Why would a young woman love and marry and older man?

Women like older men because they are established in life. They have a steady job, a house, nice car, and they know who they are as a person. We women don't want to deal with the hassle of the young drunk and stupid boys. That's why my fiancee is 8 years older. And you older guys love us younger women! We aren't worn out like the older ones and we like to have fun!

Kitty

Because she loves him.

Love knows no age. It's irrelevant.

WiTcH

Who knows why, I mean sometimes they fall in love. Other times the woman is looking for security and support and would settle with an older man. Older men are more mature and stable - most of the times- and that sometimes attracts women to them.

doryanne949

She wants a father figure to take care of her....security and not wanting to take responsibility for her own life. And when he dies the money is hers, but she may not be able to think that far ahead. It is a desire to be taken care of.

*queenfairy1*Antioch California

A smart young woman knows that a older man is more stable, dependable,more mature,better lover, these are very important assets that most young men do not have.

picklegirl326

im not sure about other women, but for me, i would marry and older man so that he is more mature than me. guys mature slower than girls, so if the guy is older, he is the same maturity level

Maria

For the same reason anyone would fall and love and get married. If you're looking to just "get you one" try a mail order bride.

Jeancommunicates

Some are looking for father figures and only older men appeal to them. They'd rather be an old man's sweetheart than a young man's slave.

staindfreak814

That's a good question some people don't view age as a factor if they can find that one person to connect with,wether they have an age difference or not is insignificant.

Dacious P.I.

Because you treat her like a lady.

noel_leon39

If an age gap is about 8/10y years it could be genuine love cause some look for older mature man, if age is more then 20y then i believe its money . few examples many old man get women from Thailand,Philippines, Russia, young and beautiful some find a age gap of 5/9y some find 15/20y age gap, many of the big age gap use these man and part after they get there visa,usually 2/5y wait, the small age gap tend to survive the couples for long.
some mite stay depending how rich the guy is.

many people have good intentions as many have bad intentions, so its not easy to find out if she truly love you,unless you take her on a lie detector machine,lol beside with this materialistic world to day you cant trust much.

Lady in red

Well I am in a relationship with an older guy 12 year difference and I actually love him for who he is and when people bring up his age the only thing i say is age is nothing but a number.Plus ,sometimes it is about the maturity level you both are on ,if you guys are on the same level in achieving goals and etc.

Jeni

Well some people fall in love with others on the inside not what they look like and they really love one another, and well there's some women who marry old rich men because they think they will get there money someday. Old men are thinking with there pe#@s and the women are thinking of there wallets.

TenThousandWHY

hmm i have a 9-10 years older than me guy o.o
he is mature.. veri caring nice =]
money not the main prob..jux to ensure the guy wont starve me..
well i mean i will work =.=

there is always a word:: BUT
sticks ard too much ==''

rikki k

PROBALY SHE WANTED HIM FOR HIS MONEY OUR SHE REALLY LOVES HIM

radiancia

Money, power and good looks for his age - but I suppose those are things that attract women at any age.

l2onaldinho1010

older men are more relaxed/not immature, are most likely to stick to one woman.. now, money could also be a primary motive.. its the 21st century.. age isn't a large factor when looking for love these days..i have a 18 yr old friend.. she seriously gets a kick from checking out hot 35 yr olds and stuff like that.. lol..

Yankee Stadium (1923-2008)

Women may fall in love with an older man because she may have grown up without knowing her father or any other male guardian. She may be searching for someone to be romantic with as well as a father figure that she never had while growing up. Another possibility is that since it has been said that girls mature faster than guys do, she may have dated younger guys before and felt like they were too immature for her, so she looks for someone older, more mature, more experienced than younger guys. Older people have more knowledge about life so that may be the case as well. Another possibility is that she may want to settle down too. So, those are the motivations as to why younger women may want to spend the rest of their lives with older men.

