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Why would a man let his x wife control his life?



    




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at a guess
she threw him
he wants her back
she uses him as a door mat
the new girl friend should treat him like a " welcome mat " ~Show him the door
enjoy life


Phoenix
cos he isnt capable..


Ella-ay-ay
Perhaps shes good at pulling the right strings and manipulating, or he still loves her? Or for financial reasons, like the kids maintenence?


barrymx
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maybe because he still loves her?


Sarafina
Because he's cowardly, weak and lacking a backbone :)


danceswithwolves
I agree that it shows he is a weak person


O
He is scared.

He doesn't know better.

He trust her.

He is afraid of her.

He doesn't want to go through the process of trusting someone new.

He's lazy.

He likes to be taken care of-dependent.

He didn't handle much when he was married, so he truly doesn't know.

He still loves her.

Take your pick!


Katie
He's not over her.


Hey!
If there are children involved, she might be using them to control him. So for him, it feels like a gun is being held to his head. I mean, what are his options? Some women are ruthless about getting their own way, and will threaten that the children will suffer if he doesnt do such and such, or that if he does this it proves that he is an unfit father and as such will not be allowed to see his children. The woman has this power over him and some women will not think twice about using it. (Im talking about extreme cases, and hope I dont offend anyone. Im just suggesting this as a reason for a man allowing his ex to control him).


jaedee
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i dont believe that he has 2 nuts :)


Lisa D
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because he still wants to please her


AKAO4D
Because mentally he is still married to her. That's the only thing I can think of.


Queen of Beer
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Because he doesn't have a brain of his own or balls.


fellbuddy
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Because he is daft.Why would anyone let someone control their lives?


sunshine
Either he is irresponsible or they are still together.


Faith
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Because he may still have feelings for her. People can get divorced but it doesn't mean a marriage never existed. A divorce doesn't stop a person from loving someone.


lau25
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Because he needs someone to lead his life. He has forgotton how to lead his own codependancy


grr_08
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CUZ THE MAN IS A PUSSSSSSSSSY! A CHICKEN ! DISGUSTING! MEN LIKE THAT DISGUST ME!!!


Dale R
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she can't control his life ,but she can control his wallet


Capt Artoro Li
It is usually either you control or be controlled in the living process of a family so long as both enjoy it with fun or argument.


Quizard
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It beats the heck out of me, I wouldn't allow it.


teenie
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Some men like to be controlled by women just like when his mom use to tell him what to do it's not as unusual as you may think.


jackie m
The reasons for him letting her control him can either be he still cares for her, hes scared of her or the probability is that she is holding something over him and he has got to let her control him or she will use whatever it is she has over him?????? Most people don't even talk to their ex wife/husbands - What does he say the reason is? if he tells you she is not controlling him she is just crazy then it can only be that she has something on him? maybe they are still having a relationship?


Lori G
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Because he still cares. If he wouldn't care he wouldn't do anything. Men when they are not interested are hard but when they care they can change the world around you.
He still has feelings. I am going through that as we speak. My ex can't hear that I want or need something because there it is. Even in a silver platter. Please before we ended the relationship he was so ugly and hard. But he realized what he lost and know wants it back. Now I can ask and I have it. Why? because he cares.


Dutch
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why would a man allow his Ex wife to control him ???

well firstly depends how long the marriage was.. for example if it was a long marriage then there is a sense of familiarity with his ex and so he may turn to her because it's what he is used to. Also consider the fact that maybe deep down he still loves her and by allowing her to control his life then he keeps her in it. If there are children involved or financial issues, then he has to allow her some form of power in order to keep things civil... simply put you cannot always look at things and just decide that he is weak maybe there are other factors for why.





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