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jude
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when a mate begins to want this, its just the beginning of the end, and what they are saying to u is that your not what they want anymore. maybe she feels she married too young, but chances are another man has caught her eye. |
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Bear who SIngs
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Tell her to sign the divorce papers before she goes. |
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BOBBER
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Don't go there. |
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u291ao1zua
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you are at a loss? screw you if you will accept such a thing. after that you accept her sleeping with other men, she will start to look at you down. |
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mυм2GaвriεL iη ђєaνєη*ժσв:7.2.09
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Separate. Otherwise it is classified As Cheating. it is being disrespectful & not being Loyal Towards You. Husband And Wife vows Are To cherish one another - until death do us part. And wanting To see and have relations with other men. Is not part of Marrige. I say - talk to her seriously and tell her. You arent okay with this.& if she wants to - separate
God bless x |
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regjoeschmo
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Wow..... try to spice up the bedroom, 10 yrs is a long time to do the same thing over and over again. She most likely is getting bad advice from her peers who probably arent tied to anyone..... |
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Rahul
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Whenever we try to find out the relationship between love and marriage both seems to be synonymous. Love is a dream and marriage is a reality. And when both dream and reality comes together it is the best thing that can happen to a person. Any long-term successful relationship calls for effort and hard work. So when we decide to spend the rest of our life together by getting married than only the actual love starts. Love is more like a wonderful feeling, which we all like to experience on the other hand marriage calls for understanding and daily effort. We constantly need to nurture our feelings. It requires mutual respect for each other and time and attention as any other aspect of life. Love marriage can be the best thing if there is effort and commitment from both the side.
Infidelity in marriage - people who are willing to have an affair rather than divorce, the chances of divorce are already 50-50.
An affair is devastating to almost everyone involved, even if it is by consent. It's one of the most painful experiences that you will ever be forced to endure, and it is also very painful for the children. Friends and members of the extended family are usually hurt as well when they come to know about it. But what most people don't realize is that the spouse and the lover are also hurt by the experience. It almost always causes them to suffer acute depression, often with thoughts of suicide. With all this sadness, why do so many people do it?
It's true that in some marriages a spouse will complain about an unmet need, and find their complaint met with anger and recriminations. When there seems to be no hope for satisfaction, these people find themselves particularly vulnerable to an affair. After all, the spouse had a chance to meet the need, but refused.
We are all wired for affairs. The only people who are exempt are those who are utterly incapable of meeting someone else's emotional needs. If you can't meet anyone's needs, no one will ever fall in love with you. But if your spouse has anything to offer others, and you are not meeting an important emotional need, commitment to "forsake all others" can become words without meaning.
My Advice: Please sit across the table and thrash this issue out and if the problem remains inresolved it would be better to part rather than be a part of such an arrangement.
Good Luck> |
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♥GaShForiNg♥
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That's really stupid . She wants to sleep with others rather than you ? lol . If I were you I would talk with her and file for divorce . Good luck man . |
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jr864
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Omg,
You poor thing.
But I think it's obvious that if you're wife wants to have an intimate relationship with another man then something is wrong.
Talk to her.
Or you could try seeing a marriage counsellor.
Obviously something is wrong. '
Maybe it can be fixed maybe it can be fixed.
Good luck.
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SS
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Is she crazy? She wants to try other men? Divorce her and kick her a$$ outta the house. Do you deserve to be treated like this? |
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Blondie
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I wish there were more married women about with the same view!
The answer to your problem is - you got together & married too young. She now wants to do a bit of what she missed out on when she was younger. |
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♥SEVEN♥
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WOW...there is nothing you can do but let her know that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Let her know that you do not condone it. Tell her that if she step outside of your marriage than you will file for divorce. If she still goes out and sleep with another man, than you have your answer...she doesn't want you anymore. :( |
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cfoster001
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You married the wrong woman. Your wife should be satisfied with you only. Here she is thinking of another man when she has you. |
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Michael T
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Why would she want to do that? What does she hope to get from it? For a few moments of excitement she's willing to risk her husband and family? I seriously question her judgment. If I were you I'd be wondering if my marriage was on sound footing. |
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Rich
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What's the real issue? Why would she want this unless it's a fantasy.....the real question is how do you feel about it and will you change you mind? I'd suggest some deep soul searching from both you and your wife. Then make the decision based on fully understanding the risks and maybe the rewards. |
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Shetedon
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Well at least she is being honest which a lot of people never live up.
If you are against this then let her know. But I see this as the beginning to an end. |
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creepycookie
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try a swingers party so you can experience these things together. |
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Lisa
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sleep w/ other women or join them, maybe she'll let you bring another woman in for a 3some |
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mandy s
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well ya'll can be swingers and trade partners with other couples so you'd get to sleep with other women. but it's only safe to do that if you're very secure in you're marriage. if not then try seeing a couples counselor. if not that then maybe you two should take a break. you're both young. maybe ya'll will find your ways back to eachother...if not then move on. |
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SatinSue
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well if youre ok with it, let her
if not, dont
its as simple as that |
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Dan
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there are many men who get off on it |
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