Wife pressuring for 3some? (ADULT)?

anibelleaz1

Don't give in... it will ruin your relationship.... trust me.

Foxy Roxyy

look at yourself because she doesnt seem to be satisfied. also, make sure its not a specific guy she has in mind. cuz maybe she is into him and this is her way of "not technically cheating"

Buddy!

I think it is great that she feels open and trusting enough to tell you her fantasies.. That alone means you 2 have a strong relationship.. Some couples can't discuss those thing with there spouse.. At any given point you both will have fantasies that you will want to fulfill with your partner.. It doesn't have to mean she is bored with you but perhaps she wants to spice things up.. Tell her how you really feel about it... Tell her about any fantasies you have.. be open with each other.. maybe you fulfill hers and she fulfills yours.. This could be fun for both of you.. and if you arn't comfortable tell her... Hope this helps.. I am just happy to know you 2 can at least feel comfortable talking about this.. some can't at all... Just let her know that pushing you isn't the way to go.. if that is how you feel.

Lily B

Don't Give in. It will be NO GOOD for your relationship. I ould just set her in her place, tell her, if she ants to be ith another man, go!! just dont exspect me to be here hen you get back

Nikki

I am all for having a good time, but if your not comfortable this could cause serious problems in the marriage. Why is she so persistent about a three-some? Just wondering.

indiansbearsandangels

If you are not comfortable with that, tell her honestly!

You can play fantasy games with her using toys and such without having someone actually there. Maybe that will help.

But really - if you don't approve, or you feel uncomfortable...tell her. And remind her of your vows and also mention the everlasting effects that doing something like that can do to your relationship.

What sounds good in a fantasy - isn't always something that you can live with after the act is over.

Good luck!

No one

If you think you can handle it then give it to her. Make sure that she isn't going to hold a double standard though and would be willing to give you one with another woman if that is what you want. If you can't handle it and feel you would be jealous and that it would change your relationship then don't. If you do then make sure that any boundaries are set before you even enter into it. Good luck.

silly_me

Not a good idea. Introduce some other fantasy characters and toys to spice things up, but not aother person.

How have you answered her? If you said, No - not for me... Then she should respect you. However, if you said maybe or let me think about it, then she is feeling that it is something you are willing to do once you've processed the whole situation. Not many couples can handle swinging or multiples in their relationship. Someone always get's left out & hurt.

Ting Tong K

negociate. you get to choose the other man.

i love red tank tops

tell her use her toy instead of a real man. lol

scott_v1963

If there are kids, be very cautious.

No kids, go for it. Set the rules. But go for it. I'd love to see my wife in that situation. Quid pro quo would make it even more of an enticing opportunity.

harold

Then you need to let her have her way. If not she will get it on her own, how would you feel about her having a 3some without you?.

jamiroquai fanatic

give her a treesome, you never know, but tell he only if you get one with another woman lol

ndnqt1966

Give her the threesome...then it won't be long until you are giving her a divorce...BEEN THERE AND DONE IT!

Happy-2

You sound certain you don't want to do it, so the issue becomes one of simply communicating that clearly to your wife. Look her in the eye, speak clearly and assertively, and tell her that you are not now nor ever going to be OK with the idea of a threesome, case closed, end of discussion, no point in ever bringing it up again, because it's not going to happen, plain and simple. If she ever ever even tries to bring it up again, just say, "I feel certain that I have made my position on that idea crystal clear."

fiasau2007

As a female I would say dump her, Or sit back and watch. does she wan't you in on the action or does she want to cheat without getting into trouble? Ask her if she would do a threesome with another chick instead.

Greasy Tony

Don't do it. It should be a 3some with another girl.
Do you really want to be standing in the same room with another naked guy?

JONES

I would give it to her, but only if she would let you have one with another woman. Just make some rules that make it a little less ocward, cause she'll do the same when a woman is involved.

Chilly Willy

I guess it better for you to be there,than her doing behind your back...

Durango

This will only hurt your marriage in the end. She must not take her vows seriously !

Some fantasies should stay as fantasies!

anaane2002

go to http://www.TABOOspot.com to find more individuals :)

ChErRy ChOpStIx

I dont even wat to answer the question....you two are married. You are supposed to be her only desire....I will never do it or give in to her pressure....

Ask her: What can a second partner do, what I cant??

Giggles!

Three somes aint all good mate... Nothing good will come of this. Tell your wife how you feel. DO NOT BE PRESSURED INTO ANYTHIN YOU DO NOT FEEL COMPHY DOING!!!

traci f

i would ask her why the heck she would want to be with another man...

liam_from_england

Sack her, she sounds like a tart

Curly

If you dont want it, she should accept that. If she respects you then she can hear your no.

The word that rules, that is trump, when it comes to intimacy, is "no". If a girl says "no" and you as a man dont stop then its rape. Her no is her trump.. she gets to say what does not happen to her body. She has property rights over her body.

Your no should be accepted. You have property rights over your body - to say what will not happen to it. You have the right to not allow the actions of others to cause you harm. That is a fundamental constitutional right.

If she is pressuring you.. and can't give you that basic level of respect - then you married the wrong woman. She wants out of the relationship, and out of the marriage. The threesome is an eject button for her. Its a way for her to walk away from you and not a way for her to walk toward you.

Do what you know is excellent. Live the most excellent life. At the end of life you have an audience of one- yourself. Be the kind of person that would be satisfied having been so in the many years of a single audience you can be admired and have glory, and not be buried in contempt, regret, and sorrow. Be truly the best you can be, independent of who your wife thinks you should or shouldn't. Act with vision.

robert g

Does she have the 3rd person picked out already? If so I'd start wondering

Valerie X- ooops!

Its the beginning of the end for you-

Seriously.

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