Why so many wimmin's libbers on answers?

im*horny

babe.....go get urself someone new! plenty of girls out there will look after you! and as for this lot...anyone would think that theyre all god or something! keep correctin people on their spellings all the time!! so wot u lot.........get a life...people here are asking questions...not asking you all to put them right with the bloody grammer....oops lol...go on...all kick my ****...i spelt grammar wrong!!))

Angel Eve

SHAME ON YOU!
You asked.... "Is it time to ditch the pig?"

That is pretty rude!

Im not (SP) WOMENS LIB-

But I believe to each their own, and everyone should be their own person.

If your wife is happy, leave her alone- If you cant deal with it, talk to her about it.

But the problem was with your way of asking. NOTHING MORE!

missrcbenn

I am all for women's lib, but I find they can be harsh sometimes. If you don't love your wife any longer, you should leave. It will be better for both of you.

dianesomeone

shame on you for putting her down for the public...if you don't want to be with her then leave her.....don't call her names and expect that any self-respecting person will just sit back and ignore it....

The Oak

I do feel for you, man! But the fact is, you ARE a superficial c***.
Also, you are a bit naive aren't you? AS PEOPLE GET OLDER THEY LOSE THEIR YOUTH. Didn't you know that?

Well, said Alberto

Umm...well OK but you just said you still love her and also said you no longer love her so maybe you should sort that out first.

Hope it all works out for the best.

INDRAG?

For one thing it's spelled w-o-m-e-n. And you said in the beginning that you still love her and care for her, then you say you don't love her anymore, and call her names. But, all in all, you are right, tho I hate to admit it because of HOW you say it, I'll tell you like I'd tell a woman with a husband who's let himself go. Tell her to take more pride in herself and clean up her act, or out you,(or she) goes! Don't live unhappily, move on.

rodandalisonthompson

I am appalled by some of the answers you have received. "Dump Her" is hardly advice.

Could your wife be suffering from depression? Perhaps this could be related to menopause and she no longer feels like a woman any more?
There must be some reason why she would loose respect in herself and it would be worth speaking with your Doctor.

Have you tried sitting her down and asking her if she is feeling depressed or if anything is bothering her?

There is no easy solution to fixing this relationship but if you still love her you have to try. You need to sit down and talk with her; find out how she feels about you and what she feels you could do to help her out.

christine a

First of all what is a "wimmin"???? second you contradict yourself...in one sentence you say you still love her and care for her then a couple sentences later you say you don't love her....make up your mind, spell words correctly then come back, ask the question again and I will give you a straight answer.

cinders

oh poor you. Havent you drawn the short straw....LOL.If it makes you feel better I think you should blumming well tell her about herself...its a disgrace that she would allow herself to grow so huge that you have to roll her in flour to find a wet spot.Shame on her tut tut. I just wouldnt put up with it...I would tell her either she sorts herself out or she will find herself in the divorce courts.On a serious note though if you are reallly unhappy and im being sympathetic honest, you should talk to her.It might hurt her when she finds out that you don't love what she looks like or the person she has turned into but then the truth does hurt.Do you really not want to be with her though???Truthfuly though your reasons for not loving her are shallow if its just because she no longer resembles Katie Price (Jordon) However if you don#'t love her leave her.

sscott12414

If your wife is letting herself go there has to be a reason. I know that for me it has to do with self-esteem. Try getting her cloths and tell her that you saw it and thought that it would look good on her. Then have her try it on. Sometime wife's need help to feel good about themselves. If the man that they married doesn't take interest in them then why should they. I know this cause I have been there more then once. It may not be the cause but I thought that I would just add my two cents in. As fir everyone else you need to understand that most men are stuck on looks and that alone. It is just what other men have done and you just got caught in the cross fire.

Mr. Q:

I can't believe that in your heart you believe "Should I ditch the pig?" is a genuine question.

It's a question, alright. But genuine?

You're angry. And the answers coming back to you are mirrors of that.

Try asking a question from the heart, and you'll find people willing to try to help.

In the meantime... time for you and the little wife to get into therapy. You've got kids to consider.

Regards.

picture

I love it, go get'em boy you are so right, anyway your wife needs some counseling and then go on a diet, try going on walks with her and stuff, tell you are concern for her health etc. and she is killing herself. lol

Mercy J

you have been unloving in your attitude towards you wife - yes you have, alright Mr Man - you want thwe woman you married back? by her a gym subscription, help with the chores so shes got time to go, help with the kids, buy low fat/low sugar alternatives , you know muller lights, low carb chocolate, cook her a nice pasta salad, with some meat and low cal dressing,jacket potatoes, make sure she has time to eat breakfast - weetazbix is good with skimmed milk- or maybe she just has had ebnought of you and wants you to go, and will take better care of herself once youve gone??? Still sweetheart when a womn has a child hre body changes asd do her hormones, you cant expect her to have kids - and still ahve the same figure/breasts, so shes let herself go has she - get your hand in your pocket sboko in into the salon for a facial/haircut/buy her some face masks, buy her some clothes and lingerie - ones that actually fit her = not the sizes you'd liek her to slim into, the shame in on you - for not doing all of these things int he first place, before moaning, I hope you have deeper pockets than your attitudes - when you have done all of this and for say 6 months - which is a long process of change - then you can moan, oh yes and and buy her some glitter shoes - pretty ones, or better still go to a boutique - ones she can walk in. Oh and instead of putting her down try and build up her self esteem by saying positive things to her like - you look nice in that basque I just bought for you - and yes they do all sizes, your new hair colour/cut looks nice, those shoes look so pretty on you, wehile you at it - perhaps she needs a course of anti=depressants, I hope you have said the comments to her face that youve said on here tut tut

