Why should "the other woman" care about the wife's feelings?

anony

she shouldnt u r right! if the man chose to cheat, he will do it anyhow with anyone. the one who agrees to do it, shouldnt feel bad because shes not cheating so its not her fault someones husband is cheating. if he is like that he is to blame not the other woman

Lisa D

Because what goes around comes around. Think about how you would feel if it was done to you.

babyshambles

Because its a really low thing to do to another woman.

charles s

because if she actully gets the guy, he will do the same to her.

MADMARY

The "other women" should have better morals than to sleep with someone else's husband. The husband is just as much to blame. "other women" should get there own man

hthr_1974

Well if she has a conscience she should care because she should know what irreparable damage an affair will do to a marriage. But if it weren't her it would probably be some other woman, she won't stop this man from cheating but she could stop him from cheating with her. Plus I never understood what a woman gets from seeing a married man. Is she happy knowing that she is a secret and doesn't really count in his life. I wouldn't want to be that. So another reason she should care is for her own self esteem.

I am in agreement that a wife should hold her own husband responsible though. I don't think she can blame the woman because she really owes nothing to their family.

tracy w

because women should have respect for one another

just trying to make a difference

it's just human nature! and maybe the feeling of guilt too.
about a year ago i started seeing this fabulous bloke (or so i thought) who turned out to be married - i felt so sorry for his wife, especially when i realised he had several women on the go and charmed every woman he came across!!

bluelitttt

hmmmmm ? then why ask ?
have plans?

Miranda C

The personality of the type of person that can be the other woman is usually self centered so she probably does not think about the wife. She probably has a low self esteem or she wouldn't tolerate being The other woman and try to find an available man for herself.

Wiseyngsoul

Because someday she WILL be in her shoes. What goes around, comes around!

Lee K

why should the husband get all the blame when the mistress kniws about his wife and family?? sure blame him, but blame the ***** too!!!

sarah xxx

if you know that someone is married and you have an affair with them then you are just as much do blame then they are. I hate it when men say its not there fault they where tempted bull shhh!!!!!!!!! both are as bad as each other. thank god for the descent men out there.

P S

It is a matter of selfishness. Both becomes so mad for each other that they forget their duties for their own family. It is cheating at both ends.

Suzy Q

some generally don't but the funny thing about this is most affairs are of that nature. they are not perm. its just the man getting himself what he wants and moves on until there is feelings and he could care less but running back to wife is it. they wont' want to lose part of their retirment etc. so see

K W

It's a mean thing to do, to step into somebodys family where a commitment has been made and children born and to know that there is a very good chance that u will be a factor in ruining a marriage, childrens lives & everything else that gets distroyed.
do not do unto others that u do not wish to be done to u.

sweetgranny06

i don't think they give a dam about us wifes

june b

the other woman should be careful what goes around comes around,and if he can do it to one he can do it to another.

abc

I agree, but I've seen this before, the wife is madder than hell at "the other woman" when it was her husband that stepped out!

lol_des

I guess you only care about he feelings of the person you have feelings for... It's a selfish thing I guess.

But the other woman well every bodies different I guess some do care about the wife....feel guilt feel bad....from what i have seen the picture painted about he wife to the other woman is usually not a good one so she's thinking why should I care about the B**** I guess. I dunno...

freeflow

because she is a woman too and women need to stick together and it takes two people to mess up so you cant blame one or the other. anyway just dont have an affair and noone has to worry about it .

chardonnayormerlot

The "other woman" is also one half of the affair, and unless she is being forced into it, she should also be responsible for any hurt she cause by having the affair.

Esquire

I think that if you had an affair with a married man then his realtionship with his wife, or his wifes feelings, are nothing to do with you. It is his problem and not yours. If it wasn't you he was with he would probably be cheating on her with someone else anyway. You don't have to consider the feelings of a woman you have never met!
It is the husband who is to blame definetley!
The right thing to do is not have a relationship with someone who is already attached but sometimes these things happen and its up to that person and their consious to decide the next time.

jude

the other woman doesn't care about the wife or her feelings, her goal and agenda is to get him to choose her over his wife, any way she can, she is not focusing on the wife, or her pain, she sees only her own needs, her wants, she wants a future with him, she is needy, wants to be in a relationship, and will do anything to get it. sometimes its the competition she seeks, just knowing she can take him. the husband is the most to blame as he is the one who made the commitment, but chances are if the husband has now become selfish and uncaring it is usually he is becoming just like the one he is sleeping with, someone who just doesn't care, who wants what the wife has because she doesn't have, and so be it even if the man is married, she has one goal here.she doesn't think she will ever be in the wife's shoes, as she thinks she is superior to the wife. the other woman should care but never does.

srracvuee

she wouldn't be capable of caring for the wife's grief if she is capable of stealing another woman's man then that says it all

anjie s

It takes two to tango and it surely is the other woman and the man who's cheating on his wife to blame..
The other woman needs to check herself and realise that the couple are bound by holy matrimony. There are plenty of fish in the sea, if she was decent she wouldn't involve herself with a married man..

I would definatly blame the husband!! He is the one that has to take in consideration his wifes feeling.I personaly would feel bad for the wife and probably far to guilty to put another woman in that situation but then again you cant always help who you fall in love with! x

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