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Will you cheat on your partner if you know you will never get caught?
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Will you cheat on your partner if you know you will never get caught?

Why and why not.


    




okiemuskvet
Of course we all would like to give the definative NO answer to this question, and most have. But in all honesty, how many of those yeses actually know for sure. I mean if we are married, that is the intent of marriage. But with so many marriages ending in divorce and all due to infidelity I honestly dont believe the true answer is a DEFINATIVE NO, but more like, I HOPE NOT TO, or I INTEND NOT TO or someothign like that.

I had said that DEFINATIVE NO earlier in my life as well. But that became a lie, both to my wife and myself. Well, through lots of troubles and time, we have worked through my mistake and remain married today.

Good luck to all of you all...........


jemmamomma
No, it's still breaking a vow I made to him whether he knew or not. It's still just as wrong.


Cham
HECK NO...karma has a way of catching up and it ALWAYS comes out in the end so why chance something like that...love him to damn much


2012
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No becouse I would not want that to happen to me


DEBBY'S BABY
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Whats done in the dark WILL come to light... ALWAYS!!


BabeHeart
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No...because I value my word (to be faithful) and I have a conscience. Not getting caught doesn't make it okay. I hope I'm a better person than that.


Jonny B
No...I still have to face myself in the mirror each morning.


poodle mom
no, i just couldnt do it. oh, and i think hes already the best, so why would i shoot for less? ha ha..


witchychick
Nope! No desire. Besides cheats are snakes and the scum of the earth.


Heart of the Ocean.
I would never cheat on a partner, mainly because it happened to me, and as much as he tried to deny it i knew he was, and then when he called our relationship to an end making out it was due to something else, even though it has now been nearly 7 years since that happened it still hurts. But besides that you should honour your partner and never cheat as it will get out sooner or later and someone will get badly hurt


Daisy
No. I would rather break up before I cheated on my partner. I would die of the guilt and it would make me feel like crap.


GraciousWarrior
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No. Because I'm married and I love him.


john_holliday_1876
Never. I love her too much, I woudn't do anything that would risk losing her. Plus the guilt would tear me up inside, I couldn't live with myself afterward.

Cheers


In LoVe =)
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No, because that is disrespectful and wrong! I also wouldn't like my partner cheating on me. Treat others the way you want to be treated.


Praire Crone
No but I will be more honest than a lot of your answerers and say that it has crossed my mind a few times in the last 31 years that I have been married to him. I love him but there has been times when we have grown away from each other. Thankfully that was only for a SHORT period of time in those cases but I have had the urge as I am sure that he has as well. Being a human being dictates that we will have urges for things that maybe aren't so good for our relationships or our selves. Being mature means that you think the situation through, seeing the best course for yourself and your loved one and following through. Karma happens when we just go for the short term "good feelings" and hurt the ones we love.


Just trying to make it
No way ! There isn't anything that an affair can bring to my life that I don't already have. I'm totally in love w/ my hubby and would never forgive myself for such a thing.


Rachel
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Heck no. It would never be worth it - there isn't a man out there who is better then my hubby!!


Q-BALL
No way!! I finally found a good guy that loves me and I would never do anything in the world to destroy that . Even if I knew I would not get caught the guilt would eat me alive . I waited 35 yrs. to find him And I plan on doing everything in my power to keep him .


Elo
No, that means somethings missing from the relationship. I'd break up with them and THEN hang out with whoever I had my eye on.


*USMCwife*
No. And because it is wrong... And I love my husband, I am happily married, I have morals, I respect my husband, i love my family, I value his trust, I want a future together, I only want to be with my husband physically and emotionally- that's why I married him... I could go on forever with reasons why not. Cheating is never ok or acceptable.


delicaterose713
No...I could never hurt someone like that. It was done to me and it was the worst pain ever!!!!!!!!!!!


Ricardo
NO. I love my partner with all my heart and all my soul. Why would I ever want to hurt my partner? This is not a matter of "not getting caught". that is a very immature moral structure, to do things so that you won't get caught. We are not children. We are adults with moral ethics and codes. We live according to our values and ethics, not according to what we can get away with. Grow up and smell the coffee.


Suma
No, if I decided I wanted someone else I would discontinue to be with my partner. No since in having more problems to deal with. Make it easy on yourself.


wilma s
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No never....I would know it...This type of thing is not for me


Candi o
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no, my partner is in the miltary and what i feel for him is intense. when he is gone for long periods of time, i look forward to our reunion. The bond i share with him, the love we share is untouchable. If I cheated on him while he was gone, those feelings would change. I never want to change the way I feel about him. Our bond would be broken..... and I live for the love I have with him. Why would i want to give that up?


katydid
No. My husband is a good man, a good provider, a good lover and he wouldn't deserve it. I don't need any more than I already have.


bc190
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I don't cheat on my partner because I am a person of character, regardless of who knows or don't know what I do.


casper
No - Because I will always have a Conscious.


Soso
no,beside some religious considerations, I love him to death .


Love My Kids
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No because I would feel terribly guilty, and I wear my guilt on my face. I can't lie to him. I can't even fib to him without feeling bad! He would know. Besides, I love my SO and wouldn't want to ruin the wonderful (but sometimes stressful!) relationship we have. I love him and I love our kids and I want us to stay a happy family.


Sue B
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why be married?
Hell, if you know for a fact, you'd never get caught, then wouldn't that also take the exciteing scared part ot of it?

NO I would not!





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