Donna B

Older man are stable, and more mature. They also make better lovers because they have learned how satisfying it is to please a woman. And I chose mine because he makes me laugh so hard I cry at least once a day...

mimosaico

Simply MONEY and $TABILITY.

working mom

BECAUSE THEY THINK A OLDER MAN WILL TREAT THEM BETTER AND WILL GIVE THEM MONEY AND EVERYONE KNOWS WHEN YOUR THE OTHER NOT THE ONE THEY HAVE TO SEE EVERYDAY OR FIGHT WITH THEY TREAT YOU BETTER CAUSE THEY DONT WANT YOU TO SEE THEIR MESS UP AND THEY WEANT YOU TO THINK YOUR THE BEST FOR THEM

death upon you

they need that father figure they never got before.

think about it

Glad you're back to discuss this more! Shows you're really putting a lot of thought into it :)

SOME women do choose older men for ulterior motives, so just be careful...but there are some good ones out there (think/HOPE I am one of them)...

Older men can be patient with their partner, both emotionally and intimately, and less of a chance they will rush on to the "goal" in bed without pleasing their partner.

Older men generally have their sh...tuff together and are less of a drain on their partner, both emotionally and financially.

Older men have been through the drama and are less likely to participate in it or create problems - last bf (4 year relationship) was my age (32) and that's all I got - also, he thought he was gods greatest gift for some reason - so did his mom - and should be the one to be served and catered to. With older men, they have learned from past relationships and are more likely to GIVE and take in a relationship instead of just TAKING. My boyfriend now is having his 50th in a couple weeks and is thoughtful down to the smallest details :)...things most people would generally overlook, but he notices. He also speaks kindly to me, even if he disagrees. He jokes around alot, too - takes small things not so seriously and doesn't make a big deal out of basic human foibles. The nice thing is that although he is older and "wiser", he isn't controlling and doesn't try to make decisions for me or judge me like last bf was/did. He respects that I have ideas, opinions, goals, activities of my own - he ENHANCES my life instead of supplanting his will for my own.

Another point to note is about these two best friends I have...both are single, in their 50's and PERFECT for each other if they'd just realize it :) My best male friend is divorced and has no children because his former wife couldn't have them...he dates somewhat younger women and he has expressed a desire to have children but it isn't a driving need. On the other side is my best female friend...she seems to date younger men who are not very mature, is divorced and has two beautiful grandchildren. Both are wonderful people and need someone to take care of them and share their life with...I am tempted to play matchmaker because they NEED each other. I am sure of it, introduced them last night and am watching the "situation" closely...lol - they seem to like each other and I saw a "thoughtful" look on my male friend's face and my female friend has expressed an interest in him as well.

I am not saying you should find someone "your own age" - I am actually the person you rated best answer with your other question. I am just saying that you should not limit things so drastically to one particular age group. Also, consider that you don't want to overwhelm or be overbearing if you do find someone younger. Other than that I wish you all the best of luck and hope I have helped in some small way.

JACQUELINE T

Older guys are more mature and ready to take on more responsibility. I'm 31 and my hubby will be 48 next month. Been together for almost 7 years.

radarjet67

Depends on the girl. Some motivations may not be so honorable (financial gain). However some are, as women look for more depth in older men, where those needs are not being fufilled by our younger counter parts.

karategirl1621

Personally I like a guy with experience, also its known guys don't mature fast so older is better... Also for strength..

BabeHeart

Depends on the individuals...and the age difference...I can't imagine why a young girl would date (and esp marry) someone old enough to be her father (for example)...seems to be some psych issues on both sides there...

RatMan30

dunno! maybe wealth, or mature and fun to be with! Always wonderd! GOOD QUESTION!!

richard c

they are more mature and r seeking an actual relationship. like myself, i dont want a high school fling. i want a mature woman and women want the same with the men... hit me up if u want hun

super girl

no,its not money and stability.from my point of view,is just that older men,are mature,and willing to settle,and trully love someone who will love and apreciate them.i think is all about,emotional stability.

oldmanarnie

love is usually the motivation certain girls like older men for maturity
some do for money,all i have to say is we love each other

edith

i think i love older men for marrage because they are more marthured and very patient with ladies, unlike younger ones that are easily provoked

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