Why would my boyfriend visit his grown kids at his ex-wife's house?
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Why would my boyfriend visit his grown kids at his ex-wife's house?
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We have been together for 2 years; he's been divorced for over 10 years. Yet, he hasn't told his grown daughters he has a girlfriend, or anything about me. He's never indicated he would like for me to meet them. Recently he started going to his ex-wife's house to visit his grown daughters. Why won't he have them come to our home and meet me?
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Douglas B
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I think he is giving you one very subtle message, he is ashamed of you for one reason or another, but you continue to be a nice playmate for him so he keeps you around. |
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Gitana
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If he dosen't want to introduce you after two years there's something he is hiding. Trust me I would know. |
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Amanda
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Sorry honey, he's tappin that again. |
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L L
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Ask him - How old are you compared to his daughter,s |
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Lisa Marie
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He's been doing this for two years. You can't change people. The real question is, "Are you willing to live like this?" |
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Crunchy Mama
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It's really not that serious that he's visiting them there. There's nothing wrong with that. But if he's not telling them about you, maybe he doesn't plan to be with you forever...might want to ask him about that. |
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vis
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red flags are flying all over the place..you need to have a talk with him and find out what going on and why he don't want them to know about you..it may be a simple thing or it may be a really hard thing..only way to know is to sit him down and ask him out right |
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Anna
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That seems a little strange to me, try talking to him and let him know that you would really love to meet his children and get to know his family. |
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happydog
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At this time you are not really secure with him as it should not make a difference as his children should understand he has a life after divorce.
Of course on the other hand his ex could be a super ***** and have a poor opion of anyone who is connected to him.
Iam in the playpen with sweet mildred |
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Lela A
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Sounds like this is the way he is seeing his grown children, going over to his ex's house..mother of his children.. |
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cassmac
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He has been divorce for 10 years so I don't think his ex would want him back as she has done all the hard work with the children and now he wants to walk in and take credit for how they have turned out , His ex may have said he can only see them at her home as they don't know him like a father yet or his children don't want to meet you yet give them time |
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bostontea1
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That is strange, after one year, if no talk of marriage etc, normally the wise choice is to dump a guy. In this case, this guy DEFINITELY does not want to get serious. I was in a relationship with a divorced guy with kids. He wanted me to meet the kids after 6 months of serious dating and he told me he wanted to be part of his life a few months after I met his kids and raise a family with me. He ended up moving wanted me to follow him and I couldn't, but that is the past and the point is this guy is NOT SERIOUS about you. It is so obvious. |
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