Someonetolove

Dude of you dont want to be with her then dont i know how it is to be in a relationship that you dont want to be in! Get out!!

reapershotty

First spell women right. Second I understand you. I agree that women do need to keep themselves looking a certain way for their men. Depending on how big she actually is. If she is obese then yes I understand you concern. If you are upset cause she doesn't look like a supermodel then get over your self. There are roles women and men should play in a relationship.

cuban friend

Dude if your wife is that bad, divorce her before you become more jaded and angry. Its her fault she let herself go and your fault that you loved her for the wrong reasons. Be fair to both of you and leave so that you may both find another to love for the right reasons, but grow from your experience or you will repeat your mistake

Lancer

Good Point! Oh, and you're a pig.

As to your wife...is there a reason - psychological - that she's let herself go?

The BudMiester

Hey, why you called qcumber man? Has it turned green and wrinkly?

As You Like It

I agree, but I think that if I was writing about how a man had let himself go, I would get a lot of answers saying don't be so superficial its what is on the inside that counts etc.

If she got more un-attractive as a result of having your children, you really need to give her a break.

You contradict yourself in your question, you start by saying that you love her, and then end on an insulting rant where you say that you don't love her. Whats it to be!?! You do or you don't!

Perhaps she is depressed, or perhaps she has reached that age, where you inevitably get fat, or like you said she is lazy without self respect. Lets face it she wouldn't be the first. Remember though there is always a reason, and without sorting out that reason she can't sort herself out.

teacupn

Well, one of the reasons you may be getting negative feedback is that the word is spelled women, not wimmin. Look. you want to help your wife with weight and fitness issues. Try the buddy system. Walking is the best exercise, it costs nothing but time. Walk with her anywhere she wants to walk, a nice park, the local mall (do a few laps without stopping), go hiking in a nature preserve, etc. Walk around your neighborhood or down country lanes. Exercising together shows you care and are willing to help her. Then ask some important questions...Why is your wife's self esteem so low? Why doesn't she think better of herself? You may need to be a bit more complimentary, find something about her you do like and mention it. Compliment her virtues (good things) and do not mention words like lazy, overweight, etc. and then go out and buy a mirror and take a good look at the guy in it. Ye who are without fault, cast the first stone. Good luck.

athina68

if u no longer love her and wanna be with her u dont need to ask a question as u have taken ur decisions
so leave her and get urself a better life
why all this trouble ???

champagne

really? i havent read any of your previous questions .im interested to read your other questions now.

curly_krill

I'm sorry to hear you are having such an awkward time with your relationship.

Have you confronted her with your issues? Being supportive and positive is normally a good way to start. If you keep telling someone (and I'm sorry if this isn't you) that they are lazy, overweight etc etc, they will start to believe it and and it becomes a vicious circle which doesn't help them change their attitude.

Bottling things up and sticking your head in the sand then expecting them to resolve is never going to work. Talking about things and explaining (not arguing) is the way to move a relationship forward.

You both need to be facing the same direction looking towards the same goal - to have an amazing loving relationship.

Maybe you should consider seeing a relationship counsellor? They can really help, you aren't expected to know how to make everything work and that's what they are there for!

I was once told 'bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die'. The more angry you get about it wont resolve it you need to let go of the anger and bitterness as just shouts out about the problem rather than resolving it.

Hope this is a better answer that you've had before!

tellthetruth

That not true for me I 'am totally on what is right for women and men .Women stop doing this be fair put yourself in his shoes she does need to get her self back the way she was ,but try being a little more commpassionate. I think the ladies are being hard on you because theway you say it not exactly what you say. Remember women are very emotional.Don't call your wife a lump even if she looks like one. That verbal abuse you should know that calling names and yelling won't help her you are tearing her down worst trying working out with her eating healthier with her if you are not in love with her anymore leave and get a divorce don't abuse your wife it's not the God kind of love. She may try to do better if you were nicer to her. I know how you feel but there is a right and wrong ay to do and say everything. God bless you Alright women show a little love to our guy on answers

Rio Madeira

If you don't want to be with her, why don't you DUMP her? It's very simple! Besides, the women tend to love their husbands no matter how lazy, selfish, and porcine they are. What did you expect to find here? Subservient little housewives who believe that the man's happiness comes first? It ain't happening.

Sadbuttrue

Because women want all the benefits of men, but they want to take no responsibility. you are right my friend.

robertboozychic

oh wrong time of the month for ya is it hahaha

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