Will he change his ways for this baby when he didn't for his other one?
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Will he change his ways for this baby when he didn't for his other one?
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my ex husband has gotten another girl pregnant that he has only been w/ about 6 months if that, he doesn't take care of his other kid and let's his family do most everything, he does a little fun stuff here and there w/ his daughter. He was mentally abusive to me and treated me like dirt basically before I left him. I am concerned though that he is gonna do a turn around and be there and support this woman and make a nice little 'family' like he never did w/ me. Is that likely to happen or if he was a deadbeat loser w/ me will he probably be the same way w/ her too?
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ouragon
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Please call 800.799.SAFE for a local referral for counseling. Usually it's free. You are so clearly still suffering mentally from the abuse you were subjected to. That man should be the last thing on your mind. You should be thinking of yourself and your child, of getting healthier and moving on. If you go out into the world without your head on straight, the next man you choose will be an abuser, too.
He's going to abuse her just like he did you, because he's still the same broken man that he was. Please get some help so that you don't stay broken, too. |
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Valerie X Account #19!!!
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Why do you care?
That is what I am wondering.
If he was so horrible, be glad he is gone. |
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Bonnie
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First of all you can't live in the past. Chances are he isn't going to change. But you should move on and forget him. You should not want him back anyway.. Once a worthless father always a worthless father. Don't let it bother you. |
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Kristiane-Cubical ninja
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First off, don't dwell on your ex, it will only make you feel bad.
Secondly, odds are he is how he is for good. Pity her because you know what is in store for her. |
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Doc Phil
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a woman marries a man and thinks she can change him, she never does.
a man marries a woman and hopes she will never change,
she always does.
just a fact of life |
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chik7896
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WHo cares, this woman has to deal with him now, not you! |
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mom 2 be
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If he didn't change with the first child he won't change for this one |
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Memory
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It all depends if he loves her or not. Also chances are high, that if he was a bad parent to his other child, he will be a bad parent to the one on the way. |
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free_angel
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Your concerned over nothing. He will always be a dead beat worthless father. |
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The African Queen
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He probably won't change, but it is possible & it isn't your problem anymore. At least you don't have to deal with it. |
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MM
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Odds are he won't change. But if he does, well, why would you want him to cause someone else - especially an innocent, helpless child who didn't have any choice about being put in a bad situation - the same kind of pain that he caused you?
Whatever he does from here on out won't change what's already happened to you. I'm sorry you had to go through it, but all you can do is focus on healing. |
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♥♥ LINDA ♥♥
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He wont change. He will do the same thing to this one. What a sorry A** hol* |
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♥ Uwish ♥
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He's your ex....Who Cares?
And if he does change? What are you going to do about it? Maybe he will start coming around more often for his child with you.
No one here can tell you for sure what will happen. Only time can tell |
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Seriously?
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To answer your first question - I doubt it, but then again there is free will and anything is possible...
And you care because? Jealous at what he may possible do for this one? You need to fill your time with other things my dear. |
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P1 Rubber Ducky
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doubt he'll change...but you should hope he does. don't wish for this woman what he put you through you know
anf if he does he'll prob treat his other children better |
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sexychocolatecity21
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Who cares!
He's not your man anymore, you made a decision to get out of the relationship because it was abusive. He can change and he may make a great father and husband some day, that does not mean that you were suppose to stay in abusive relationship hoping that he was going to make this change. It most importantly means that you dont sit and pine wondering if he goings to make this change with her. You need to make some changes about yourself. Find out how you can reposition yourself to be a great mother to your child and a good person to yourself. Find out how you can love yourself and honor yourself and make sure you never get yourself in a relationship like the one you were in with him. |
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KitKat
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Why does this concern you? Sounds like you are getting jealous if he does make a nice little family. He is your ex, leave it at that. If you voice your "concerns" to her, you are going to look like the desperate one that wants him back. |
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Praying for A Blessing!!!!!!
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it really shouldn't matter you just be the best mom possible to your baby |
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court court
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It could go either way but most likely he is regreting what he did with you and wanting to make up for the he** he put you through by being good to his new girl and new child
im sorry |
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