Why would a girl going through a marriage break up/divorce say this?
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Why would a girl going through a marriage break up/divorce say this?
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"I'm confused and don't know what I want."
Its possible theres another man in her life who She Has Strong Feelings For.
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Brunette wife
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Yea it is possible that there is another man in her life and she doesn't know if she wants to stay married to her husband or be with the other man. |
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mamamoon
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She has been through a lot and had her expectations of how she saw her life go up in smoke. So yes she is unsure what she really wants and what is actually good for her right now. She may be doubting her choices since the last relationship choices she made turned out so badly.
She needs to find herself again before she can be sure how to handle a relationship. Give her space, understanding and some time to just be herself. |
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jed
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Assuming she is 18-24 (you called her a "girl"), she just may be *really* confused and not know what she wants.
If she is 25-34, she is confused by what she has *discovered* she truly wants... which wasn't originally what she *thought* she wanted.
If she is 35-44, she is not confused and she is sleeping with another man or men -- or women.
If she is 45-60, she is playing you like a fiddle! |
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Dancing Pen
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What she's saying is part of her still wants to be with you even though she knows she should leave. She has slightly mixed feelings, and she just needs some time to think things through and work things out in her head.
It does NOT necessarily mean there's another SO involved, but if you are suspicious, just ask her, and ask her to be honest with you. |
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Complicated
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Well, it's always possible, I suppose. But it isn't the only possible explanation. Heck, it isn't even the most likely explanation, IMO. |
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KavaD
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I don't know if it's so much that there's another man but probably feelings of sadness over the end of her marriage. She used to be in love with her estranged husband and is probably reminiscing about the way things used to be and wishing it could be again.
Divorce is such an emotionally complex issue. :( |
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Hercules Rockerfeller
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"I'm confused and don't know what I want."
Actually that's most women (married or unmarried), whether they say it or not. |
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