy is in touch with me regularly and I've known him for almost a year. He has a gf and although i was with him twice before i have not been for four months and ive told him i wont be either. why is he still keeping in touch do you think?


    




amare
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There are so many reasons why he could be staying in touch. Maybe he thinks you are a good friend and wants to stay in touch or he wants to keep you on the back burner just in case you change your mind about getting back together. Either way, just make sure you maintain clear boundaries with him because he has a girlfriend.


Complicated
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Duh.

That's really all I have to say. Unless you are friends, the answer is a total duh.


IndyGirl
He's going for the HAT TRICK.
Come on, Girl... you already knew that.


JANEY
He doesn't quite believe that you mean what you say yet and is still hoping and looking for repeat action with you.


cap
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I believe he is trying to keep you (on the line) around in the event that you either change your mind or his girlfriend leaves him. This is a very popular thing to do if your willing to go along with it. I hope you just let him know that you no longer wish to communicate with him at all. Change your number if needed


Sarafina
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He's hoping to line up a score. Don't be the other woman again.


mrs_G
Because he doesn't believe you won't get with him again.
He can only stay in touch if you ALLOW him to, so cut him off.


smartass
For whatever reason most guys want what they can't have and if someone says no to them it makes it a challenge even if they continue to get the same answer. I would imagine that he will continue trying to hook up until he either gets it though his head that you don't want it or when he finds someone else to score with. It's all about the chase in most cases...


Brunette wife
Isn't the answer obvious?

He wants to get you in bed again.


Fergy
Maybe he just likes your friendship...It is possible to "be with someone" and then later when there will clearly be no more of that "relationship" to still want to remain friends. You are not one of those girls who think that guys are out for one thing and one thing only are you? There's a lot of us men who want to be just friends and nothing more, with no strings attached. So if you don't want his friendship then you need to tell him. Even if I am wrong, and he is hoping to have you again no matter what you tell him, then you need to tell him to get lost in the best way you can. Did you know that he had a g/f when you were with him?


Jewish FiLiPiNo
1) He still wants to see if he can get some nooky in the near future.

2) He's planning on breaking up with his girlfriend and being with you.

or most likely...

3) He's your friend.





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