Why would a husband cheat on wife after 1 year of marriage?

jude

because he had the desire and someone made their self available. my husband and i were married 10 yrs, no cheating, in fact i was really happy, and thought we would be together forever. but someone new was hired in the wallpaper business he worked for, and she saw in him something she needed in life.so she pursued him, stroked his ego, made him promises and gave him whatever he wanted long enough to convince him to leave me.men cheat because they really believe this other person has something the wife doesn't have, he cheats because its exciting, its something new. he cheats because he didn't get exactly what he wanted when he wanted it. he married before he was ready, he is trying to Escape something, usually its responsibility.

Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions

depends what has changed over the year...

is he:
bored
lacking respect
lacking passion
lacking communication
needing desire
lacking self-respect

Jason O

Same reason why any man would cheat on his partner. He's not a faithful person. A ring on a finger and a piece of government issued paper doesn't make someone faithful.

PurpleDragons

He cheats because, he is a selfish man... I'm in a marriage of 31 years, and am dealing with the same thing. Found out 7 months ago. Yes, if I sound bitter? I am.... Just the same, I Love my husband very much. I saw proof, in writing of e-mails how it all got started. I'm more angry with the other woman for messing my happy marriage of 31 years. Yes, yes, and yes... I know that my husband is at fault by 200%, and more ! Just the same, my life is so totally, out of control, and very messed up right now. The simple truth is, YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG !!!! I don't care what you find that you could have improvement on. You just do not cheat on a partner, whether it be you are married, or not. You go home. You tell your spouse/partner you are having issues, and you talk them out ! You just do not cheat on your partner. PERIOD ! It takes a very selfish person, to cheat, and it will forever be, NO REASON that you are at fault to be cheated on. NO ONE deserves such betrayal ! It's all about honesty and respect of your partner... Best of luck and I really hope that whatever comes of this, you have to remember that all you can do, is to be truthful to yourself, and love as much as you can - and life does move on, for all of us...

Chaoscleaner

Why are you putting it on the wife? If he was a mature man he'd have a talk with his wife when things weren't going well. It just sound like he's wanting his cake and eating it too. He's just another selfish bas**rd that thinks only of his himself and his willy.
But, not all men do this...

benthere

i once read somewhere that most ppl cheat in the first year of a marriage. its cuz thats wen the honeymoon wears off so to speak and u get comfortable and start taken each other for granted and dont do the little things u did wen u were dating.

thatartistwin

You sound like you are of Indian decsent? In that case you have a whole different outlook on marriage than the western world. A woman "not being pleasant" is not a reason to cheat. As a matter of fact, most western men will agree that life being unpleasant is what they should expect as a pact of marriage. Us women here have ammunition and are ready to use it and it surprises me that you being of a foreign country don't understand this. You have arms over there. Go get them and kill him then demand that his family give back your sheep and whatever the hell else you gave him. He is a loser

Michael T

Don't blame yourself if you are talking about yourself. He's got the problem, not you. He probably has low self esteem and thinks he needs to validate himself by bagging other women. You may have a long road ahead full of tears if you stay with this guy.

Good News

He is a cheater. The length of time in a relationship does not matter to him. He was probably cheating before you got married. Better to find out now then after years and years.

Bored!

Because men often make the mistake that they can treat women badly.

Then of course the women takes his best friend, all his money & shows him she can hurt him more than he ever dreamed. He ends up so ill from it that he has to kill himself for hurting her.

Just Nature!

Nat

I apologise in advance here to all the "good guys" out there, this obviously does not relate to you.

Some men are just dogs! There is NO excuse what so ever for cheating! If a person is unhappy in the marriage, if the woman is not "pleasant", if the woman is not meeting the man's "needs", then he needs to step up as a man and talk to her about it. Give her a chance to improve or meet his needs. If she doesn't, and he is still unhappy, then GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE! It is never going to improve, and infidelity is only going to lead to resentment and further unpleasantness! Women, Men....take responsibility for your actions, there is NO excuse for cheating!

diamond j

Cuz his young-minded and probably wasn't ready for committment

prop4u

he wasnt ready for marriage

kitkat

DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF! He is a loser and needs a good smack. If you start questioning yourself he will use you as long as he can.

bearable_girl

Something is missing in the marriage. If he had all of the key components (communication, trust and love), he would not feel the need to cheat.

In Bliss

Some men believe to savour different flavours .. for no reason !!

cassandras_evil_sister2

maybe he never loved her in the first place?

Poppy

Usually a man who would do this didn't really want marriage to begin with.

YaWhoDee

Sometimes there is nothing wrong with the wife. He does it because he thinks he can get away with it, he loves the excitement and he loves the ego boost. Men can be really dumb.

oh_jo123

why would you be blaming the wife for something the husband does? We all make our own choices in life

Sleek

Cheating is not a matter of timing. It is a matter of desire, opportunity, self esteem, respect and love for your committed mate and last but not least, morals. I don't cheat. I WANT to sometimes, but I forsake all others when I have a man who does it for me. My husband cheated because he found many opportunities after 3 years of what I thought was a good marriage. He also says he wasn't attracted to me but his pants said otherwise. Whatever. He can't have ME anymore.

Phoebe T

This wife have choosen a wrong man to be her husband....

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