Why should I care if he is married?

Lulu

what ever makes you happy its in your conscious

Yeah, just like if someone raped you it would be your fault because you're a female, right? Get real dumb@ss!!!!

Paola D

all I can say is you reap what you sew, when it bites you in the *** its Karma. Think about it!!

Bilinda G

No, Men couldn't cheat if there was no bimbo to cheat with ( I'm only talking about the women who know they are going out with married men)

*****

No, and if you become a part of a love triangle, you will be the loser in the end. In the majority of cases, the married man, will NEVER divorce the wife for the mistress. He may seek another mistress, but you will be the one who loses big time.

ScSpec

No, he has free will. He can blame anything he wants (and so can you) but when anyone cheats it is their own fault, and nobody elses.

gingerdaisy43

If he cheats WITH you, he will cheat ON you.

jamie

No. It's the man's choice to cheat not the wife's. And if he wants to be with other women then he should get a divorce not go behind her back and hurt her like that. That's way worse. And you should respect that he has a wife. He's the one that made a commitment to her.

illinoismommy

It's the man's fault for cheating on his wife...the one who pulls his pants down with another...is always at fault. And you are leading a sinful existence. Please stop...get help.

popofosho

You're disgusting!!!

But to answer your question I think it goes back to the basic rule of "treat others how you would like to be treated"

I really hope you are not a parent

Amy M welcomed twins 12-7-08

Not always. Some guys are just *ssh0les. My ex-husband cheated and now realizes how bad he screwed up his life and our daughter's. You should care if the man has kids. None of it is their fault and you could end up ruining their lives as well. Married men are off-limits to women with integrity.

Stephanie M

NO NO NO put yourself in her shoes...chances are HE'S the dirtbag. although she may play a small part in his frustration, he still has to be a man about it. you can rationalize it all you want but he's using you....youre an adulturer as much as he is ...do you really want that shameful title?? think about what an awful person he is to break such a sacred promise...do you REALLY want to be with someone like that??

Annon Y

Yea, definitely, you're setting yourself up for a great life when you cheat with a man. I'm sure the wife will just love you. By they way, when she hunts you down in a couple of years for sick revenge remember this comment.

Durango

Well that would make you an adulteress,or more commonly known as a s..t Screwing around with someone married could be harmful to your health. You would be just as guilty as him.....

lut

ranger ron

No, male or female, it is there choice if they wish to remain monogamous, and devoted to there spouse, and if you sincerely believe what you have said, keep in mind, payback is a real *****, it will turn itself around one day and you will be crying your eyes out saying, why me, I gave him everything, I treated him like he was a king, there is nothing I wouldn't have done for him, I don't understand, and he left me for another woman because ? Dumb a** wake up, once a cheat always a cheat, what goes around comes around ! ! ! ! ! ! !

redsox fan

i don't think its the wife's fault at all. clearly you know about the wife. does she know about you? my guess is probably not because even though it makes no sense, he loves his wife, or at least enough to not want to leave her. he then USES you for a piece of ***. how dare you blame her for your behvior. have a little more respect for yourself and maybe you can find a man of your own.

springchic

Yes it is his fault. BUT, first of all-- is he is a decent human being he would not cheat on his wife. If he is not happy, he needs to leave her. It is NOT the wife's fault when a man cheats--it is HIS CHOICE. I dont care if she has not given it up for a damn year--he married her and he should deal with it. Where do you think it is going to get you? What is your goal? TO be considered a home wrecker? If he would cheat with you, are there others out there he is cheating with. I think you are extremely immature and irresponsible for considering this. Try to think of it from the wife's perspective. If you cant, then do what you want, but karma is a *****.

colder_in_minnesota

You are not right. What if you were the wife? Would it be your fault, then? I can't believe you'd make such a justification.

vis

well.. just by you asking that.. i can assume that you have either never been married or been cheated on.. and no it is not always her fault..

xxALLxTiMExJEA9xx

well hes married... wouldnt he divorce if he didnt love her?

BreakingHeart

You are absolutely a horrible horrible person. You are lucky I have to keep this clean. All I am going to say to you is that I really hope that if you are messing with a married man you get exactly what you deserve in the end plus more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Resolute

No, some guys are just slimeballs.

xbuttkicker7x

well actually you are wrong it is men's fault when they cheat and you should care about it because what if the man has children?? or what if the man doesn't want something serious with you???

Mich

No, you're wrong. It's mostly his fault, but partly yours, too. Not the wife's fault at all.
If he leaves his wife for you, he's going to end up doing the same thing to you down the road. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Serina W

Its not the wife s fault if husband cheats ..it means they have issues that need to be worked out an come to an accommodating understanding to stay or move on..

That would be a marriage counselor an therapy.. in no way does this equation mean they need an outside woman to break them up .. We all are not without making mistakes, in life its how we correct them that matters most.

grneyes8621

If this thought helps you sleep better at night then go ahead and think it.
Thing is though it's not even slightly true. A man can have a great woman and still cheat because there are hoes like you out there willing to give it for free. Best part about it is they only screw you, then they go back home to the good woman and you are still alone. Alone for every night and holiday that you choose to spend screwing a married man.

baby cayden is here

well when you are with him for 5 years and he still hasn't left his wife yet maybe you'll get a clue that you are just the dumb slu* on the side that he doesn't care about

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