Wife cheating or no?

jasonbatla

Although it sounds like shes cheating it also sounds like you were snooping

Dictatormama

Sadly, you already know the answer to your own question.

Sorry to hear that.

loanman

sounds like cheating... feels like cheating...
gonna be some cheating...

sorry dude, but kick her to the curb...

better yet, see if you can get her caught on tape on that reality series "Cheaters"

j b

Cheat

kookoo4travel

Prob is cheating. Have you been taking her for granted lately? If so, she is prob getting lovin' elsewhere...while you are away. I'd wear a condom if I wuz u!

Shubunkin

It doesn't sound good. Your wife owes you an explaination, and you have every right to demand it. Good luck.

Andromedan_Ambassador

Yes. Sorry. You should walk out on her and save what little is left of your pride. Don't let her do it, then you won't even have that.

booksavvy123

It sounds like she is definitely cheating on you. Almost without a doubt.

You need to give her an ultimatum. I know it would be hard, but you need ot let her know that unless she stops playing these games and cheating on you, you'd get a divorce. And you have to mean it.

Things become more complicated if you have children, so in that case you may have to opt for legal seperation.

If you dont nip it in the bud right away she is going to keep doing what she's doing for the duration of your relationship. The fact that she is still lying to you in the midst of all this proof shows she thinks you're not very smart, and she is totally taking you for granted.

Tara <3

Cheating....sorry! I have been married for 5 years now and not 1 day in those 5 years have I deleted a call on my phone. My hubby could look at all my calls anytime he wanted because I have nothing to hide. Your wife is guilty or she wouldn't be hiding things from you.

About you loving your wife & your life. I think your perception of your life is a lot better than facing reality!! I promise you can deserve better, someone who will not cheat. Once the trust is broken the marriage is usually over. You can try and ask her for the truth but she will just continue to lie. I would start making preperations ---financilally, to be seperated. Also start writing down things to build your case in court. Best wishes!

hitchnj

sorry..

FreeSpirit

If you want a real answer...I think so.
Follow your gut!!!
Good point...see if she's lacking any type of attention.

loves it 99 _ xo

wow,
kinda sounds like it.
i sure hope not :( :(

chris

unles we personally know both of u i dont c how u r expecting to get a good answer....im sry though.....u can sit down and have a serious talk about ur relationship...dont let her not answer u either...ask her to be hinest, then go with ur instincts

kimmy

its possible. but it may not be. you should talk to her about it

cecelia_aamodt

You shuld call the guy and talk to him. I cheated on my last boyfriend of 2 years. I would sleep with my phone!

Alyssa M

You really have to confront her about this. Be nice about it, but if she still denies the claims, put your foot down and tell her you wont stand for it. Try to find out why she may want to cheat. Is something not satisfying her? Perhaps you she question her on that as well. If you are both willing to save your marriage, then you both will have to be honest with each other on all topics. I wish you the best of luck!

Sassy Shut Your Mouth

It appears she is cheating sorry to say. You can email me at thickndsassy and I can provide some tips on finding out. I rather not post here. Anyhow, one of the biggest clues is if she is wearing panties now that she's never or stopped wearing for you. There is no reason to hide recent calls unless you have something to hide. Also, depending on your mobile provider you can view your account details online.

luv_my_rats

Sorry but it all seems tooooo suspicious of cheating.

If she still continues to lie, deny, and cheat, hire a private investigator to do the dirty work. Don't let her know.

If she still continues the infidelity, and refuses to go to couseling (you both have to go) to work on what problems are between you guys that made her feel she had to seek attention elsewhere, then unless you want to remain married to a cheater a divorce is in order. Use the evidence from the PI to help your case and hopefully make it go quicker and with less bickering of financial affairs... yeah and get that stuff in order, too. Everything that is yours, take photograph or video documentation in case it goes missing during the split up.

Tara

Catch her.

Then you will know for sure.

"Back off" so she won't think that you suspect anything. But bide your time .. and you will catch her .. the opportunity will come to you.

Be sure that you want to know the truth.

Aussiemum

Confront the man on the phone ......ask him why he is texting your wife?????

Theres definatley something going on, otherwise she wouldnt be deleteing her calls and sms's.

deerlady2000

From what you have said i think its obvious what is going on. I think its still in the talking stage now, but that wont last. it will become physical. She is not being honest with you and is lying. I really wish there was something i could do to help you. Your the only one who can help you. You deserve to be treated with love and respect and faithfulness. God bless.

prettylarina1205

Sounds like she is. So sorry I think inside you know whats going on you have the proof when you txtd back and a man called her ph. Its hard to admit it to yourself but you have to come face to face with it. I know your probley dying inside but you have to show her your strong. She probley is walking all over you cause you let her do it in past. Think strongly about the next step. Don't and I MEAN DON'T confront her MAD AS HELL. and DON'T let her see how bad she hurt you. That would just give her control over you. And things won't get solved if shes in control. Trust me I've been there.

keyz

Yes.

All I can say is I'm sorry. See a marriage counselor by yourself or get some books on how to proceed from here. Know that her cheating and lying really isn't about you.

Deb

sorry to say but she is lying if she says she isnt lying then you go beside her listen and have her call him and then prove to yourself what a *****

futbol or football

I would not jump to any sudden conclusions, but you need to watch out for it. Not get super sucipicous because that might ruin your relationship if she is not, but just watch out cause she might be.

Linni

She may not have had a physical relationship yet, but she is definitely crossing the lines of emotional fidelity to you.

Tee C

Has she cheated on you before? if so then I can understand why you feel the way you do, but if she has not don't be so quick to jump to conclusion. It could easily be a freind. Hang on a second!But then again, friends don't call their friends "baby". I would lie and tell her that I spoke to her friend and found some interesting news. Her reaction will asnwer your question.

margie k

sounds like cheating to me, have you followed her or checked up on her at work?? you need to know for sure, and also since you have this guy's number find out who he is and where he lives and check that out too. sad but it's better to know for sure....... best of luck.

Judy

She is cheating...or she has an internet fling. Either way, not good.

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